Quote: (12-22-2016 07:37 PM)StackGsMan Wrote:
I'm also very direct, probably even more direct than you have stated that you are. The big difference is most of my experience has been day game, but I plan to transition into night game solely looking for the ONS or mini-relationship situation. I'm tired of dating and only interested in getting as many decent to high quality notches as possible at the moment, and I've decided night game is the way to go.
You mentioned many of the girls you have been with have had a bf. My question for you is, at what point in the interaction does the bf come up and how do you deal with it? Like can you give an example of what you specifically say?
I ask this because I usually get the bf line when a girl rejects me. Sometimes I'm able to push through it and get the number anyway (keep in mind I'm mainly talking day game), but most of the time it's a no go.
When I mentioned girls with boyfriends cheating on their boyfriends with me, it's not in the sense that the girl is like "sorry, I have a boyfriend" and then I plow through that and fuck them anyways. For example, from a SNL a girl's phone can be ringing nonstop during sex and its obvious its a guy calling her. They usually admit its their boyfriend and to just ignore it. Tell me some story about how they are "fighting" right now or something like that and thats it. These bitches have no shame.
Another instance is some of my social circle pulls. And this was what I was alluding to in an earlier post. Some very sweet, nice, kind girls in seemingly amazing relationships where they are both so happy. But soon our friendly flirting becomes a bit more than that. Then eventually they are naked in my bed. That's what really gets me jaded.
If it's early in the interaction and the girl spouts "I have a bf" or casually interjects her boyfriend into the conversation, then it's probably a different story. It could be a shit-test, but also it's very likely the girl just isn't interested in you and she dropped the boyfriend line hoping you would take the hint and fuck-off. Whether she actually had a boyfriend or not is completely irrelevant. The fact that she felt the need to say that is what is the issue, unless of course it is a shit test to see if it phases you or makes you sweat.
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The courage to change the things I can,
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