[The_e_man]

Gentlemen,
I'm making this post hoping it could be of some value to other members on this forum. I have surpassed 100 lays back in September of this year, and it was suppose a big "milestone" for me back when I first made this goal.
Here is some general data:

Age: 23

Looks: Athletic/muscular build. I have a full sleeve traditional Japanese-style tattoo. Persian ethnic background (though I admittedly am a rather light-skinned Persian guy). Very short at 5'6" which has certainly been my biggest detriment in this department. Face-wise I think I am above-average but that is certainly very subjective.

Living situation: University student living at home (lived on my own in an apartment for about 8 months)

Main method: Night game cold-approach

Direct or indirect: very very direct

Quality: incredibly variable. Looking back, it seems the girls followed a gaussian distribution / bell curve with a 6.5 being the mean with a heavy left-tail skew. Meaning in non-pretentious layman terms: Lots of 6's and 7's. Occasional 8's and even fewer 9's. A few 4's and 5's that I'm not proud of and generally try and remove from my memory.

Now, for the nitty-gritty part. Saying I have 100 lays is cool and all, but seeing how the hotdog gets made isn't as charming.
Lots of hitting the pavement, lots of terrible nights out full of rude and dismissive girls, LOTS of rejections, lots of flakes, lots of bullshit.
Funnily enough, I still get approach anxiety - especially in daygame. Solo daygame still terrifies me.
I have gotten some pulls from daygame, instagram, Facebook, tinder, social circle, etc. but a vast majority were from night game so I will focus on that for the rest of the post.

Some things I've noticed over the 100 lays:
- girls are high value in a night club. I'm an economics major so all I will say is this: in many bars in this city, men pay cover and women do not. A simply understanding of the free market will tell you that women have value and men do not have value except for their cover charge!
- its an uphill battle, like it or not. Girls are going to get approached by a lot of guys through the night. In no particular order: the friend-zoned guys in their social circle they came to the club with, that random drunk guy in the corner, the pickup artists (I can always tell when a PUA is approaching), the good looking alphas that have the confidence to cold approach, the normal beta guys that aren't confident but are desperate/drunk enough to approach
- being good looking makes things 10000 times easier. sorry guys, I know I'm going to get a lot of hate for this one. I have good looking friends that KILL IT. Will blow me out of the water 9/10 times. Can get to a 100 lat count with a minuscule fraction of the effort I put in. I know good looking guys with no game that pull by just showing up and doing all the work. Not saying looks are all that matter, but goddam it certainly helps when it comes to getting a SNL from a cold-approach in the club!
- number game, numbers game, numbers game
- you never know how well an approach is going to go until you do it! You might think the girl looks like a total bitch but then it turns out she's actually a very receptive sweetheart. You might think that chubby 4 is way beneath you and will be so happy you went and talked to her, or she could rudely blow you out. You never know until you approach.
- Everyone is generally too busy to care about what other people think of them to even expend mental energy thinking about you. Same probably goes for you. We are all a little solipsistic - not just the women.
- The more you go out, the less emotional reactions you will find yourself having. Rejections sting less, guys trying to AMOG you don't get you as butthurt anymore, girls dangling a carrot in front of your face for attention/validation soon get ignored. Problems tend to correct themselves over time if you keep consistency going out.

If you guys have any questions, feel free to ask.
Cheers.

[Monxp]

Cool. Now that you have 100 lays, are you planning to focus more on other things or are you still going to game hard? Excluding looks, what would be your number one advice to give? Worst and best lay?

[LINUX]

What has getting 100 lays taught you about life?

What has getting 100 lays taught you about love ?

What has getting 100 lays done for your ego ?

Has getting 100 lays changed your life for the good or the bad ? Are you awakened? Has it made you happy or has it made you numb inside ? When you're beside the newest notch, do you want her to leave or stay ?

Can you be faithful during hard times knowing how easy it is to find someone else ? Have you been able to run your game and get 100 lays without hurting anyone in the process ? Do you get your lays though honesty or manipulation?

How many women out there thinks she is your girlfriend ?

Tell me the important stuff that 100 lays taught you. Tell me something real. The rest has all been said before 1000 times but the psychological stuff is always brushed over even though it's the most important and what people really need to hear.

[Travel Museums]

I hate lay counts. I can go to the Philippines and get 500 bangs in a year. How often did you go out and how many bangs per week are u averaging? Sustainability across cultures is the true mark of a pua

[General Stalin]

Linux asked all the best possible questions in this thread. Subscribing to read OP's answer to those.

[The_e_man]

(12-21-2016 01:35 AM)Monxp Wrote:  

Cool. Now that you have 100 lays, are you planning to focus more on other things or are you still going to game hard? Excluding looks, what would be your number one advice to give? Worst and best lay?

Still gaming hard brother. Feel like I have a long way to go. I broke 100 lays but I'm still pretty terrible at being able to maintain a relationship with a high quality (8 and up) girl.

Number one advice is don't give up. Keep grinding and fight through all the bullshit. Nothing can break you and you are not going to give up. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Looking back in the past, I can remember many times when I needed to be told that. Lots of times I just wanted to give up. Especially when seeing my better looking friends having girls I could only dream of handed to them on a silver platter.

Best lays would be the most attractive girls I have been with. There's something about having sex with a girl that I find to be a "10" that is just so soothing to my soul. Sex is otherwise just enhanced masturbation, but with the top tier girls - it's something magical beyond sex.
Worst lay: oh god. So this was back in summer of 2014. I put an ad up on Craigslist because I remember seeing a thread on this site about Craigslist game. Nothing but fatties. I was desperate and horny. So I went to this chicks apartment and she was absolutely disgusting. Unattractive and incredibly fat. Still have no idea why I even went through with it. I stopped half way through. I still get shivers down my spine when I think about it.

[The_e_man]

(12-21-2016 01:53 AM)LINUX Wrote:  

What has getting 100 lays taught you about life?

What has getting 100 lays taught you about love ?

What has getting 100 lays done for your ego ?

Has getting 100 lays changed your life for the good or the bad ? Are you awakened? Has it made you happy or has it made you numb inside ? When you're beside the newest notch, do you want her to leave or stay ?

Can you be faithful during hard times knowing how easy it is to find someone else ? Have you been able to run your game and get 100 lays without hurting anyone in the process ? Do you get your lays though honesty or manipulation?

How many women out there thinks she is your girlfriend ?

Tell me the important stuff that 100 lays taught you. Tell me something real. The rest has all been said before 1000 times but the psychological stuff is always brushed over even though it's the most important and what people really need to hear.

What has 100 lays taught me about life: nothing really in the grand scheme of life. Perhaps the biggest thing it taught me was "I can do it." I was struggling with some self-esteem issues with women in the past (especially girls that are white or taller than me) and hitting 100 lays has helped shut up that stupid voice in my head that tells me those girls are too good for me.

What has getting 100 lays taught me about love: hah. I have had sex with many girls that claimed to have "loved" their boyfriends. I have witnessed a few girls girls, some that on the exterior seem like genuine sweet girls in a happy relationship, cheat on their boyfriends with me. It has definitely gotten me jaded. Really hard not to think that girls are incredibly scandalous.

What has 100 lays done for my ego: it temporarily satiated it. I'll admit it feels good being able to truthfully boast to myself that I have had sex with over 100 women. Many guys cannot claim that, especially not at my age. Sure, you. An bang hookers or go to a third world shithole where speaking fluent English means you are a godlike diety. But I did it right here in Edmonton Alberta Canada as a short immigrant man.
That being said, my ego can only be satiated for so long. It's hungry again. It asks myself questions like "100 lays, how many of them where 9's and 10's??" "How come you're good looking friends have over 100 lays but they don't go out even 5% as much as you and they put in 1% of the work??" "How come you don't have a gorgeous girlfriend that loves you??"

Has 100 lays changed my life for good or bad: I wouldn't say it has changed my life in any large capacity. It's perhaps given me a little bit more confidence. I'm a little bit more sure of myself.

Has it made me awakened: yes. Not the 100 lays exactly. But my journey through the game to get me to 100 lays. It has opened my eyes greatly. And my eyes don't like what they see.

Has it made me happy or numb inside: I was happy to get to 100. But it was bitter-sweet. Nothing really changed. I didn't turn into a super sayain or turn into a wizard. In fact, I even hit a small dry spell after my 100th notch. Made it seem a little arbitrary. Gave me a small existential crisis as well.

Have I heart anyone in the process: yes, the girls that ended up falling in love with me. Some are absolute sweethearts and my heart aches for them. The amount of pain I caused them. How I irreversibly damaged them. Damaged their innocence and their trust. I'm much much better about setting expectations from the very beginning. But even then it doesn't always work. Feelings don't follow logic and sometimes girls will still fall in love and get hurt. Such is life. Causing heartbreak is heavy on my heart as well.

Do I get my lays through honesty or manipulation: I'd say honesty. I mean it's a same night lay cold approach most of the time. There isn't much time to get to know each other anyways so it's all superficial. The lying I would do is perhaps making it seem like I'm more into the girl than I really am. But that's after I have sex with them. I suppose my ego enjoys having girls "into" me.

How many girls out there think they're my girlfriend: for sure 2. Possibly up to 5. That being said, I actually want a girlfriend. A serious one. But with a girl of top shelf caliber beauty. And even then I'd probably still discreetly cheat on her. Just being honest, don't shoot the messenger.

Ultimately, 100 lays itself hasn't taught me shit. But the journey to get to 100 lays sure did.
Word of advice to all of those notch hunting out there: it's pointless. Notch count is too rough of a metric to gauge anything. It doesn't measure your worth as a man. I used to think my notch count defined my attractiveness and my value to women.

[Il Bersagliere]

Great thread.

Let's get into the nitty gritty. What are your mechanics?

Like describe a typical pull and workflow of yours from the moment you enter the venue. How do you open? How do you isolate? Do you bounce home or to an intermediary (2nd bar or so)? You said your game is direct? Give us the gist on what you say? And if you do end up getting blown out, what do you do?

[Valhalla]

May I ask where you're located?

Are you in a pussy heaven location or average or terrible?

[Suits]

So, we are talking about 100 lays, not 100 notches, right?

[subterfuge]

As someone much much older than you with only a handful of notches, I find this unfathomable, so nice work! Look forward to Il Bersagliere's request for the 'nitty gritty' of how your pulls tend to look

[jselysianeagle]

(12-21-2016 08:36 AM)Suits Wrote:  

So, we are talking about 100 lays, not 100 notches, right?

What's the difference?

[brick tamland]

(12-21-2016 07:05 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  

May I ask where you're located?

Are you in a pussy heaven location or average or terrible?

He said Edmonton, Canada. I doubt the odds were in his favour.

(12-21-2016 09:32 AM)jselysianeagle Wrote:  

(12-21-2016 08:36 AM)Suits Wrote:  

So, we are talking about 100 lays, not 100 notches, right?

What's the difference?

It's either 100 different girls or 100 bangs.

[General Stalin]

I'm sure he means 100 different women.

Thanks for taking the time to answer all of Linux's questions. Truth be told, all your answers were predicable to me. Merely having sex with women is a shallow and hedonistic pleasure unless there is some sort of serious bonding involved or you're achieving some kind of greater experience beyond getting a nut with a new girl.

I'm older than you and have banged half as many women and my observations are similar. You don't need to bang 100 women to realize that banging 100 women doesn't matter. You don't need to bang 100 women to realize that women are slaves to their emotions and will cheat on "her man" if the situation is right enough for her. You don't need to bang 100 women to realize that the baddest most emotionally solid seeming chick can fall in love, get her heart broken, and cry.

Spring of last year I hit notch number 20 and for some reason that was a milestone for me. I was eager to get to 20 notches I don't know why. I fucked this 20-something year old tall blond college girl I'd say 7/10. It was a shitty lay and she fucked like a robot who's done it tons of times before and coldly recited dirty lines she must have heard from watching porn. We banged, I never even got off, and then she left in a hurry because she had plans with all her girlfriends and had to meet them somewhere. I never talked to her again. It felt cool for a bit then I realized it didn't fucking matter. I have banged roughly 30 more girls since then, not exactly sure because I stopped keeping count after that.

Here is my takeaway:

Not everyone's journey in game is going to be the same. It's common that men will follow a similar path, but mens' priorities and capacities can often be different. Dealing with women is like any other facet of your life. It is a skill and an art that one can choose to get as deep into as one wants.

There are plenty of men in this community who are perfectly content simply banging new women week in and week out. Maybe they don't even approach them out in the street or in night clubs. Maybe they just meet girls online and are perfectly content doing this for years and years and nothing changes. They fall into a routine and never evolve or advance beyond that and just kind of stagnate. Then you have men who will constantly want more and are never quite satisfied with what they get out of their game. There rabbit hole is endless for them.

Nowadays I try to preach about figuring out what it is you ultimately want to get out of game. I notice most men will find chasing notches does get old and eventually they want something more.

My question for you is this: What's next?

[Turnus]

Thanks for posting your experience.

Curious as to over what period of time this was. Also, it may be helpful for some of the younger guys here who are struggling with this. How did you over come your logistics issue of living with your parents? What did your typical encounter unfold?

[kaotic]

LINUX gave me some great questions to answer in my year in review write up this week.

Some great responses in here.

[The_e_man]

(12-21-2016 06:15 AM)Il Bersagliere Wrote:  

Great thread.

Let's get into the nitty gritty. What are your mechanics?

Like describe a typical pull and workflow of yours from the moment you enter the venue. How do you open? How do you isolate? Do you bounce home or to an intermediary (2nd bar or so)? You said your game is direct? Give us the gist on what you say? And if you do end up getting blown out, what do you do?

Thanks. My mechanics is I usually roll up to the club solo and sober. That being said, I will for sure know at least a handful of guys in essentially any major bar/club in my city that will come up and shake my hand and show some love. I also usually know at least a couple of girls there that I've either hooked up with in the past or I hooked up with one of their friends so they know me. They come up and give me a hug and whatnot, which I think is a really good DHV / social proof thing if we wanna quantify this in game terms.

Moment I walk in the venue: Walk around with a smile and kinda get a feel for the room. Like I just said, people I know will come say hi to me. In the instance where nobody I know is in the bar or after I gave my hello's, I get to work. Start conversation with any cute girls that walk past me. Usually something completely harmless like "Hey guys, hows your night going? "
From there, I can gauge if they give me a quick and polite "good" while walking away thinking "who the fuck is that guy?" then I let them walk away and re-approach them later on in the night. If they stop and are receptive and start engaging in conversation with me, I flirt and exchange a bit of witty banter then, when the conversation is at a high point a few minutes in, I say "well I'm gonna to go walk around and let you ladies do you thing, it was really nice meeting you / you guys - I'll talk to you in a bit "
This I learned from an old mentor of mine and he calls it "planting the seed"
It's amazing. Before doing this, I would just stay in the set as long as possible until the girls eventually and inevitably fucked off to "go find their friends" or "go get a drink" or "go to the bathroom"
With me parting ways myself while on a high note, it definitely flips the script a little bit and it just comes across as cool, calibrated, and attractive (in my opinion). Also, a huge plus of this is its NOT NEEDY in the slightest. It's a breath of fresh air for the girls I'm sure.

How do I isolate: Great question. I sort of don't. I try my best to be as polite and respectful to everyone in the group (guys, ugly girls, fat girls). If the group likes me, I generally don't have to isolate. If the girl is really feeling me, then she will have no issue flirting with me in front of her friends. In fact, her friends can cheer her on sometimes! Also, I'm mostly dealing with younger girls 18-22. There is a definitely a cultural shift happening with the younger girls. Less slut-shaming, way more open sexually. Their friends will even encourage them to "get it in" assuming you aren't coming across as a "creep." Creep in girl talk I've come to learn usually means one of: ugly, weird, uncalibrated, pushy, etc. Or it can also mean "No guys are hitting on me and everyone is hitting on my pretty friend, all these guys are creeps!"
So although its nice to try and avoid the "Creep" label, you also have to realize that it is thrown around so casually and nonchalantly that its not a huge deal if it happens every now and then. You gotta get your hands dirty sometimes.

Do I bounce home or intermediary: Despite reading about game material for years, I hardly ever do a venue bounce. I find out logistics and if she has her own place with an easygoing roommate then I try and pitch we go there and "afterparty" together. If she doesn't have her own place, I try and sneak her into my house to "cuddle and hangout". Yeah that's right, I have to sneak bitches into my house cause my dad gets pissed when I wake him up late at night and he's a pretty light sleeper.

Gist of my direct game: Bro. I am not ashamed at all of my sexuality and girls love it. If a girl has a nice thick ass, I will straight up say something like "damn girl, you thicker than a bowl of oatmeal" or something along those lines. I will compliment her genuinely on her eyes if they are blue for example or her hair if it is straight and blonde (guess my type lol). And I will say my compliments true from my heart and genuine. Not to get a reaction from her or in a manipulative way, but because I genuinely appreciate her beauty and I want her to know so. If she's really feeling me and the conversation is going great, I will straight up say things like "I would eat your ass like its my last supper" and "I want to lay you down and slowly undress you while I kiss every inch of you from head to toe"
This works incredibly well assuming the girl is taking a liking to you and the two of you are vibing.
I dont do any "excuse me, can i ask you a question? Who lies more? Men or women?"
I generally don't ask a question unless I want to know the answer. Example "What part of the city you live in" "who did you come with, how did you get here?" "You live on your own? Whats your roommate like? Is he/she chill?"
By asking these questions, they know whats up. Girls are stupid, but they are a different kind of stupid. They know whats up more than we do.

When I end up getting blown out: I try (and sometimes fail) to have the mental fortitude of a Monk. I say "no worries, have a good night." I might even re-approach later with success where the girl will apologize for being a bitch because of blah blah blah. I mean, you can't really do a CRAZY blow-out from "hey, hows your night going?"
The worst I get is girls just flat out ignoring me and not even acknowledging that I talked to them. Or they would look at me like I'm an alien and be like "ummm good?" while looking to her friends with a look that says "omg who is this guy?!?! can someone please save me so I don't get raped tonight???"
Those are few and far between, and there isn't much you can do about it but be polite and move on. Never build enemies in the bar, bad for your business.

[The_e_man]

(12-21-2016 07:05 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  

May I ask where you're located?

Are you in a pussy heaven location or average or terrible?

I'm located in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada.
We are an oil province and very blue-collar. More men that women and a large white majority. It's not like the rest of Canada in the sense that it is not super multicultural.
I'd say its average here? Certainly not terrible as we have many beautiful white girls. I love white girls are they are definitely my type I'm most attracted to. But its certainly not a pussy heaven for sure.
Again, more men that women since we have the oil fields up north and guys from all over the country come here for working in the rigs. Also, the city has more of a "rough" vibe to me. Lots of murders and stabbings, used to be known as the murder capital of Canada.

[The_e_man]

(12-21-2016 08:36 AM)Suits Wrote:  

So, we are talking about 100 lays, not 100 notches, right?

100 instances of having sexual intercourse with a different woman.

[The_e_man]

(12-21-2016 12:26 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

My question for you is this: What's next?

I still have a long ways to go, my friend. I'm still going out and hitting the pavement and attempting to improve myself and my game. In fact, my buddy is about to swing by and pick me up soon and were going to so some daygame at the mall.
I have a high sex drive and I love the thrill and excitement of fucking a new girl. It's a high for me and I love it.
I'm always trying to improve two things: the quality of women I interact with and the efficiency of my approach ---> bang.

Ultimately, I'd love to have a solid relationship ship with a cool, loyal, gorgeous 9 or 10. Blue eyes, blonde hair, long skinny legs, perky tits, plump ass, all that jazz. But also, I know for a fact if I had that then I'd still want to be fucking other bitches on the side, no matter how hot my girl is.
So I'll have to first get to that level and then see from there.

This is a lifestyle for me. I don't think its just a phase. It's a part of who I am. I am a connoisseur of beautiful women.

[The_e_man]

(12-21-2016 01:08 PM)Turnus Wrote:  

Thanks for posting your experience.

Curious as to over what period of time this was. Also, it may be helpful for some of the younger guys here who are struggling with this. How did you over come your logistics issue of living with your parents? What did your typical encounter unfold?

Cheers. And this was over 2012 - 2016. So four years of gaming. Progress was slow first two years. It took a while for things to "click"
Thats why my advice to those starting out is chin up and keep grinding and don't give up. It will get better.

Regarding living with my parents: I'm a firm believer, through experience, that if the girl is really into you then you can be living in a cardboard box in a back alley and she'd still come back there to fuck you. Having a sick pad and good logistics is amazing, and I'll admit the period where I had more own apartment things were easier. But it's really not that big a deal. If a girl is into me enough then she is cool with sneaking into my place with me and quietly tiptoeing as I guide her through the dark into a futon in my basement. Also its mostly younger girls I'm bringing back, so they live with their parents themselves anyways and I doubt they are judging me much if at all.
For the girls that have their own place, I go to their place. I don't think the fact of my living with my parents is even brought up at that point. If it is, I'm not really ashamed of it. Like I'm 23 and in university full time, what do you want me to do? Bust my ass off to work a shitty job just to pay for an apartment and live like a peasant? No thanks, I live quite well at home because my parents are rather well-off, but not well-off enough to buy me a nice apartment while I'm in school (they are paying for my school as well).
Also, just for the record, I've brought a woman in her 30's back to my place cause she was visiting Edmonton form a small town in Alberta (Dawson's Creek) with her friends for a bachelorette party. I snuck her into my house and made her be quiet so she wouldn't wake my dad up. A woman in her 30's, it was hilarious. From that night especially I realized living with my parents didn't mean SHIT.

What did my typical encounter unfold: usually goes open, witty banter, do my own thing at the bar, talk some more, get sexual, tell her the bad things i want to do to her, maybe make out a little bit, ask about logistics, see if she wants to "after party," then bounce with her to either her place or mine. Essentially immediately have sex once they first go in the bathroom to pee / clean their pussy out for me.

[The_e_man]

(12-21-2016 01:55 AM)Travel Museums Wrote:  

I hate lay counts. I can go to the Philippines and get 500 bangs in a year. How often did you go out and how many bangs per week are u averaging? Sustainability across cultures is the true mark of a pua

Fair point. I don't think you can make such a direct comparison because travelling to a country like that (especially if you are white) is a totally different ballgame then what I'm doing here in Edmonton.
But I agree that lay count is a pretty shitty metric overall because of reasons like above as well as a host of other reasons.
Also, just for the record, I only like white girls so South East Asia isn't a very attractive destination for me

This was over roughly 4 years so the amount I went out fluctuates.
When I was going hard in summertime due to no school, I would go out 5-6 nights a week! I used to keep a log. June of 2015 I had sex with 12 girls. That's 3 girls a week. I remember I had a weekend where I pulled friday, saturday, and sunday night. It was unreal. But it definitely wasnt consistent like that. That was just an amazing month for me. I have also had dry spells that can last up to about 2 months or so. But thats usually when I'm backed up with school, and I don't go out at all during final exams and midterm exams.

Regarding sustainability across cultures I think I'm doing it in the toughest way possible, as an immigrant visible minority in a predominately white north-american blue-collar redneck city.

[subterfuge]

Film some infields!! We could learn a thing or two at a guess!

[Kamikaze]

Big congratulations man. Impressive stats, both with your physical features and what you got out of it. I have a few questions if you wouldn't mind.

What women did you find you got along with better, and were more susceptible to your game? What did they study or do for a living?
How are you going to inoculate your future girlfriend from players like you, if you think it's possible?
How have the 100 lays changed what you're looking for from a long-term relationship?
Where do you think it would be best for you to find that long-term relationship? Feel free to define 'best' however you like.
What do you think you have to do differently to try and up the quality, say from your first 100 averaging 6.5, to your second 100 averaging 7.5?

[The_e_man]

(12-21-2016 03:34 PM)Kamikaze Wrote:  

Big congratulations man. Impressive stats, both with your physical features and what you got out of it. I have a few questions if you wouldn't mind.

What women did you find you got along with better, and were more susceptible to your game? What did they study or do for a living?
How are you going to inoculate your future girlfriend from players like you, if you think it's possible?
How have the 100 lays changed what you're looking for from a long-term relationship?
Where do you think it would be best for you to find that long-term relationship? Feel free to define 'best' however you like.
What do you think you have to do differently to try and up the quality, say from your first 100 averaging 6.5, to your second 100 averaging 7.5?

Thanks man, really appreciate that.

The logical and science-based mind in me tried seeing statistical data / trends to pull from my lays but its sort of just a random grab-bag. I have slept with girls of all different "types" - hipsters, upper-middle class white sorority type girls, goths, hoodrat bitches that loved my muscles and tattoos, sporty athletic chicks, shy quiet nerdy chicks, popular A-type personality girls, etc.
This is going to sound really arrogant and egotistical but hear me out: the girls that were more responsive to me and that got along well with me were cool, level-headed, confident, emotionally healthy girls. The girls that rudely blow me out seem to be, for the most part, not be any of those above.
What did they study or do for a living? Brother, I don't even remember most of their names. We certainly didn't talk about what we did for a living or what we studied. Or if we did, it would be at the very beginning of the conversation when doing some ice-breaking small talk that neither of us really care about.
Of the girls I slept with, I probably didn't even know the last name of 90% of them.

How to inoculate my girlfriend from future players like me: Hah. There are always going to be guys with better game than me, better looking than me, better style than me, more money than me, more status than me, cooler lifestyle than me, more friends than me, etc. And if I have a gorgeous 9 or 10 girlfriend, I'm sure they are all going to be trying to hit her up.
Ultimately, you can't lock a women in your basement 24 hours of the day to "protect" her from other guys so it is 100% up to her if she wants to cheat on you or not.
So sure, her logical brain might be like "okay, I love my boyfriend. yes, other guys that are better looking or whatever than him want me. But I love what I have with my boyfriend." Thats her prefrontal cortex in action. Here's the problem though, her emotional brain thinks this "HYPERGAMY, HYPERGAMY, HYPERGAMY" which is mostly her mid-brain and hindbrain thinking these things, fully away from the grasp of the conscious control of her prefrontal cortex. AND, to make things even worse, the subconscious mind is powerful and takes control of the conscious mind all of the time. So she can even rationalize her behaviour in the moment. I know this is true because I see it right in front of me when women cheat on their boyfriends with me. They truly don't think they are doing anything wrong, they have convinced themselves with some mental acrobatics that their behaviour is justified.
How does a man defend himself against such a powerful unconscious force going on inside a woman's head? I wish I had the answer to that, brother.

How have the 100 lays changed what you're looking for from a long-term relationship: I'm more picky now. I want a 9 or a 10. And she better be cool as fuck, and super loyal. So pretty much a unicorn?

Where do you think it would be best for you to find that long-term relationship: In a class in my university, not at a bar or club and DEFINITELY not a tinder. Maybe finding an introverted girl that hates going out. But they tend to not be very beautiful. And of the few introverted girls that are very beautiful that I've been with, they are really fucking weird. It's like "ohhh thats why you're introverted and have such few friends despite being so gorgeous, its because you're a fucking weirdo"

What do you think you have to do differently to try and up the quality, say from your first 100 averaging 6.5, to your second 100 averaging 7.5: Honestly? waking up tomorrow morning being 6 feet tall would certainly help. Or even better, waking up as tall, white, handsome, jacked, abercrombie and fitch model.
More practically, I'd say just making sure I approach higher quality girls and don't settle for less. And when I do approach the hotties, make sure I feel like I deserve them. Having reference experience of banging lots of them would definitely help!