I'd be interested to know that the percentage of categories of Gamer users are here.
I have broken it down into the following.
I have broken it down into the following.
Quote: (09-12-2017 01:24 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:
Looks like a higher amount of LTR seekers than I thought on here.....
Quote: (09-11-2017 03:19 AM)Mufasa Wrote:
Player but willing to go into LTR with a quality girl
Quote: (09-12-2017 02:04 AM)Suits Wrote:
I've been the player, but I'm currently taking a break from sex and relationships altogether.
I need to plan out (to the best of my ability) my life and determine my goals for the next 20 years. I'm 31 now and I don't see life as a player being a strategy that is going to result in a lifestyle I'll find satisfaction in at age 50.
Quote: (09-12-2017 02:04 AM)Suits Wrote:
I've been the player, but I'm currently taking a break from sex and relationships altogether.
I need to plan out (to the best of my ability) my life and determine my goals for the next 20 years. I'm 31 now and I don't see life as a player being a strategy that is going to result in a lifestyle I'll find satisfaction in at age 50.
That's not to say that I'm looking to marry and settle down. The truth is that I'm not sure and I want to determine as much before moving forward. So a break from distracting things is warranted.
Moreover, I'm questioning whether the ethics of casual sex (or even sex within a LTR that is ultimately not committed for life) is something I can live with. I'd feel like hell if I got a girl pregnant and she chose abort it or if I was the cause of yet another single mother raising a kid alone. While I'm absolutely religious about using condoms, I've had a couple break. Nothing is 100%.
Nothing is 100% risk free either, so I'm taking some time off to pursue determining what my long term threshold for risk is and how to respond by making choices I can live with.
Where does that leave game for me?
I haven't stopped interacting with women. The skills I've learned as a part of game remain useful every day.
Quote: (09-12-2017 11:09 PM)redbeard Wrote:
Quote: (09-12-2017 02:04 AM)Suits Wrote:
I've been the player, but I'm currently taking a break from sex and relationships altogether.
I need to plan out (to the best of my ability) my life and determine my goals for the next 20 years. I'm 31 now and I don't see life as a player being a strategy that is going to result in a lifestyle I'll find satisfaction in at age 50.
That's not to say that I'm looking to marry and settle down. The truth is that I'm not sure and I want to determine as much before moving forward. So a break from distracting things is warranted.
Moreover, I'm questioning whether the ethics of casual sex (or even sex within a LTR that is ultimately not committed for life) is something I can live with. I'd feel like hell if I got a girl pregnant and she chose abort it or if I was the cause of yet another single mother raising a kid alone. While I'm absolutely religious about using condoms, I've had a couple break. Nothing is 100%.
Nothing is 100% risk free either, so I'm taking some time off to pursue determining what my long term threshold for risk is and how to respond by making choices I can live with.
Where does that leave game for me?
I haven't stopped interacting with women. The skills I've learned as a part of game remain useful every day.
The long term solution is to accept the risk that we could 100% knock up these girls.
I try more and more to fuck girls who...if I knock up...I'd be cool with keeping. I'm not TRYING to knock them up, I still have strong pull out game, but it's a possibility.
Quote: (09-12-2017 05:17 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:
Quote: (09-12-2017 02:04 AM)Suits Wrote:
I've been the player, but I'm currently taking a break from sex and relationships altogether.
I need to plan out (to the best of my ability) my life and determine my goals for the next 20 years. I'm 31 now and I don't see life as a player being a strategy that is going to result in a lifestyle I'll find satisfaction in at age 50.
Interesting, thanks for sharing Suits.
I've done that on and off over the decades, and those times have always been the happiest and most productive bursts of my life.
But eventually the pussy need creeps back in with associated drama and lost productivity.
Men are cursed.