Quote: (12-06-2016 12:24 PM)Letho Wrote:
Hi chaps,
I am at university (American college) and I find I am too selective when it comes to the fairer sex. I just can't bring myself to engage with most women.
I'm looking for advice on what I should do.
Cheers,
Letho
I am very curious to know what University you are attending. What is it that you dont like about women at your college? The looks, the weight, the race? Since you are from the UK I imagine the quality of women is very similar in the US? Is it the maturity level that you find lacking?
Either way it ultimately doesn't matter. You have to approach and engage women regularly. If you dont instead of practicing being social you are practicing being antisocial, and you become good at what you practice.
Keep in mind that many of these women you are being picky about have relatives, friends and acquaintances that would be to your liking. Unfortunately you will never know if you dont engage and become friendly with them! Just remember you dont have to bang every girl you talk to and become friendly with!
Look into either joining a paternity or some type of club or organization that interests you. Many of these groups attract quality women.
By having more friends you raise your perceived social value. Seldom does the proverbial loner get the hot chick. That BS is for the movies. From my experience the guys that have gotten the hottest quality girls were the most social guys I knew.
Unless you are going to some weird or obscure college with a low student population your options should be almost unlimited .
Report back and let us know how you are coming along.
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