Quote: (12-12-2015 02:17 AM)Windom Earle Wrote:
Sounds like you didn't escalate hard enough physically.
By escalate, I mean push the interaction toward sex until you're actually fucking her, or she protests and says "I'm leaving" (which sometimes is still just LMR by the way, and can be overcome).
If she is giggling at your advances and doesn't have a morose, deer-in-headlights look - then it's merely a case of overpowering her physically. It sounds predatory, but that is what the situation dictates, and more to the point - what she wants. Feigned LMR is a chick's way of testing your will and your manhood.
So it's your choice, capitulate (holding a faint hope of being "allowed" to fuck her sometime in the future), or take control and beat that pussy up like it never has been before, bringing about admiration and respect as she exclaims "I've never been that wet before."
It's a fine line (since most likely you'll get some "no's" thrown in there), but it's all about gauging her behaviour rather than what comes out of her mouth.
Quote: (12-14-2015 01:01 AM)Windom Earle Wrote:
I recently applied everything as per my advice in my post in this thread.
I even got, "if you don't stop, I'm gonna scream."
I stopped momentarily, but later regrouped and got the bang.
As we were properly getting into it, she was literally fucking me - and asking me to fuck her harder.
If I had've fallen into her frame, i most definitely wouldn't have fucked her, and probably would not have the chance to in the future.
Take the bull by the horns lads.
Quote: (12-16-2015 03:32 AM)XII Wrote:
Windom Earle:
Do you see how many men's lives are ruined from false rape accusations?
Why put yourself in that situation? If a girl is hesitant send the two-minded bitch home and jerk off furiously. Text an ex. Get an escort. Who cares; no amount of caution is enough in this legal atmosphere.
Sincerely,
BOB
Read my posts consecutively; again if necessary (and we don't condone P4P by the way).
You will note that a certain amount of awareness is at play, in terms of social/sexual cues.
For those on the retarded side of the scale, well, they're not going to get it and probably never will. For those of us with our feet grounded in normalcy, I'm pretty confident that we're doing ok. But thanks for your concern all the same.
Also, you posit that false rape accusations stem from when a bang occurs after intense LMR.
This is a flawed argument. All things being equal, false rape accusations can occur after what is presumably consensual sex, as much as it can after piercing through extreme levels of LMR (equally consensual I might add).
False rape accusations occur for the following reasons:
- chick sees an opportunity to hit pay dirt (due to celebrity status, etc); or
- chick sees an opportunity for attention whoring, due to her crazy nature.
The latter, at times, cannot be accounted for (depending on how well you know the chick, or your intuition for crazy).
Us mere mortals use our judgement and discretion and apply it in the real world to achieve what we want - sex with desirable chicks.
Your no-sex-on-first-night-sleepover-that-later-put-out-chicks, I'm going to hazard a guess and say they deviate between the 5 and the 6.5 range?
Anything more on the hotness scale, and you've done your dash. You get one opportunity to show your worth as a man (i.e. escalate sexually). After that, the emotion she felt for you on the night is quickly forgotten, and she has focussed her efforts on other endeavours via the magic of social media which is fuelling her insatiable desire for attention.
If you have a chick on your bed; and I reiterate - that isn't withdrawing into a frigid shell, then you have a willing participant whichever way you slice it.
It's how you negotiate those volatile waters that separates you from the men and the boys.