0+ years old, still virgin, never had a GF...how the hell I lie during dates?
06-03-2016, 08:08 PM
Quote: (06-03-2016 06:07 PM)Genghis Khan Wrote:
Thanks for this post WIA.
This is somewhat what I was getting at, when I asked OP if he was Indian. The truth is indeed that it's not a big deal for a guy to be a virgin in his thirties.
I've also met guys with PhDs in STEM majors who are virgins in their 30s. The guys are good men, just lack of opportunity from being in lab/working non-stop in their twenties that's held them back. You'd see a lot more nerds get laid if women were smart/dedicated enough to enter the STEM fields in larger numbers.
I feel kinship with my East Indian brothers. Same with my Asian brethren.
If anybody has been sold a bill of goods about how society works, it's them.
Study hard, get into college, get the good job work hard. And you will be rewarded.
Only people I know who work harder are Latinos. Work brutally hard and physical job all day, for peanuts.
But you look up to take stock of your life @ 31, you got 6 figures in the bank, big job, nice car, cool clothes, and crib - but the one thing you really wanted (a blonde with big tits) is nowhere to be found.
Asians and Indians built the internet, made the Zuckerbergs out there billions of dollars...and Caitlin's got em blocked on Twitter. Da fuck?
Try and eat some home cooking, but Laksha and Thuy are steady dating the nerdy white guys.
This can't be life.
Suddenly an arranged marriage back in the motherland don't sound too bad. Some little girl from a farm might be nice consolation prize. She's gonna be just as demanding though...
Game offers a bit of a solution, especially when you can smooth out some of the issues with money. But it's a steep hill to climb for us all. And doubly so if you have an uncool accent.
But I've got partners of both persuasions that upped their game.
Maybe cold approach wasn't the move.
As a black dude, I know chicks (of all colors) can be straight up racist. I actually get the most resistance from Middle Eastern Chicks, Asian chicks and Indian chicks. Not all of em, not even most. But catch a bad one, and my whole night used to be fucked.
As a side note, Black women aren't generically better for me either. I might not be tall enough, dark enough, too dark, not rich enough, too smart, too educated, not hood enough, too much slang...dance too well, don't know the new shit...
All chicks will always throw up objections of why they can't.
I give them reasons and motivations of why they can.
Eventually you get over that shit. Hell, you learn how to take their preconceptions and use them to your advantage.
My boys got good at cold approaching, but they built social circles and came at these chicks at peers or better.
I don't blame anyone for their situation, even if it's one of their own making. But at the end of the day, you can change your self. Once you realize there's a problem, as a man, you have to fix it. No one is gonna fix it for you.
You can change the way you act, the way you think, and that changes your results. That's exercise. That's making money. That's fucking bitches. You don't need to be best player on the planet, you just need to do better than you're doing now.
WIA