There's a range of solutions to premature ejaculation
You can try pills for depression that lower the libido and ejaculation time
Jelqing, an indian tecnique of delaying pleasure through muscle control (never tried that)
Pull out your dick when feeling you are getting close
Imagine your grandma in a bikini (never tried that, but i don't remember who said that picturing ugly stuff while sex just ruins the experience)
But the most important thing you failed to do was to search the forum for related topics
Just a quick google search will bring the
following results
And another thing, if you managed to bust a nut quick even drunk , you should be worried, alcohol usually solves that
But i empathize with your problem, i used to have serious premature ejaculation, i remember one time, i was starting to date my ex ex girlfriend, we were just kissing and she was rubbing her leg on my D, i cummed because of that, way worse than your case, this is in the past, i'm a terrific lover and woman always complain how hard i scrape their pussies after 2-3 hours of fucking,and how they cant sit for the rest of the day...
How i managed to do this? you gotta learn your body, i spent my adolescence hopping on one girlfriend to another, i was comfortable being premature, we even joke on how quick i was, with that intimacy and (very frequent) practice i found out the trick, this is how it works:
If i fuck a girl non stop i will eventually cum very quick, i have to pull out in the beginning phase, like 2 or three times, i guess i have to sent very clear messages to my body that i don't want to have an orgasm, after that my tolerance to pleasure is already raised, don't ruin sex imagining unsexy things, keep on building and making things work, after 20 minutes of soft sex i begin banging on hard, and when i'm really close i pull out, sometimes i don't even need to pull out, just stop penetrating
I don't know really to explain it, but it is right at this time that i can execute my trick, i can psychologically manifest an orgasm but without physiological response, my dick even goes limp for like 20 seconds before coming back on full force, then i can fuck a girl for hours because my body feels it has already climaxed, but i still have that precious juice on my balls, pumping me with testosterone and still horny
It's really hard to explain because it's a physical response, but i beat premature ejaculation that way, i would not recommend any other procedure (expect for jelqing which i didn't dig through)but i had 5 years to practice this shit, i had girlfriends who loved me and being premature was not an issue
But the most important advice i can give you is to simply not care, your job as a man is not to please girls with bedroom gymnastics, women only care about raw dominance in bed, you can be bald and fat and premature and still make women cry because you don't called back, as a MAN your pleasure comes FIRST, and woman to be truely happy want things in that way, women don't need to orgasm's or have pleasure in sex to value a man, they only need to feel being hold by an uncaring rapist gorilla