Okay, this is recent news and I knew on friday.
Just some backup on the story: 1 year of relationship, I'm 32, she's 20 (was 19 when we began), a 7, long distance relationship (about 14 hours away and we would see each other each 2 months). I live in Brazil (am brazilian). She had a protestant upbringing and lately was considering conversion to orthodox christianity (I'm an orthodox christian myself). She also said and acted (her mother confirmed that to me) that she always dreamed of having a huge family and being a stay-at-home mother, that the women should be sumbissive to its husband and lot of other traditional beliefs. She didn't want to start university (even though she liked to read about theology, philosophy, read her bit of Julius Evola, René Guenon and those other traditionalist authors). At the same time she wasn't that kind of brainy/sarcastic girl, being usually sweet, submissive and affectionate (not only on words, but actions). Pretty much the type of girl you'd consider marrying (I thought: unicorn).
Now on me, I'm short (1,69m), an ectomoprh (I lift but am a hardgainer), have a 2 and a half years old son (from an old relationship which I broke up). Before my conversion I read a lot about Game and actually was quite good with women, specially due to my bold personality. But in the last years I got fed up with all of that and started to see everything as supericial. At the same time I converted and decided to have a family, a traditional one, with a stay at home mother, etc.
So, since the beginning we talked about marriage, etc. But she wasn't a virgin, first of all (she said she had 2 very small times on her life where she did things wrong and had sex, one time with a girl; I didnt ask further questions because I always told her about my limit number of partners - about 3 - and thought if she had more she would get it and leave me). She would beg to talk to me in the beginning, send messages all the time, making public displays of affection on Facebook and personally would be by my side all the time. At about september I noticed some changes, she was sending less messages and everything, but I thought it had to do with the 6 months mark. At the same time her life changed a lot (she moved to another city to live with her father, a bigger city - the parents are divorced), she finally found a job (when she liwved with her mother she didn't have a job and wasn't studying), went to the gym like crazy and started to uso more makeup and high heels. Started to send less messages and being more aloof. It was clear she was getting more attention from men.
I knew what I was doing: I was never needy, always showed less affection than her, and even though I'm religious was an asshole towards her a lot of times: slapped her ass in public from time to time, slapped her in the face on the streets and 2 times even spat on her face in public; all of that turned her on. Made sure to fuck her like a beast and she cummed. Anyway, last november we got engaged and since then things went south pretty fast. She would come late from her work at the mall each day (saying it was the movement of the end of the year, etc.) and we had a huge fight when I saw I pic of her instagram not using the ring (I broke up and as always she came sobbing saying you're right, I wont do it, I forgot it on my desk when I pulled it off to take a shower). Last december, the 11th, we had our last fight: the day before it was the end of the year celebration of her store on a pub at the mall, she told me she would come back soon, etc., and at the 11th I woke up with no message whatsoever and just sent an audio saying it was the end, she then sent me 40 messages on WhatsApp begging for a last chance, which I gave (before, of course, she gave an excuse, saying she got home with a new cellphone - which she had told me she would buy before - and, as her fathers were sleeping and she didn't know the password she couldn't tell me). Just keep that date in mind: 11th of december, the time she asked for a last chance.
Fast forward and I'm there for the end of the year now (from 31 of dec till the 4th of january). I notice how she is too distant. We fucked and everything and when I got back, 2 days later she started to feel sick and vomit a lot. She goes to the hospital with her father and tell me, after the exam, she is pregnant. I talked to her father and we said she would come sooner to live with me (next month was the planning), in order to arrange the marriage. Fast forward to last friday: she went with her stepmother to the clinic to see how many weeks her baby had and it showed 6 weeks and 5 days. Her stepmother, of course, caught her lie at the moment and probably obliged her to call me and tell the truth (she would'nt do it): she called sobbing a lot and I thought she lost the baby... she said I have to tell you something, "you're not the father"; I insulted her a lot, she said please dont leave me and all that bullshit, I closed the phonecall, blocked her on whatsapp and facebook and sold the ring the next day, not before putting all her presents on the trashcan. I asked her how did that happen and she told me it was a guy from the gym, they were talking and one day he went to her store and they went to his home. You remember the date of our last fight, the 11th of december, when she pleaded for a last chance? The guy got her pregnant the day after, the 12th (even her last call was a lie, because she told that was the only time they fucked, clearly BS).
Just some backup on the story: 1 year of relationship, I'm 32, she's 20 (was 19 when we began), a 7, long distance relationship (about 14 hours away and we would see each other each 2 months). I live in Brazil (am brazilian). She had a protestant upbringing and lately was considering conversion to orthodox christianity (I'm an orthodox christian myself). She also said and acted (her mother confirmed that to me) that she always dreamed of having a huge family and being a stay-at-home mother, that the women should be sumbissive to its husband and lot of other traditional beliefs. She didn't want to start university (even though she liked to read about theology, philosophy, read her bit of Julius Evola, René Guenon and those other traditionalist authors). At the same time she wasn't that kind of brainy/sarcastic girl, being usually sweet, submissive and affectionate (not only on words, but actions). Pretty much the type of girl you'd consider marrying (I thought: unicorn).
Now on me, I'm short (1,69m), an ectomoprh (I lift but am a hardgainer), have a 2 and a half years old son (from an old relationship which I broke up). Before my conversion I read a lot about Game and actually was quite good with women, specially due to my bold personality. But in the last years I got fed up with all of that and started to see everything as supericial. At the same time I converted and decided to have a family, a traditional one, with a stay at home mother, etc.
So, since the beginning we talked about marriage, etc. But she wasn't a virgin, first of all (she said she had 2 very small times on her life where she did things wrong and had sex, one time with a girl; I didnt ask further questions because I always told her about my limit number of partners - about 3 - and thought if she had more she would get it and leave me). She would beg to talk to me in the beginning, send messages all the time, making public displays of affection on Facebook and personally would be by my side all the time. At about september I noticed some changes, she was sending less messages and everything, but I thought it had to do with the 6 months mark. At the same time her life changed a lot (she moved to another city to live with her father, a bigger city - the parents are divorced), she finally found a job (when she liwved with her mother she didn't have a job and wasn't studying), went to the gym like crazy and started to uso more makeup and high heels. Started to send less messages and being more aloof. It was clear she was getting more attention from men.
I knew what I was doing: I was never needy, always showed less affection than her, and even though I'm religious was an asshole towards her a lot of times: slapped her ass in public from time to time, slapped her in the face on the streets and 2 times even spat on her face in public; all of that turned her on. Made sure to fuck her like a beast and she cummed. Anyway, last november we got engaged and since then things went south pretty fast. She would come late from her work at the mall each day (saying it was the movement of the end of the year, etc.) and we had a huge fight when I saw I pic of her instagram not using the ring (I broke up and as always she came sobbing saying you're right, I wont do it, I forgot it on my desk when I pulled it off to take a shower). Last december, the 11th, we had our last fight: the day before it was the end of the year celebration of her store on a pub at the mall, she told me she would come back soon, etc., and at the 11th I woke up with no message whatsoever and just sent an audio saying it was the end, she then sent me 40 messages on WhatsApp begging for a last chance, which I gave (before, of course, she gave an excuse, saying she got home with a new cellphone - which she had told me she would buy before - and, as her fathers were sleeping and she didn't know the password she couldn't tell me). Just keep that date in mind: 11th of december, the time she asked for a last chance.
Fast forward and I'm there for the end of the year now (from 31 of dec till the 4th of january). I notice how she is too distant. We fucked and everything and when I got back, 2 days later she started to feel sick and vomit a lot. She goes to the hospital with her father and tell me, after the exam, she is pregnant. I talked to her father and we said she would come sooner to live with me (next month was the planning), in order to arrange the marriage. Fast forward to last friday: she went with her stepmother to the clinic to see how many weeks her baby had and it showed 6 weeks and 5 days. Her stepmother, of course, caught her lie at the moment and probably obliged her to call me and tell the truth (she would'nt do it): she called sobbing a lot and I thought she lost the baby... she said I have to tell you something, "you're not the father"; I insulted her a lot, she said please dont leave me and all that bullshit, I closed the phonecall, blocked her on whatsapp and facebook and sold the ring the next day, not before putting all her presents on the trashcan. I asked her how did that happen and she told me it was a guy from the gym, they were talking and one day he went to her store and they went to his home. You remember the date of our last fight, the 11th of december, when she pleaded for a last chance? The guy got her pregnant the day after, the 12th (even her last call was a lie, because she told that was the only time they fucked, clearly BS).
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