Quote: (03-07-2016 04:16 AM)samsamsam Wrote:
Paracelsus are you John T. Reed?
No, I just channel his curmudgeonly spirit from its home in California.
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God save us from people who mean well. -storm
Quote: (03-07-2016 04:16 AM)samsamsam Wrote:
Paracelsus are you John T. Reed?
Quote:samsamsam Wrote:
I mean Blaster, you took it to the point of slavery in your post. What evidence is there of that? People have choice, they just don't want to deal with the pain of their tough choices. Once the pain gets bad enough, people will act. But it may be a while.
It sounds like you want everyone to have something, that is fine but that moves towards more socialism (we already have medicare and social security and welfare).
Quote: (03-07-2016 01:07 PM)polar Wrote:
This is what I love about this forum.
A lot of audiences, when prompted with a thoughtful article, will degrade in a spiral of opposing viewpoints, ad hominems, and vitriol.
We do the opposite here. From an article detailing a foolish young woman's self-imposed problems, we went to an in-depth discussion of economic policy.
My RVF rule to discussions: the probability of a thoughtful discussion in any given thread is directly proportional to the number of posts, and approaches 1.*
*(jury is out on the Delete thread)
Quote: (03-15-2016 10:04 PM)fiasco360 Wrote:
I understand my choices and their repercussions though and will deal with them accordingly but it is still difficult not to feel frustration.
Quote: (03-16-2016 12:01 AM)Captainstabbin Wrote:
Quote: (03-15-2016 10:04 PM)fiasco360 Wrote:
I understand my choices and their repercussions though and will deal with them accordingly but it is still difficult not to feel frustration.
Fellow millennial - Everyone gets frustrated, everyone fails a few times before they succeed, but that's not the problem. The problem is that, when most of our fellow millennials don't experience smashing success out of the gate, they complain and try to get the government to force businesses to pay them what they think they're worth (which is wildly inflated) - or force taxpayers to make up the difference.
Quote: (03-15-2016 10:04 PM)fiasco360 Wrote:
Then they hop on a bandwagon to chastise people in the millennial generation about college or career choices. It's coming from the same place of ignorance.
Quote: (03-16-2016 12:01 AM)Captainstabbin Wrote:
Quote: (03-15-2016 10:04 PM)fiasco360 Wrote:
I understand my choices and their repercussions though and will deal with them accordingly but it is still difficult not to feel frustration.
Fellow millennial - Everyone gets frustrated, everyone fails a few times before they succeed, but that's not the problem. The problem is that, when most of our fellow millennials don't experience smashing success out of the gate, they complain and try to get the government to force businesses to pay them what they think they're worth (which is wildly inflated) - or force taxpayers to make up the difference.
Quote: (03-15-2016 10:04 PM)fiasco360 Wrote:
As a "red pill" type of guy, I usually have an similar reaction to these kind of stories. Another entitled person who probably hasn't had to do much in life and complaining about not living a lifestyle they saw in Sex In The City. I often see these same types of girls on Facebook with pictures of "I love my apartment" "I'm in love with this city!!!." I wonder how they are paying for all of that while working 25 hours a week as an office admin assistant. But I digress that is social media.
I see first hand how much incentive is given to minorities and women at the university level, they attempt to make you feel guilty as a white male. These university professors who sit in their intellectual ivory towers propagate this. If they are a professor that is tenured, sure they are making about 6 figures and can live a relatively decent lifestyle, but their ideologies are still SJWesque. Add this to the fact that curriculum can be at the whim of just a lecturer, whom is disgruntled that they are making $40,000 a year with a masters or doctorate.
This is starting to bleed into the hard sciences and engineering now, it kind of sucks. We are constantly reminded that "more women need to enter the workforce" or just the constant praising of females for just simply choosing the major, never mind if they are terrible students (well actually I've seen plenty of them get their grades inflated.) Those girls are often rewarded jobs though because they are female and managed to live through the major.
With that being said, as a older millennial, I do feel slightly different. We were pretty much told that college was the meal ticket in life. As long as we work hard and pay attention, it will turn out well. My dad was an immigrant to this country, coming from a war torn area and although my mom is WASP, they both stressed education heavily since they didn't go to college. Combine that with the media, school counselors and universities actively recruiting, it was hard to think otherwise. Plus I saw it first hand, before graduating high school, people who were 5-10 years older than me doing really well and living it up with their good jobs.
I cringe a bit when the "good old generation" calls all of us entitled and says they were able to work and go to school, come out with no debt and buy a house before 30. I worked most of my way through school, joined many clubs, kept in good shape, still did community service and studied. I went to a junior college, where the counselors were terrible and cost me an extra year or two due to classes that didn't transfer. I lived at home and wasn't a crazy spender, I drove a car with 230,000 miles. Did all that during my undergraduate years studying physics and economics. My physics professors told our class that it will be easy to find a job with our degrees because they are one of the hardest to get - they were out of date and wrong.
I'm finishing graduate school at a state school now, so my tuition isn't too terrible, but the cost of living and rent is pretty bad. I was struggling to get internships for my engineering discipline, applying to hundreds of positions for both full time and intern level. I even tried volunteering at a local engineering firm but they said they couldn't legally do that. I received nothing for years, now in my last leg of my schooling, I got an offer that was a 2 hour drive for a terrible wage while I'm studying for exit exams and taking a full course load, but I took it just to get something on my resume. With all of that, I do have an appreciable amount of student debt that I will have to pay off in the future.
If I could go back in time, I would have done things differently, but who hasn't said that before.
The guys on this forum like to welcome new red pill folk with open arms. Then they hop on a bandwagon to chastise people in the millennial generation about college or career choices. It's coming from the same place of ignorance. I understand my choices and their repercussions though and will deal with them accordingly but it is still difficult not to feel frustration.