I haven’t contributed much to this forum because frankly there’s so much knowledge represented her there’s not a lot I can add. My best contribution may be to ask a few probing questions so the more knowledgeable guys can do what they do.
Online dating has been a complete bust for me since I recently became single again. I’ve created a profile with good photos prior to traveling to Bangkok, Cebu, and Lima. The responses have been disappointing to say the least. A lot of fatties and oldies, very few desirables. I don’t believe I have unreasonable expectations. I’ve had better offers here in the US, I believe solely because I’m more attractive in person, physically and in other ways, than I’m able to portray online. So I think the best way forward for me is boots on the ground in a fruitful environment. Hence, I’m posting this in the travel section.
I’m mid 50s (here’s where I insert the obligatory,”I look younger than that” disclaimer), reasonably fit and good looking, airline pilot, with an agreeable personality.
Due to my job I can live almost anyplace. At the moment I’m considering the following situations:
1. live in Las Vegas, spend one week per month in either Guadalajara or Panama City
2. Houston…Bogota or Lima or San Jose CR
3. Orlando…Santo Domingo DR
4. ?
In other words, I'd live in a major US city and travel frequently to a foreign city where my smv is higher. I feel if I quasi live in one of these places I can repeatedly frequent the same gym, bars, restaurants, etc…and gain a level of confidence with the locals, leading to introduction to the kind of women that appeal to me. In the short term I’m looking for serial monogamy while being open to a true LTR with the right lady.
I hope this situation resonates with a few of you and we can have a good exchange.
Online dating has been a complete bust for me since I recently became single again. I’ve created a profile with good photos prior to traveling to Bangkok, Cebu, and Lima. The responses have been disappointing to say the least. A lot of fatties and oldies, very few desirables. I don’t believe I have unreasonable expectations. I’ve had better offers here in the US, I believe solely because I’m more attractive in person, physically and in other ways, than I’m able to portray online. So I think the best way forward for me is boots on the ground in a fruitful environment. Hence, I’m posting this in the travel section.
I’m mid 50s (here’s where I insert the obligatory,”I look younger than that” disclaimer), reasonably fit and good looking, airline pilot, with an agreeable personality.
Due to my job I can live almost anyplace. At the moment I’m considering the following situations:
1. live in Las Vegas, spend one week per month in either Guadalajara or Panama City
2. Houston…Bogota or Lima or San Jose CR
3. Orlando…Santo Domingo DR
4. ?
In other words, I'd live in a major US city and travel frequently to a foreign city where my smv is higher. I feel if I quasi live in one of these places I can repeatedly frequent the same gym, bars, restaurants, etc…and gain a level of confidence with the locals, leading to introduction to the kind of women that appeal to me. In the short term I’m looking for serial monogamy while being open to a true LTR with the right lady.
I hope this situation resonates with a few of you and we can have a good exchange.