Quote: (04-06-2018 02:21 PM)stefpdt Wrote:Hmmm, to this quote I would say I do know how to spot that. I think more accurately, I am good at getting girls into fast and carefree sex by being carefree myself. Not too many guys can say the shit I can say and get away with it, because you have to nail the body language on your part, and read it perfect on her part. A lot of the girls I've slept with are at less than 10 overall... take the final story from below from this Friday, I was only her 4th ever.
DN has laser-targeted a niche of girls who are into fast and carefree sex.
Quote: (04-06-2018 01:37 PM)jcardial Wrote:I've perfected that move and I only use it with Quebec and Denmark. Whether they are above or below doesn't make a difference, Quebec girls basically always respond by agreeing, and Danish girls, where I incorporate the fact they love Americans, normally just agree with the fact that they love Americans and call me an asshole, which is Danish for let's fuck. I think where one could see this going wrong is by considering it "negatively judgemental." If you look at it as a positive spin- which for the Quebecois I normally say something like "it's awesome, you guys don't care what people think and just do what you want" and for Danish I just give them shit for their fucked up sense of humor and tell them I have a funny sex story from a Danish girl in Brazil last year... then I'll pretend to be shy, they insist I tell the story, and I tell them about the girl who Simba'ed me at Carnaval.
Coming out and saying Quebecois girls are easy strikes me as a bad move but could maybe slip by with the right tone and if the girl is enough below you. With prouder girls I see this backfiring more than a rusty musket. As an American I try to avoid being negatively judgmental of a girl or her culture too early on.
But yeah, tone is huge as well.
Quote: (04-05-2018 05:38 PM)stefpdt Wrote:Yeah that's basically it. Probably 80% of hostels guys don't make the move when it's right there in their lap. Some because they don't have a condom, some because they don't have the confidence, other's because they don't think the girl would be down to do it in a dorm or think it's against the rules. I would say most girls in those circles will sleep with someone in the right situation or with the right person, with the exception the very rare, faithful girl with a boyfriend that still goes to party hostels.. very rare. Since I've been to basically every country any girl I'm attracted to could be from, I already have a really easy in as I can talk about some bar or restaurant I went to while I was there, what I liked etc. Are they all physically attracted to me, no probably not. The Swedish girl from my last week in Nicaragua basically told me she wasn't attracted to be but wanted to fuck me anyway and 3 days later she thought I was attractive so I don't even know if there is a true explanation for how it works.
This is just my opinion, so I'd like to hear what DN has to say on this.
But from what I can tell, DN is screening girls who are already DTF.
When you meet up with girls at the right bars, hostels, Couchsurfing meet-ups, etc., you're connecting with girls who are oftentimes prepared for a sexual encounter "if it happens."
So, screening the right girls is like 90% of the game, assuming you're a well-rounded guy with good charisma, which is what I believe DN is like.
If you go to a party hostel, and an attractive girl is just hanging out there, she's probably going to be open to a fun/crazy experience with a cool guy.
Keep in mind that girls subconsciously decide whether they would sleep with you or not in a matter of seconds (as soon as they meet you).
Quote: (04-02-2018 04:46 PM)corsega Wrote:You just learn to sense it. Yes the vibe down there helps, but I've had <5-10 minute lays in Madrid, Corfu, Vegas, Rio, Amsterdam, Toronto, and Budapest, as well. You gotta read the situation, notice the googly eyes, have a sexual vibe and test how far it can take you.
Quote: (03-31-2018 06:02 PM)DigitalNomad Wrote:
+1 14 on the year, 6/10, Danish, ?? years old
Sunday funday the next morning was rough to say the least. Back at the my hostel I went to grab a drink out of my room and this Danish girl came walking out of the bathroom. I told her how I love Danish girls since they love Americans. Got pretty close and started making out maybe 30 seconds after meeting her. We laid in her bed, I put a condom on and it was on. Had it taken any more time than that I probably would have passed, but I was blue balled from the night before so why not? Monday I looped back to #200 and we wound up hooking up at the hostel she was working at.
How in the fuck is this possible. Like... how? Did you read signals that she was OK with you escalating like that?
I feel like there are so many details missing here of how you make these things happen.
I never have fast closes like this, but then again I've never hosteled in Latin America — is it just a total fuckfest down there?
Quote: (04-02-2018 02:35 PM)Tribunus Wrote:I'm 29 and I don't feel too old, early 30s you should be fine. It's more mentality than age I would say, and if you are fun, social and easy going even late 30s isn't out of place.
Great thread!
Would you say that the kind of hostels game you run would be viable for 30+ year old guys? I was in my early 20s the last time I stayed extensively in hostels, and when I imagine doing it now, in my early 30s, I feel like I would be a bit out of place.
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+1, 7/10, Canadian 25 years old, 24 on the year
It's been nice to be back in Toronto for a bit and catch up with friends. Thursday I grabbed some beers with a couple guys from the forum and had some good chats. Some people that actually do decently in Toronto and enjoy the city, believe it or not that exists. The plan was to go to Gracie's, but when I was with my family last week I actually used Tinder a bit and one girl seemed pretty keen so I went to meet up with her. She ended up being a spoiled daddy's girl and wanted to pay for all the drinks.. no complaints from my end. Probably 10 minutes into the date she said something along the lines of she just started dating some guy "but she knows we are gonna fuck and never talk again." A little on the crazy side but decent enough looking. We went back to my place and fucked on the couch then she took off back home. She texted she wants to meet up again, yeah, no. Bonus is while we were getting drinks there was a cute girl from Eastern Europe sitting at the table right next to me and I got her IG while my girl was in the bathroom... working at that currently.
First Tinder action since November I think, maybe like 6th ever, but I guess I'll take the easy gift.
+1 6.5/10, canadian, 20 years old, 25 on the year
I went to a buddy's house to have a couple drinks before we went out. It was one of their birthday's and the original plan was Rec Room, a fun place but not a typical friday night spot for me. Instead we kept it classy and went to The Madison. Literally didn't make it through the door and both my friends had paired off with these two girls that were leaving as we were walking in. One made out the other probably played his cards a bit too hard so I joined them and chatted so we could let my friend make his moves on the other friend. Eventually that fizzled so we walked up to the 3rd floor and opened another pair. One was hot, the other was mediocre, unfortunately I got stuck talking to the mediocre one. When the bar closed we had split up with them, but one texted me asking where we went and they came back and met us at the entrance, hopped in a cab and came back to my place for a post game. A couple of shots later I dipped into my room with one and my friend stayed out on the couch with the other.
Saturday was the bunny hop pub crawl, the talent was great, ratio was decent, I just wasn't really in the mood so much and ended up going to a house party instead. Sunday- Tuesday are resting up for 5 nights in Vegas, 5 nights in Philly and 5 nights in NYC. If anyone remembers the Vegas post from last year, I'll be staying with that same guy this time.... this past week he had better than double a perfect week (16 in a week).