Disclaimer
Firstly, it’s important to understand that “Asian Americans Girls” (AAGs) are an extremely diverse group and this is largely a collection of personal observations. I attempt to discriminate between my personal experience and that which is data driven.
Most preconceptions of AAGs are based on East Asians (Chinese, Korean, etc) and it’s important to consider that there are many differences within the various sub-groups of AAGs. For example, Indian Americans have extremely high rates of college degrees (over 70%), where Vietnamese, Hmong, Lao, and Cambodians are about as likely as black Americans to graduate high school. Indian-American and Filipino-American girls are extremely different culturally and physically from other Asian Americans (I have never dated one more than once), and this data sheet doesn’t really apply to them. NAAAGALT.
Finally, most of what I write applies to AAGs in their 20s and early 30s.
What Makes Asian American Girls Different
Most men with “yellow fever” are drawn to AAGs because they are perceived (an accurate set of perceptions in my estimate) as being more feminine, more traditional, slender and aging better than other groups of women. My experience is that they tend to be more affectionate, loyal and jealous than other ethnicities.
Asian Americans generally have a very different experience in the United States than other ethnic groups. Asians, by most measures, have superior levels of material success other racial groups, including whites in America. In 2010, the American made around $50k, the average Asian American $66k; Asian Americans have higher average education - 49% have a college degree vs. 29%. The average IQs of Asian Americans is around 7 points higher on average than the general population.
Accordingly, AAs overall have less of a sense of racial resentment than other groups towards whites and other races, and report experiencing less discrimination as part of their daily lives. (For example, a Pew study in 2015 reported that, in the last year 19% of Asians reported experiencing discrimination in the last year vs. 88% of blacks.) They are much more assimilationist than other non-white ethnicities. However, AAs still tend to see themselves as still “different” in many ways from other Americans. This makes AAGs more confident, and less wary of dating white men.
One important consideration for men looking to date AAGs (my assumption is that most of the readers will be non-Asian men) is that AAGs are much more hypergamous, and self-aware of their hypergamy than other groups.
In general, mature Asian women have a strong preference for educated, high income men, who own their own businesses. Research shows that entrepreneurship is highly valued among Asian women everywhere. This preference is strongest among Chinese immigrant women, but the preference is apparent in most studies of all second and third generation AAGs as well.
In studies, AAGs report having less sexual partners over their lifetime and waiting longer before having sex with their partners. On a personal note, I’ve found, as a guy with yellow fever, that most strip clubs, even in areas with high Asian American populations still have relatively few Asian dancers. An owner of a cam-girl production company told me that it’s harder to recruit AAGs than other ethnicities. That having been said, there’s been some data to suggest that AAGs have a higher incidence of STDs than whites, which may indicate that they simply are more secretive about their sluttery.
Interracial Dating and Preferences
AAGs are the only group where evidence of a strong out-group sexual preference is has been observed. (Although this is not consistently observed - some data shows a slight in-group preference, but much lower than virtually any other ethnic group.)
Multiple sources of data from online dating sources reveal that Asian-American women show a strong preference for white men among all other groups (even, generally, Asian men) and a strong aversion to dating black men. Most studies indicate that most interracial couples in the US (as a percentage) are white men and Asian women. My personal experience is that black and hispanic men can certainly enjoy success gaming AAGs, but that they face higher hurdles.
Online dating data also reveals that men of all races are most attracted to Asian women - even more so than their own. 10 years ago, this fact was largely unknown to AAGs, but no longer; They are increasingly aware of this and this has given many of them a strong/exaggerated sense of their own SMV. AAGs overall see themselves as being generally more stable, intelligent, happier and aging considerably better than other women.
The Importance of Families and Social Circles
AAGs family and social bonds are much stronger than other ethnicities. AAGs value family in a way that few other ethnicities will understand. No matter how dysfunctional a family, AAGs will care about the opinions of their parents and friends and this is an important consideration for anyone seeking a LTR with an AAG.
AAGs also are much more into group activities than other ethnicities. Where most white girls I’ve known tend to have more one-on-one relationships with friends, AAGs tend to have a larger regular social circle that gets together and engages in group activities, dating an AAG after the initial honeymoon phase will mean socializing with that group.
Caucasian parents often pride themselves on the independence of their children and often believe that any kind of financial ties into adulthood are shameful. In contrast, Asians draw great pride in supporting their children, often well into adulthood, and in children supporting their parents. It’s not uncommon for AAGs (particularly East Asians) to live with their families until they’re married and it’s extremely common for AAGs to send home a portion of their paycheck every month to their parents - even if they don’t need it, and even if it comes right back to them. Many successful AA families buy presents for their children that would be considered extravagant by most other race’s standards.
In most LTRs with AAGs, you won’t just be dating a girl, you’ll be dating her family. If you don’t have a relationship with her family (even if she can’t stand them), you are likely to have some problems as a consequence. Strike early.
In contrast, if you’re not serious about an AAG, then don’t meet her family or social circle. Being dumped by a guy she introduced to her family or friends will be humiliating to an AAG in a way it never would be to another ethnicity. It also makes getting back together after a breakup virtually impossible.
Significant Age Differences
Asian women are less sensitive to differences of age. It is much more socially acceptable for there to be significant differences in age for couples in Asia.
And while this is commonly attributed to the Asian women’s more “pragmatic attitudes” and hypergamous instincts, I think the issue goes much deeper.. In my experience is that there also seems to be a greater prevalence of the “Electra Complex” among Asian women which I, as armchair social psychologist, attribute to the contradictions of traditional Asian cultures with the modern world. This persists in the United States.
For these reasons, AAGs are more likely to date men who are older - in many cases significantly older. However, many AAGs will be sensitive to the stereotypes I mention above and may be reluctant because of concerns about the social approval of her friends and family.
Accordingly, I think that many older men may find AAGs harder to initially crack than other ethnicities, but if successful in overcoming a resistance to age differences, then they may find significant age differences easier to overcome in LTRs. I also have found that AAGs social circles are more accepting of their friends’ dating older men if they have high SMV (wealthy, handsome, etc), where this would be considered very déclassé / creepy / weird among white girls even if you’re a George Clooney.
Regional Differences, the AZN and the “Asian Bubble”
AAGs are different depending upon what region they hail from. Asian Americans are heavily concentrated in California / Hawaii and in the New York MSA. New York AAGs are very different from their West Coast counterparts. New York Asians tend to be more Chinese, more likely to be affluent, recent immigrants or from 3rd or 4th generation families and more likely to be upper middle class for those reasons. Generally these AAGs are a bit more conservative and whitewashed.
The fact that New Yorkers and East Coasters in general tend to live in higher population density areas tend to mean that they are more likely to interact with people outside of their ethnicity and are this less likely to be in an “Asian Bubble” - a fairly common term for the phenomenon in Southern California, where Asians only are friends with and interact with other Asian Americans. It’s very common for AAGs - even those who have gone to college and are 2nd and 3rd generation to have no non-Asian friends, or even coworkers. (“K-Town” in Los Angeles is the second largest Korean city outside of Seoul.) In California, there is an entire subculture referred to as “AZN” (although that term is a bit dated these days), based on nightclubs, car shows, raves, a unique cuisine, that is uniquely Asian-American.
The 14 Types of Asian Girls
Obviously, this list is not scientific and I’m sure I’m missing many somethings here. But, generally, unless you’ve spent a lot of time around AAGs, you’ll tend to misunderstand, misclassify and accordingly mis-game the girl you’re trying to get with.
The Whitewashed AAG: Typical for 2nd generation or 3rd generation girls. They’re as culturally Asian as I am European. (Not at all.) For all intensive purposes, this data sheet is irrelevant and just go to whatever applies to upper-middle class white girls.
"The ABG": The “Asian Baby Girl” Heavy makeup, colored contacts, colored or bleached hair, pierced belly button, tattoos and super sexy. Almost exclusively they’re from a Southeast Asian ancestry, first or maybe second generation. Very likely to be in an Asian bubble and usually only seen with Asian guys. Tend to favor Asian guys who have a bit of a “gangster style” or have these super beta boyfriends that worship them. Tough nuts to crack because their friends are all in an Asian bubble, and tend to treat guys like crap. (The type of game you’d probably use with a stripper is the best strategy with these girls.) Rarely outside of their neighborhood except for trips to Vegas. Usually high school educated, but not beyond that than cosmetology school. Heavily into social media - Instagram in particular. You can find them at Korean soju bars, working at vape shops, import car shows working as “models”.
Girl Next Door Asian: This is the good girl type. Love to watch Korean dramas and like cute stuff (Hello Kitty, Pokemon). Not to sexy. Not too much social media. Tend to date Asian guys, but certainly open to other races. Often college educated. Very family - oriented. Often a bit frigid. Tend to have a non-Asian circle. Most common variety on the East Coast. You’ll find her at school, work or at home with her parents on a Saturday night.
The YAPpy. The status and professionally obsessed, conservative, driven news anchor - type. Most likely to date white guys and have a preference for them, but generally open minded. Always college educated, highly competitive and obsessed with money . Usually a bit frigid. Proud of their diverse social circle, as they are about their career. Tend to subordinate everything to their professional advancement. “I want to be the youngest Managing Director at my firm, have three kids by 30 and marry a surgeon supermodel..” You’ll find her at studying, or at work. On a Saturday.
FOBs (“Fresh Off the Boat”): Two types - rich and foreign student. Rich FOBs are almost always Chinese and are here because either their family wants them to get some experience in the US or because their family is in the process of relocating their millions to America or Canada. One thing that’s really noticeable is that they have an almost (or literally) bleached color to their skin and heavy makeup. They’re not going to marry you, but they may very well fuck you because no one back home will know what they did. Poor FOBs are usually students who are trying to figure out whether they’re going to stay in America because their family is counting on them to support them after they get their education. They tend to be into white guys, but somewhat reluctant to put out because they have more of a scarcity mentality. Both types of FOBs tend to be used to Asian guys being very beta towards them. Often not terribly used to having to perform well in bed, as a consequence. (Most of the ones I’ve slept with have been shocked that girls actually swallowed cum and I’ve had to overcome some disgust at the idea. This is in contrast to your average ABG that gargles the shit.) They often have the perspective that white men are gentlemen, James Bond types when they first arrive. Play that part and you’ll do fine. Usually terrified by black and hispanic guys. You can find the rich one at the most expensive restaurant in town, eating a salad and the poor one eating turtle meat in the Asian food market.
The Geek Asian Girl: Almost always wears glasses, into subculture and entertainment, generally 2nd and 3rd generation. A sub variety of Girl Next Door. Tend to be obsessed with some kind of stupid subculture like comic books, cosplay, etc. Usually open to dating outside of their race, but also rather childlike. Look for her at comic book conventions.
The Hot Fitness Enthusiast Asian Chick: Generally 2nd or 3rd generation, very AZN and tends to be in southern california. Most AAGs don’t like to work out. This girl is obsessed with it and it’s all they do. Works out all the time and is a little TOO fit. Tends to only date Asian guys, but open to other races as long as they’re similarly obsessed with fitness. Tends to be pretty feminist. You’ll find her in yoga classes or teaching spinning.
The “Turn it up” Asian Party Celebutante: This girl loves extravagant parties, partying hard and dressing up. She’s out every weekend, constantly taking Instagram selfies and recording on Snapchat, calling girls “Baes” and “hot bitches.” Listens to a lot of mainstream House, Hip Hop and EDM and loves to dance with groups of her girlfriends. Often they’re first generation or second generation, but you wouldn’t know it because of no accent. This is the girl who’s taking photos (and retakes) with a group of 5 other hot AAGs in bandage dresses from Forever 21, with their hand on hip, head tilted with a big toothy smile in the middle of the club. Tend to date Asians, but sometimes white guys (but not “bros.”) You’ll find them at raves like EDC, pool parties in Vegas, and whatever the latest hot club is in your city. Hard to approach in clubs because they travel in packs and tend to have a “YAP” mentality regarding guys - no one they’d ever meet in a club or a rave would be good enough for them. This is often the larval stage of YAP, attending or graduated from a state university. Look for them in the VIP section.
The Hipster Asian - 2nd and 3rd generation, doesn’t care about money and is pretty whitewashed. Almost exclusively an East Coast phenomenon. This is the AAG wearing a beanie, hanging out with her camera in a coffee shop or at art school. Tends to be a bit more sweet, fun, into makeup and her appearance than her white girl counterparts, but is perpetually casual. Dates pretty much race as long as they’re tall, have some facial hair, and have a similar appreciation for irony and pseudo-intellectual humor. Very depressing when they grow up. Boring.
The Asian Sorority girl - Pretty much the AAG that’s decided she wants to be white. Pretty much acts and looks like a white girl with Asian features. Often tries a little to hard. Bleached hair mandatory, as is the perfect tan. Usually raised on some area where she was the only Asian girl in her high school. Generally college educated. Only dates white guys. You’ll find her at coastal universities and tanning salons.
The “Other AAG” - the Angry Asian Girl - Google “Suey Park”. This is the pissed-off angry blogger who’s always trying to express hostility to white people - and white men in particular. Nobody likes her. Usually grew up in an area where she was the only Asian girl and is the failed Sorority Asian or Hipster. Tends to be perpetually looking for a fight online and otherwise keeps to her close-knit crowd of SJW cat lady types.. Usually dated white guys at some point, but now she only dates Asian guys (who similarly break up with her because of her horrible personality.) She’d date a black guy, and blog endlessly about it, but what one would have her? Do you really need to know where to find her?
Urban Asian - Usually of Southeast Asian ancestry and is 2nd generation. Often raised in the hood by her Asian shopkeeper parents and in a high school which was 90% black. Only dates black guys. Basically a black girl in an Asian girl’s body. Google “Kimora Lee Simmons.”
Hip Hop Asian - Often confused with the “Urban”, this variety is almost always found exclusively in Southern California. Basically an Urban AAG that lives in an Asian bubble, but loves to dance and usually does it in some kind of competitive context. Rarely goes to the clubs. Tends to only date Asian guys.
Fashionista - Almost exclusively an East Coast phenomenon. Tends to be very serious, works in the fashion industry, is a fashion / design student, or simply is that pissed off AAG working in some expensive store with an attitude. Parents hate her because they paid $200k for an education that got her a $20k a year job. Usually DTF, but looking for a husband to lock down to help her pay or her fashion addiction and credit card debt.
Well, that was a lot more writing than I expected. I hope it was useful….
Firstly, it’s important to understand that “Asian Americans Girls” (AAGs) are an extremely diverse group and this is largely a collection of personal observations. I attempt to discriminate between my personal experience and that which is data driven.
Most preconceptions of AAGs are based on East Asians (Chinese, Korean, etc) and it’s important to consider that there are many differences within the various sub-groups of AAGs. For example, Indian Americans have extremely high rates of college degrees (over 70%), where Vietnamese, Hmong, Lao, and Cambodians are about as likely as black Americans to graduate high school. Indian-American and Filipino-American girls are extremely different culturally and physically from other Asian Americans (I have never dated one more than once), and this data sheet doesn’t really apply to them. NAAAGALT.
Finally, most of what I write applies to AAGs in their 20s and early 30s.
What Makes Asian American Girls Different
Most men with “yellow fever” are drawn to AAGs because they are perceived (an accurate set of perceptions in my estimate) as being more feminine, more traditional, slender and aging better than other groups of women. My experience is that they tend to be more affectionate, loyal and jealous than other ethnicities.
Asian Americans generally have a very different experience in the United States than other ethnic groups. Asians, by most measures, have superior levels of material success other racial groups, including whites in America. In 2010, the American made around $50k, the average Asian American $66k; Asian Americans have higher average education - 49% have a college degree vs. 29%. The average IQs of Asian Americans is around 7 points higher on average than the general population.
Accordingly, AAs overall have less of a sense of racial resentment than other groups towards whites and other races, and report experiencing less discrimination as part of their daily lives. (For example, a Pew study in 2015 reported that, in the last year 19% of Asians reported experiencing discrimination in the last year vs. 88% of blacks.) They are much more assimilationist than other non-white ethnicities. However, AAs still tend to see themselves as still “different” in many ways from other Americans. This makes AAGs more confident, and less wary of dating white men.
One important consideration for men looking to date AAGs (my assumption is that most of the readers will be non-Asian men) is that AAGs are much more hypergamous, and self-aware of their hypergamy than other groups.
In general, mature Asian women have a strong preference for educated, high income men, who own their own businesses. Research shows that entrepreneurship is highly valued among Asian women everywhere. This preference is strongest among Chinese immigrant women, but the preference is apparent in most studies of all second and third generation AAGs as well.
In studies, AAGs report having less sexual partners over their lifetime and waiting longer before having sex with their partners. On a personal note, I’ve found, as a guy with yellow fever, that most strip clubs, even in areas with high Asian American populations still have relatively few Asian dancers. An owner of a cam-girl production company told me that it’s harder to recruit AAGs than other ethnicities. That having been said, there’s been some data to suggest that AAGs have a higher incidence of STDs than whites, which may indicate that they simply are more secretive about their sluttery.
Interracial Dating and Preferences
AAGs are the only group where evidence of a strong out-group sexual preference is has been observed. (Although this is not consistently observed - some data shows a slight in-group preference, but much lower than virtually any other ethnic group.)
Multiple sources of data from online dating sources reveal that Asian-American women show a strong preference for white men among all other groups (even, generally, Asian men) and a strong aversion to dating black men. Most studies indicate that most interracial couples in the US (as a percentage) are white men and Asian women. My personal experience is that black and hispanic men can certainly enjoy success gaming AAGs, but that they face higher hurdles.
Online dating data also reveals that men of all races are most attracted to Asian women - even more so than their own. 10 years ago, this fact was largely unknown to AAGs, but no longer; They are increasingly aware of this and this has given many of them a strong/exaggerated sense of their own SMV. AAGs overall see themselves as being generally more stable, intelligent, happier and aging considerably better than other women.
The Importance of Families and Social Circles
AAGs family and social bonds are much stronger than other ethnicities. AAGs value family in a way that few other ethnicities will understand. No matter how dysfunctional a family, AAGs will care about the opinions of their parents and friends and this is an important consideration for anyone seeking a LTR with an AAG.
AAGs also are much more into group activities than other ethnicities. Where most white girls I’ve known tend to have more one-on-one relationships with friends, AAGs tend to have a larger regular social circle that gets together and engages in group activities, dating an AAG after the initial honeymoon phase will mean socializing with that group.
Caucasian parents often pride themselves on the independence of their children and often believe that any kind of financial ties into adulthood are shameful. In contrast, Asians draw great pride in supporting their children, often well into adulthood, and in children supporting their parents. It’s not uncommon for AAGs (particularly East Asians) to live with their families until they’re married and it’s extremely common for AAGs to send home a portion of their paycheck every month to their parents - even if they don’t need it, and even if it comes right back to them. Many successful AA families buy presents for their children that would be considered extravagant by most other race’s standards.
In most LTRs with AAGs, you won’t just be dating a girl, you’ll be dating her family. If you don’t have a relationship with her family (even if she can’t stand them), you are likely to have some problems as a consequence. Strike early.
In contrast, if you’re not serious about an AAG, then don’t meet her family or social circle. Being dumped by a guy she introduced to her family or friends will be humiliating to an AAG in a way it never would be to another ethnicity. It also makes getting back together after a breakup virtually impossible.
Significant Age Differences
Asian women are less sensitive to differences of age. It is much more socially acceptable for there to be significant differences in age for couples in Asia.
And while this is commonly attributed to the Asian women’s more “pragmatic attitudes” and hypergamous instincts, I think the issue goes much deeper.. In my experience is that there also seems to be a greater prevalence of the “Electra Complex” among Asian women which I, as armchair social psychologist, attribute to the contradictions of traditional Asian cultures with the modern world. This persists in the United States.
For these reasons, AAGs are more likely to date men who are older - in many cases significantly older. However, many AAGs will be sensitive to the stereotypes I mention above and may be reluctant because of concerns about the social approval of her friends and family.
Accordingly, I think that many older men may find AAGs harder to initially crack than other ethnicities, but if successful in overcoming a resistance to age differences, then they may find significant age differences easier to overcome in LTRs. I also have found that AAGs social circles are more accepting of their friends’ dating older men if they have high SMV (wealthy, handsome, etc), where this would be considered very déclassé / creepy / weird among white girls even if you’re a George Clooney.
Regional Differences, the AZN and the “Asian Bubble”
AAGs are different depending upon what region they hail from. Asian Americans are heavily concentrated in California / Hawaii and in the New York MSA. New York AAGs are very different from their West Coast counterparts. New York Asians tend to be more Chinese, more likely to be affluent, recent immigrants or from 3rd or 4th generation families and more likely to be upper middle class for those reasons. Generally these AAGs are a bit more conservative and whitewashed.
The fact that New Yorkers and East Coasters in general tend to live in higher population density areas tend to mean that they are more likely to interact with people outside of their ethnicity and are this less likely to be in an “Asian Bubble” - a fairly common term for the phenomenon in Southern California, where Asians only are friends with and interact with other Asian Americans. It’s very common for AAGs - even those who have gone to college and are 2nd and 3rd generation to have no non-Asian friends, or even coworkers. (“K-Town” in Los Angeles is the second largest Korean city outside of Seoul.) In California, there is an entire subculture referred to as “AZN” (although that term is a bit dated these days), based on nightclubs, car shows, raves, a unique cuisine, that is uniquely Asian-American.
The 14 Types of Asian Girls
Obviously, this list is not scientific and I’m sure I’m missing many somethings here. But, generally, unless you’ve spent a lot of time around AAGs, you’ll tend to misunderstand, misclassify and accordingly mis-game the girl you’re trying to get with.
The Whitewashed AAG: Typical for 2nd generation or 3rd generation girls. They’re as culturally Asian as I am European. (Not at all.) For all intensive purposes, this data sheet is irrelevant and just go to whatever applies to upper-middle class white girls.
"The ABG": The “Asian Baby Girl” Heavy makeup, colored contacts, colored or bleached hair, pierced belly button, tattoos and super sexy. Almost exclusively they’re from a Southeast Asian ancestry, first or maybe second generation. Very likely to be in an Asian bubble and usually only seen with Asian guys. Tend to favor Asian guys who have a bit of a “gangster style” or have these super beta boyfriends that worship them. Tough nuts to crack because their friends are all in an Asian bubble, and tend to treat guys like crap. (The type of game you’d probably use with a stripper is the best strategy with these girls.) Rarely outside of their neighborhood except for trips to Vegas. Usually high school educated, but not beyond that than cosmetology school. Heavily into social media - Instagram in particular. You can find them at Korean soju bars, working at vape shops, import car shows working as “models”.
Girl Next Door Asian: This is the good girl type. Love to watch Korean dramas and like cute stuff (Hello Kitty, Pokemon). Not to sexy. Not too much social media. Tend to date Asian guys, but certainly open to other races. Often college educated. Very family - oriented. Often a bit frigid. Tend to have a non-Asian circle. Most common variety on the East Coast. You’ll find her at school, work or at home with her parents on a Saturday night.
The YAPpy. The status and professionally obsessed, conservative, driven news anchor - type. Most likely to date white guys and have a preference for them, but generally open minded. Always college educated, highly competitive and obsessed with money . Usually a bit frigid. Proud of their diverse social circle, as they are about their career. Tend to subordinate everything to their professional advancement. “I want to be the youngest Managing Director at my firm, have three kids by 30 and marry a surgeon supermodel..” You’ll find her at studying, or at work. On a Saturday.
FOBs (“Fresh Off the Boat”): Two types - rich and foreign student. Rich FOBs are almost always Chinese and are here because either their family wants them to get some experience in the US or because their family is in the process of relocating their millions to America or Canada. One thing that’s really noticeable is that they have an almost (or literally) bleached color to their skin and heavy makeup. They’re not going to marry you, but they may very well fuck you because no one back home will know what they did. Poor FOBs are usually students who are trying to figure out whether they’re going to stay in America because their family is counting on them to support them after they get their education. They tend to be into white guys, but somewhat reluctant to put out because they have more of a scarcity mentality. Both types of FOBs tend to be used to Asian guys being very beta towards them. Often not terribly used to having to perform well in bed, as a consequence. (Most of the ones I’ve slept with have been shocked that girls actually swallowed cum and I’ve had to overcome some disgust at the idea. This is in contrast to your average ABG that gargles the shit.) They often have the perspective that white men are gentlemen, James Bond types when they first arrive. Play that part and you’ll do fine. Usually terrified by black and hispanic guys. You can find the rich one at the most expensive restaurant in town, eating a salad and the poor one eating turtle meat in the Asian food market.
The Geek Asian Girl: Almost always wears glasses, into subculture and entertainment, generally 2nd and 3rd generation. A sub variety of Girl Next Door. Tend to be obsessed with some kind of stupid subculture like comic books, cosplay, etc. Usually open to dating outside of their race, but also rather childlike. Look for her at comic book conventions.
The Hot Fitness Enthusiast Asian Chick: Generally 2nd or 3rd generation, very AZN and tends to be in southern california. Most AAGs don’t like to work out. This girl is obsessed with it and it’s all they do. Works out all the time and is a little TOO fit. Tends to only date Asian guys, but open to other races as long as they’re similarly obsessed with fitness. Tends to be pretty feminist. You’ll find her in yoga classes or teaching spinning.
The “Turn it up” Asian Party Celebutante: This girl loves extravagant parties, partying hard and dressing up. She’s out every weekend, constantly taking Instagram selfies and recording on Snapchat, calling girls “Baes” and “hot bitches.” Listens to a lot of mainstream House, Hip Hop and EDM and loves to dance with groups of her girlfriends. Often they’re first generation or second generation, but you wouldn’t know it because of no accent. This is the girl who’s taking photos (and retakes) with a group of 5 other hot AAGs in bandage dresses from Forever 21, with their hand on hip, head tilted with a big toothy smile in the middle of the club. Tend to date Asians, but sometimes white guys (but not “bros.”) You’ll find them at raves like EDC, pool parties in Vegas, and whatever the latest hot club is in your city. Hard to approach in clubs because they travel in packs and tend to have a “YAP” mentality regarding guys - no one they’d ever meet in a club or a rave would be good enough for them. This is often the larval stage of YAP, attending or graduated from a state university. Look for them in the VIP section.
The Hipster Asian - 2nd and 3rd generation, doesn’t care about money and is pretty whitewashed. Almost exclusively an East Coast phenomenon. This is the AAG wearing a beanie, hanging out with her camera in a coffee shop or at art school. Tends to be a bit more sweet, fun, into makeup and her appearance than her white girl counterparts, but is perpetually casual. Dates pretty much race as long as they’re tall, have some facial hair, and have a similar appreciation for irony and pseudo-intellectual humor. Very depressing when they grow up. Boring.
The Asian Sorority girl - Pretty much the AAG that’s decided she wants to be white. Pretty much acts and looks like a white girl with Asian features. Often tries a little to hard. Bleached hair mandatory, as is the perfect tan. Usually raised on some area where she was the only Asian girl in her high school. Generally college educated. Only dates white guys. You’ll find her at coastal universities and tanning salons.
The “Other AAG” - the Angry Asian Girl - Google “Suey Park”. This is the pissed-off angry blogger who’s always trying to express hostility to white people - and white men in particular. Nobody likes her. Usually grew up in an area where she was the only Asian girl and is the failed Sorority Asian or Hipster. Tends to be perpetually looking for a fight online and otherwise keeps to her close-knit crowd of SJW cat lady types.. Usually dated white guys at some point, but now she only dates Asian guys (who similarly break up with her because of her horrible personality.) She’d date a black guy, and blog endlessly about it, but what one would have her? Do you really need to know where to find her?
Urban Asian - Usually of Southeast Asian ancestry and is 2nd generation. Often raised in the hood by her Asian shopkeeper parents and in a high school which was 90% black. Only dates black guys. Basically a black girl in an Asian girl’s body. Google “Kimora Lee Simmons.”
Hip Hop Asian - Often confused with the “Urban”, this variety is almost always found exclusively in Southern California. Basically an Urban AAG that lives in an Asian bubble, but loves to dance and usually does it in some kind of competitive context. Rarely goes to the clubs. Tends to only date Asian guys.
Fashionista - Almost exclusively an East Coast phenomenon. Tends to be very serious, works in the fashion industry, is a fashion / design student, or simply is that pissed off AAG working in some expensive store with an attitude. Parents hate her because they paid $200k for an education that got her a $20k a year job. Usually DTF, but looking for a husband to lock down to help her pay or her fashion addiction and credit card debt.
Well, that was a lot more writing than I expected. I hope it was useful….