I'm about to go into a bit of a lengthy post, because I've never agreed with the notion that we as men are responsible for "corrupting" women or that we are somehow at fault for "betraying" a "woman's trust" by fucking her. Come on, man.
I understand these kinds of thoughts but honestly we're not "playing" anybody unless we explicitly make it sound like we're tagging along for the family ride.
Here's the thing:
girls want sex as much as we do.
It's harder for a girl to have careless sex, and after a while of living a lifestyle of careless sex that girl tends to become emotionally broken. That is true.
But, once you're in your mid-twenties, a lot of the "nice" girls weren't so nice in college, and you could be meeting them in a midway point between hunting alpha cock and having post-wall thirst for a beta provider. This is typically a couple months to a year long and is marked by confusion and depression.
So keep an open mind. You may or may not be running into girls that aren't as nice or sweet as they appear. And really, if you put enough hours in the game, you'll have run into so many "fake" nice girls anyway that these preconceptions you have now of being some immoral, corrupting force will
disappear. The reality of modern Western culture will strike, and you'll realize there's a lot fewer
nice, sweet girls than you think.
Just the other week I saw a girl in my dorm building (who I thought was fairly innocent, if just because she was ugly and could hold a conversation) trying to suck a stranger's dick—because
her friend needed money!
The point I'm trying to make is girls aren't always (or usually, or generally, or almost ever) as nice and innocent as they appear. Are all girls whores?
Absolutely not. Are most of them whores? Yes, and that's becoming more and more true everyday. But beyond that, even if that girl is nice and sweet, you aren't playing her ass by having sex with her.
She wants to be fucked.
If she seems lonely and sad to you, she wants the dick even more. Does she want a relationship? Well, if she's talking about family, of course—but she wants sex too, and if you give her one of the two, you're at least giving her half of what she wants and actively looks for. As long as you aren't making it seem like you're out here building a family with the broad, you're completely in the moral right. She's an adult. She can vote just like you can, she can be responsible for herself just like you can.
If you're promising things like that without intending on keeping them, then I think that's usually both morally wrong and bad game. Be bold and upfront about it and let her know what you're about. If you're the kind of player that plans on smashing other girls, let her know in a subtle way that doesn't disrespect her notion of the relationship (for instance, openly check out other girls and don't try to define the relationship, but don't say "Hey bitch I'm fucking all kinds of girls later tonight" unless you have to check her). No reason to hide anything.
So if you don't plan on staying around for kids, don't pretend like you are just because you think it'll help your chances. You're usually served better by being the man you are and playing the game, and it's just more alpha and moral in my opinion. But if that's what you have to do to get your dork wet, then even then, do what you have to do. The girl is choosing to buy into what you're saying. She is choosing to ride that dick.
And the bottom line is that that's what they want. So if you see a genuinely nice, sweet, lonely, despondent girl, understand that it's not just a hole in their heart they want filled.
Every girl wants dick.
