[RatInTheWoods]

Date younger women, 35-48.

They are generally still attractive for your SMV range if they look after themselves, and they are very, very sexy because they know they only have ten years left, and they are looking for all the cock they can get before Menopause.

You are right you need to filter the crazy, bitter ones, the ones obsessed with their kids, the gold diggers and the selfish ones (that's 95% of them).

Online dating is the way to line up, filter and meet these in an efficient manner.

But they don't yell, don't swell, don't tell and are as grateful as hell.

[RIslander]

(11-08-2015 03:07 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

Date younger women, 35-48.

[samsamsam]

(11-04-2015 12:47 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(11-04-2015 10:25 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

I found two types of women: The bitter and the insane. The bitter are divorced; the insane stayed single too long.

You just summed up every woman over 30 who does online dating. This needs to be chiseled on a granite slab somewhere.

Please consider posting it in the thread in my signature.

[SlickyBoy]

Be very careful about bringing back a 7 or above from the Philippines. The second she comes back and realizes she can shop around some more for a younger or richer guy, if youre an average 50-something guy, youre in serious trouble. Better make sure that prenup is iron clad.

[rudebwoy]

Try Ukraine or Russia, I think Philippines is for men who are older than 50.

If you look decent for your age, most places in Europe you will be fine and can find suitable women to date in their 30s. Some of the better looking ones might be single mothers, but they will be pleasant and eager to please.

I would get in the best shape possible, update your wardrobe and down play your age.

I am a few years behind you, so I talk from experience.

[Dantes]

(11-03-2015 08:30 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  

1. Go to the gym, lift weights, get fit.
2. Do not use dating services as these only attract the worst kind of women.
3. Buy a copy of "Day Bang" by Roosh and read it. Twice.
4. Approach 100 women in shopping malls, libraries, parks, at bus stops, at the unemployment office, at a ballroom dance class you attend...anywhere. If there are none in your area, go each day to a place where there are women. Do this at least for 1 hour each day. Only approach those who make your dick move (in your case probably those who are in the 25 to 40 age bracket). Do not let anyone ever make you feel strange or guilty about the age difference. Act like a man.
5. Get numbers, schedule dates, escalate, bang.
6. Report back in 3 to 8 months with your conquests.

This is standard Game advice geared towards guys in a younger age bracket. While, we should always be improving Game throughout our lives, this standard advice does not suffice in the OP's case. He lives in the middle of nowhere and I assume does have special status or wealth. Speaking to him like some 25 year-old who just stumbled upon the Forum and wants to get laid is not helpful.

OP, you need to act fast. Not much will change in your life if you start trolling the malls in your boring town. Research the forum on the best countries for guys in your age bracket and make it happen soon. It will only get more difficult to build a life somewhere else the closer you get to 60. I suggest the DR or Phills for a man in his 50s. Your chance of finding a meaningful relationship with an attractive, younger woman is not realistic in your present situation. You need to make a change soon.

[birthday cat]

^^^ I think both Mercenary and Dantes make a lot of good points. Approaching women in the small town shopping mall might not be the best strategy but learning some day game and doing 100 approaches in a better location or another country should help.

OP has not stated if he is looking for a serious relationship with one women or if he wants to date many women. I think a lot of guys from western culture who don't know much about game or women's psychology are seeking a serious relationship or marriage because they can't comprehend the possibility of dating multiple attractive women. Quality women are so scarce in the west that older guys are ready to jump into a serious relationship with the first attractive woman they find. The possibilities of dating several attractive women at the same time or having several mini relationships before getting into something more serious are possibilities that these guys may never consider because they are stuck in a scarcity mentality.

Dantes is correct that OP should act fast to make some changes and consider going abroad but OP shouldn't take that advice the wrong way and quickly jump into a serious relationship with one of the first foreign girls he dates. Many guys do this and get taken advantage of. So act fast with improving health, improving lifestyle, learning game, and learning about foreign countries and their women. Act slow with getting into a serious relationship. Guys who think they want a marriage might quickly change their mind if they were to experience an abundance of attractive women even for just a short time.

(11-08-2015 11:52 AM)bmw633 Wrote:  

I have a friend who is living in Thailand, so if I were to travel to Asia, I think that would be my destination. He said he would only date Thai women. He said they really treat him well.

Thailand is first location many older guys go to when they leave the west to find women. Many guys probably do well in Thailand but I cringe a little whenever I hear comments like this from a good guy who probably doesn't have a lot of experience with foreign women. There are good Thai women and bad Thai women but older white guys overestimate their ability to find a good Thai woman and underestimate how skillful Thai women can be at taking their money.

(11-09-2015 09:50 PM)Dantes Wrote:  

Research the forum on the best countries for guys in your age bracket and make it happen soon.

Guys on this forum have much more knowledge of women than 99.99% of the foreigners in Thailand. Thailand wouldn't be my first choice but if it was I would read everything about Thailand on this forum and I would meet with every forum member I could find in Thailand.

[SlickyBoy]

^ That, and the first place a lot of foreign guys who know nothing go is Pattaya. The women there are nearly all prostitutes (battle hardened 5s and 6s) and the place was loaded with old fat drunk Aussies and euros. Only reason I was in country was for work (seriously!). I recommend other parts of Thailand away from the usual hangouts as well as completely different countries.