Quote: (01-31-2016 01:53 PM)RexImperator Wrote:
I think this thread needs some more ideas.
I'm guessing you are living somewhere its hard to meet women, or see a large number in your daily life. In most mid-large cities you should be bumping into lots of women throughout a typical day, unless you go straight to work, and straight home, and your work doesn't include interacting with other people, or only men. I get that, thats certainly possible, and I have known lots of guys in this age group like this. Especially chronic weed smokers.
If you want a little inspiration, follow this instagram account. Rony lives probably the greatest lifestyle of any single bachelor ever;
https://www.instagram.com/ronyseikaly/
Somebody mentioned offering specifics, and since many of them have been mentioned on this and many other threads I will reiterate at the risk of being repetitive.
1) Move
- if its so hard in your daily life to approach women, then you probably live in a bad place. Life is too short to live in the woods. Unless you want that. Totally up to you, and you may have obligations that keep you where you are, but this is the obvious first fix.
2) Become active
- join the most expensive and exclusive gym in your area, and then become a regular,especially taking classes. Crossfit is perfect for this, and this happens all the time and no one bats an eye. Its usually around $200/month. You would spend 2x that amount at least if you are regularly going out on dates. Side benefit, you make yourself more attractive.
3) Talk to People
-this sounds like your biggest issue. Is it really that hard to interact with the opposite sex where you live? If so, see #1. You should be social and freely chatting up people, as a cool friendly guy. If you are not open to people in general, its next to impossible to be go from 0-60 when you meet that special snowflake. You need to be more chatty, friendly, and cool. To the waitress, the store clerk, the librarian. El Mech's hack is the right mentality.
4) Take Classes
take classes for anything, especially dancing and acting. I have yet to do this, but I have no problem meeting women 20-30, because my lifestyle is #1, #2, #3.
Dont get discouraged, just build a better lifestyle to enable meeting women. I regularly approach, and currently have several 10-15 yr younger women in my life. Now my biggest worry is whether or not to keep an exclusive GF. And Tinder when I am bored but online is boring and exhausting. Plus the plates that have never dropped from months or years ago.
Most of all fight the urge to think you are old. You are only as old as your mindset. It sounds like this could be an issue for you too. What are you saying to yourself? What do you think about yourself? "Oh Im old, this is too hard??" I tend to think "Now I have cash in my pocket, have no fear and look better than I did at 30". Mindset and self talk are crucial now. You dont want to end up spending most days indoors feeling sorry for yourself.