Quote: (05-25-2017 05:06 PM)wonderer1 Wrote:
Its crazy how BPD women have the same traits and how they came to be that way.
My most recent BPD was one month ago. Father died when she was a kid. She talked about not wanting to have any feelings, she cut herself, her mum would cry on the phone to her about the dad being gone, she would be obsessed with power, she loved the mafia, obsessed with the thoughts of torture, killing people.
Of course the sex was incredible, the best you could imagine, wild, and this is one of the things that draws you in.
They are obsessed with you, but then what happens is just unbelievable to fathom, a switch just goes off and thats it, they completely don't give a shit any more, they hate you, they hurt you, they turn their backs and go completely cold.
Its a complete mind fuck to have someone into you one second then the next they have just gone so cold and hate your very existence.
I hear ya. Maybe you got a good grip on this shit. No idea how you would without suffering the tortures of the damned. I'm probably naive. You're probably a player. I'm not.
Again, I refer to my post above to Villain. Are you sure you know what you are dealing with? There is a tendency to read about stuff and get a good handle on it and if you are quick-witted enough, you can play the game. But this isn't a game. Not calling you out.
I wish you well with the game too. Just be safe out there brother. Because when it goes wrong, it really goes wrong. And that is the point where it is too late.
People die from this shit. They have their lives taken from them. Reputations forever destroyed.
I'm sure you know what you are doing. But to a novice reading this board, I wouldn't want them thinking that BPD Cluster B's were some kind of type to be gamed, without risk to life and limb, on both sides. And that is without even getting in to the morality of it.
Sure, sloots can get played. I get it. But when you are dealing with highly suicidal people. This is not a game. And if they have the means they will get someone to break your legs.
This is the game forum. This isn't a game.
I'm pretty sure you won't find a man here that will encourage anyone to game a BPD. Not those that know what they are talking about. Not trying to be superior. I've learned from men here. Gratis. Just trying to give something back. I'm sure those that really know will correct me if I'm wrong.
You do NOT want to fuck about with these 'women'. They will destroy your family as well. If they can.
Fortunately, they are easier to spot than an NPD, and especially a covert NPD. But they are co-morbid (same qualities seen in the same person). Can be hard to differentiate to the untrained eye. Better to be a well-versed psychologist, than a chump like me that went to the school of hard knocks.
I like to think we both give something back to each other. There are some men on this forum that really know what they are talking about. I'm just reporting back from the edge.
Apologies if you know the ground. Just giving some theory for those that don't. You are dealing with the deepest levels of human deception and vulnerability that exist.
Those that play get played. Make sure it isn't you.