Hey,
I want to share a strange story about a chick which I just can't lay - and it's driving me nuts. I never put that much "effort" into single chick without either getting rejected or banging her.
Intro
Ok so first about me, I am 21, I lift for few years already (and girls notice it), I am not prettiest guy on the planet, but I am happy with my looks (strong jaw, beard).
I am not afraid to talk to women and say whatever I want (my friends say I am asshole to girls - which I take as compliment)
Ok, so let's start with the story. Let's call her Sally.
Sally works in a club and is paid to sit by the bar, flirt with guys if necessary and get them to buy as much drinks as possible (YES, I know but bear with me - I am not an idiot).
Night #1
I stop Sally randomly in the club (not by the bar), we go out for a smoke, chat a little, go inside to dance a little, make out.
However I didn't feel any passion while kissing - might be because night was ending (like 4AM) and we were both tired.
She says she will be right back, she comes back.
After a while she excuses herself again, but doesn't come back in 5-10min so I just leave the spot.
Sounds pretty bad so far, but bear with me.
I didn't buy her any drinks, she didn't ask either.
Night #2
I visit same club 3 weeks later which is empty, I see Sally, she seems very happy to see me, we go out again, she remembers every detail about me (also name), and seems interested.
I confront her about not coming back last time we saw each other, she claims she couldn't find me. I didn't stress too much about it and just continued with the flow.
I tease her about her job and let her know I won't put up with any bullshit, and that she can leave if she is just trying to get me buy her drinks - she won't get any.
She claims she is not working this night and I challenge her with "alright, lets leave to any other place then".
She nearly runs into warderobe and is back in 1min to leave with me.
We hit another venue, but again night is ending, so we just chat and make out periodically (usually by my intent).
I am sorta "interviewing" her - she has to prove she is worth my time (ofcourse with lots of teasing) - not other way around.
She is very submissive (does whatever I tell her to) and she really opens about herself.
I kept my asshole attitude (even a little too much of it, because she was pretty insecure about herself)
I tell her to put her number into my phone and tell her I will text her during next days when I find time to go out with her.
We make out a lot - but again I don't feel any passion.
She seems interested, and even wraps my hands around her while we are driving back home.
Could've probably smashed her that night, but didn't have any place (not even a car)
At this point I am smiling as I think I have this girl completely under my control.
Texting convo #1
I text her 2 days later so I don't look too needy, she responds right away. I try to delay convo a little, so I respond once per 2-3 hours.
At first she sounds interested, but when I try to arrange a date, shit hits the fan.
I am like - "we are going out this Friday", she responds in a pretty serious tone that she doesn't have time and doesn't offer any alternative.
I respond with - "alright, I can't know when you are free. Let me know when you are free, and if I have time as well, we will grab a couple of drinks"
She doesn't respond back
Night #3
This was about 7 days after our last text.
This night was different though - I was drunk (big mistake).
I spot her, and I sorta lose it, I confront her about not texting back.
She claims she texted back and later admits she might have forgot to hit "Send" - which sounded like worst excuse possible at that time (and still does).
She even says she will text me and we will go out.
I sorta crossed the line this night (was yelling at her). She seems sad and leaves.
Later that night I see her dancing with another dude (not in sexual way though). She was working that night though - but you never know.
Texting convo #2
I text her next morning, playing dumb "did we maybe see each other yesterday?"
She responds instantly, she is obviously insulted, but she apologizes again for not texting back and says she did a mistake.
Again, I am similing and I think that fight affected on her positively (to show my boldness).
I didn't want to apologize and I say "Let's not stress about the past, tell me when you are free so we will go out"
Yes, you guessed - she didn't respond.
Question
So this is really fucking with my head. Obviously Night #3 was my biggest fuck up, but if she wasn't interested anymore, why would she respond and apologize next day?
But on other side if she was that interested, she wouldnt ignore my intial text about going out (99% that she forgot to hit "Send" is an excuse)
I just don't get it. My theory is this girl has trust issues because of her job
What do you guys think? Is there still a way to get her (would love to bang her after all that hassle) ?
I want to share a strange story about a chick which I just can't lay - and it's driving me nuts. I never put that much "effort" into single chick without either getting rejected or banging her.
Intro
Ok so first about me, I am 21, I lift for few years already (and girls notice it), I am not prettiest guy on the planet, but I am happy with my looks (strong jaw, beard).
I am not afraid to talk to women and say whatever I want (my friends say I am asshole to girls - which I take as compliment)
Ok, so let's start with the story. Let's call her Sally.
Sally works in a club and is paid to sit by the bar, flirt with guys if necessary and get them to buy as much drinks as possible (YES, I know but bear with me - I am not an idiot).
Night #1
I stop Sally randomly in the club (not by the bar), we go out for a smoke, chat a little, go inside to dance a little, make out.
However I didn't feel any passion while kissing - might be because night was ending (like 4AM) and we were both tired.
She says she will be right back, she comes back.
After a while she excuses herself again, but doesn't come back in 5-10min so I just leave the spot.
Sounds pretty bad so far, but bear with me.
I didn't buy her any drinks, she didn't ask either.
Night #2
I visit same club 3 weeks later which is empty, I see Sally, she seems very happy to see me, we go out again, she remembers every detail about me (also name), and seems interested.
I confront her about not coming back last time we saw each other, she claims she couldn't find me. I didn't stress too much about it and just continued with the flow.
I tease her about her job and let her know I won't put up with any bullshit, and that she can leave if she is just trying to get me buy her drinks - she won't get any.
She claims she is not working this night and I challenge her with "alright, lets leave to any other place then".
She nearly runs into warderobe and is back in 1min to leave with me.
We hit another venue, but again night is ending, so we just chat and make out periodically (usually by my intent).
I am sorta "interviewing" her - she has to prove she is worth my time (ofcourse with lots of teasing) - not other way around.
She is very submissive (does whatever I tell her to) and she really opens about herself.
I kept my asshole attitude (even a little too much of it, because she was pretty insecure about herself)
I tell her to put her number into my phone and tell her I will text her during next days when I find time to go out with her.
We make out a lot - but again I don't feel any passion.
She seems interested, and even wraps my hands around her while we are driving back home.
Could've probably smashed her that night, but didn't have any place (not even a car)
At this point I am smiling as I think I have this girl completely under my control.
Texting convo #1
I text her 2 days later so I don't look too needy, she responds right away. I try to delay convo a little, so I respond once per 2-3 hours.
At first she sounds interested, but when I try to arrange a date, shit hits the fan.
I am like - "we are going out this Friday", she responds in a pretty serious tone that she doesn't have time and doesn't offer any alternative.
I respond with - "alright, I can't know when you are free. Let me know when you are free, and if I have time as well, we will grab a couple of drinks"
She doesn't respond back
Night #3
This was about 7 days after our last text.
This night was different though - I was drunk (big mistake).
I spot her, and I sorta lose it, I confront her about not texting back.
She claims she texted back and later admits she might have forgot to hit "Send" - which sounded like worst excuse possible at that time (and still does).
She even says she will text me and we will go out.
I sorta crossed the line this night (was yelling at her). She seems sad and leaves.
Later that night I see her dancing with another dude (not in sexual way though). She was working that night though - but you never know.
Texting convo #2
I text her next morning, playing dumb "did we maybe see each other yesterday?"
She responds instantly, she is obviously insulted, but she apologizes again for not texting back and says she did a mistake.
Again, I am similing and I think that fight affected on her positively (to show my boldness).
I didn't want to apologize and I say "Let's not stress about the past, tell me when you are free so we will go out"
Yes, you guessed - she didn't respond.
Question
So this is really fucking with my head. Obviously Night #3 was my biggest fuck up, but if she wasn't interested anymore, why would she respond and apologize next day?
But on other side if she was that interested, she wouldnt ignore my intial text about going out (99% that she forgot to hit "Send" is an excuse)
I just don't get it. My theory is this girl has trust issues because of her job
What do you guys think? Is there still a way to get her (would love to bang her after all that hassle) ?