Quote: (05-26-2017 02:08 PM)Eddie Winslow Wrote:
Quote: (05-26-2017 10:49 AM)C-Note Wrote:
8s and 9s often congregate around wealth, power, and status. So, think of events, organizations, and places that are related to that community, and that's where you will find a lot of them. Also, any place women go to help them leverage their looks to promote themselves, like model photographers, upscale beauty salons, fitness clubs, etc.
This. Unfortunately, you can't fake money, power, or status. Game exists to increase a man's real and/or perceived confidence (which basically equates to increasing perceived power and/or status). If you are broke and have no friends or connections, rock solid game will still help you trick girls into short flings, but you will have a very low ceiling in terms of retaining quality women.
Networking and making the "right" friends has gotten me entry to events and situations I literally did not know could exist for a normal man. There are house parties, club VIP sections, restaurants, etc. that literally look like the scene of a music video with nothing but cool, successful guys and gaggles of gorgeous women.
The vast majority of beautiful women don't work normal office jobs, party at normal bars/clubs, shop for Lean Cuisine frozen dinners on sale at your local discount supermarket, or workout at my $19/month gym. Even the stupidest and most economically-challenged stunners know how to leverage their beauty in order to experience the finer things in life on a semi-regular basis. Us men have to pay cash or network our way to these things. That's just the way it is.
If you are not a celebrity or athlete and truly care about having access to the motherlode of beautiful women in your city, take a page of out of Christian McQueen's/G Manifesto's handbook. Take some of that effort you're putting into direct approaching at the mall and invest it into networking your way into a cool (preferably wealthy and well hooked-up) social group or getting your favorite place on Lock Down. It is impossible to do this for free - you will need to pay your way in with either money or by providing some type of value. Probably both. That value may be something as simple as making everyone laugh or being a truly loyal, caring friend, but there is no faking or "lifehacking" it.
I'm not rich, famous, or extraordinarily handsome. But tonight, because I am a trusted, loyal friend of one of these social elites, I'll be laid up in the spacious VIP section of nice Manhattan club to see a huge DJ spin all night. There's going to be 8's everywhere and I won't have to pay for my bottle service. It really fucking helps my cause.
That being said - college is indeed the great equalizer. Everyone eats at the same dining hall, takes the same exams, and goes to the same parties. 19 year old girls are insecure and still haven't fully realized the value of their beauty. Being part of a cool frat and providing free jungle juice is all you need to tap into the highest quality your school has to offer.
I was feeling a lingering need to write a long response here but this post just about says it all so that's that.
One interesting aspect of the PUA/Manosphere/Red Pill community is the consistent downplaying of wealth and status as major factors in generating consistent success in the game as a whole. There is a strong cognitive dissonance here that is understandable to some degree, but harmful on the whole.
Obsidian articulated this very well in one of his recent podcasts:
I see the reality of this first hand every day and can't understand how it is that anyone else with their eyes open can't see the clues as well. Money matters. Status matters. Beauty costs - fine women are usually not cheap relative to their peers. There is only so much you can do to escape those hard realities. "Game" is necessary, but when it comes to generating consistent quality AND quantity in one's results, it simply isn't the end-all/be-all.
So, to answer the OP's question in the title of this thread, there is one simple way to find all of those attractive women (outside of a college campus, and even there what I'm about to say applies to a significant extent):
Follow the money. Beautiful women naturally gravitate disproportionately toward the top of the socio-economic pyramid. We all know this. This has always been the case, and it always will be the case.
If you want to maximize your odds of finding these women on a consistent basis and are not in college or otherwise able to place yourself in a campus environment appropriately, then you need to look at the pyramid and find a way to build a closer association with its higher levels.