How does one deal with a long dry spell? The thrist, mental and physical frustration
02-12-2017, 05:10 PMQuote: (02-12-2017 10:59 AM)Skank_Hunt Wrote:
Quote: (02-12-2017 09:17 AM)rafaeld Wrote:
...they can get attracted to the "horny rage" you get from a dry spell. That feeling you want to pound the shit out of her? A lot of girls in relationships don't get that raw masculinity in a relationship.
Haha this is exactly what I did, it works. I came off a long dry spell and went crazy on a girl, she was entranced and fell in love that day, said I was a maniac and it was the most insane sex she had ever experienced. I totally pacified her, after it was as if I owned her, all those dozens of men in her daily life who wanted to bang her, immediately fell into the background. Fuck like it's your last fuck on earth. Unleash the incel rage. Embrace it and unleash it on her, take no prisoners. Dysfunctional, degenerate extremes of emotional and physical passion.
Simplify things. Get a girl home, don't kiss her in public or touch her other than maybe a few incidental touches. Put on some music, give her a few drinks. Then go for the kiss. If she reciprocates, start to unleash. Feast on her body, touch and kiss her all over, take your time. If she tries to touch your dick swat her hand away. Remove her clothes and devour her. Lick her ass hole, all around then actually stick your tongue in. Then go back up to the other hole but rotate thumb and finger in her ass hole. Go back up, kiss her stomach as you do so, then continue to make out with her. Listen to "Your Body Is A Wonderland" by John Mayer. When you are banging, all different positions, everything you want, go for many hours. You are feasting because you don't know how long it will be until you get another meal. (But if you do this one right she should be begging to come back for more.)
It's easier said than done I know but I feel you have to develop a ruthless streak. All of the best naturals I have known have a distinct killer instinct. They see an interested prospect, they take her home, they try to bang her, and if they take her home, most of the time they bang. You will never get anywhere near 100% success, but for any of the bangs available, you should ideally leave nothing on the table.
In your meeting with the 7 for example you should have just tried to pull her home and bang her, because why not? You literally had nothing to lose, but you were being so hesitant and polite that you potentially left a bang on the table. It may be against your natural disposition but you have to develop the killer instinct. Otherwise you'll be stuck in the abyss forever.
This really resonated when I read that, since I've been wondering about this myself. I was on a tram about a week ago and this nice-looking, studenty-looking blonde (roughly a late 20s, 6.5) gets on. Even before she does so, she already makes direct eye-contact with me through the window. I was feeling quite horny that day and, given that she was standing near the doors within full view of where I was sat, I proceeded to size her up with a look of craven lust, repeatedly up and down and then directly into her eyes, maintaining some intense eye-contact as I did so. One thing that was curious was that, rather than turn her head away in annoyance - which she could easily have done - she kept it tilted towards me at about a thirty degree angle, but not quite facing me. The more I looked directly at her face and imagined what I wanted to do to her, the more I could see a smile crack on her lips, although she tried her best to conceal it. I would swear that you could have cut the sexual atmosphere with a knife. Also, when I did turn away from her to look out of the window, I could see in the reflection how she would then turn to check me out.
Incidentally, this is not the first time this has happened to me on the tram and has tended to happen on occasions when I've been in a particularly energized - and horny - state of mind, so what you said in your post does chime with my experience. If I'm feeling run down or my mood is really under pressure, this sort of thing just doesn't happen.
In a sense it all makes a lot of sense given the cultural background here. I've noticed how German guys do everything they can not to make eye contact with women here, especially the good-looking ones, even going to the lengths of sitting at right-angles to women on seats so as not to have to face them. So, although the quality of male genetics is very high - i.e. lots of tall, good-looking guys kicking around town - the raw go-getting masculinity does seem definitely lacking here.
But I've got a question I was wondering about: When you spoke about the "ruthless streak", what did you mean exactly? And were you thinking about applying this also within the context of daygame, i.e. bookstore and tram game, which is what I'm looking to focus on in the next few days? My biggest problem at the moment is trying to identify girls who are DTF in public and then targeting them using daygame.