Did you break up, get dumped or cheated on by a girl who meant a lot to you? Are you a recent divorcee? Do you feel betrayed and can't wrap your head around how a person who loved you so much could turn on you so quick?
Welcome to the RVF No Contact Thread. The urge to contact an ex, temptation to get back with her or at the very least get some closure is very strong. This thread is a support group for when whenever you feel that urge, you post here and men with similar experiences will talk you out of contacting the bitch.
After over a year of absolutely no contact through any medium I finally broke yesterday and called my ex-gf/fiance. Was looking for my blue suede loafers and could not find them. I suddenly remember that the last time i wore them was at her place. It was just my male hamster spinning at 100 mph. I really missed her and wanted ... something; hear her voice, some closure ... anything.
I called her trying to act aloof and demanding my expensive loafers back. When she picked up the phone she was unexpectedly happy to hear my voice and starts crying. Some switch went off in my mind and i instantly melt like an ice cream cone in July. Forgot about the loafers and chatted for over an hour. She lied to me through her teeth about what happened during the breakup.
Once we finished talking and hung up the phone, i couldn't help but realize how I've been taken as a fool. I relinquished my pride and offered her closure without getting anything in return. I fucked up big time and want you guys to avoid this fate.
May the No Contact be forever with you and if you feel like calling/texting you ex ... DON'T! Spill the beans in this thread and let us talk you out of it.
Welcome to the RVF No Contact Thread. The urge to contact an ex, temptation to get back with her or at the very least get some closure is very strong. This thread is a support group for when whenever you feel that urge, you post here and men with similar experiences will talk you out of contacting the bitch.
After over a year of absolutely no contact through any medium I finally broke yesterday and called my ex-gf/fiance. Was looking for my blue suede loafers and could not find them. I suddenly remember that the last time i wore them was at her place. It was just my male hamster spinning at 100 mph. I really missed her and wanted ... something; hear her voice, some closure ... anything.
I called her trying to act aloof and demanding my expensive loafers back. When she picked up the phone she was unexpectedly happy to hear my voice and starts crying. Some switch went off in my mind and i instantly melt like an ice cream cone in July. Forgot about the loafers and chatted for over an hour. She lied to me through her teeth about what happened during the breakup.
Once we finished talking and hung up the phone, i couldn't help but realize how I've been taken as a fool. I relinquished my pride and offered her closure without getting anything in return. I fucked up big time and want you guys to avoid this fate.
May the No Contact be forever with you and if you feel like calling/texting you ex ... DON'T! Spill the beans in this thread and let us talk you out of it.