[GoldHawkStar]

There’s no sugarcoating it (no pun intended); if you live in America, Canada, Western Europe or certain parts of Australia, your culture has evolved to influence (I would argue) the majority of those around you to be simply unappealing and unattractive. And the worst part: Anyone with a brain can tell you that what lies ahead in the future is even more hideous.

Now many will argue that this is none of your business. Who cares how others live their lives, it doesn’t affect you. It does. I could get into the nitty gritty of how obesity, homosexuality and other leftist propaganda negatively affects a society’s well-being in more ways than I can count on my hands, but today I want to specifically talk about why this is a problem for your game. Like it or not, we’re all strapped into the downward-sloping roller coaster that is society’s decline This never-ending ride puts a certain group of people at the biggest disadvantage, and that group consists of straight men with neomasculine characteristics who care enough about themselves to look good and have standards that aren’t somewhere within the confines of a toilet.

Regarding your game, like most things in the real world, there is both good and bad to this decline, but mostly bad. Let’s talk about it.

The Good



The gay movement has taken over, and it’s done more than what you may think to the male population.

A couple years ago, I met this guy on my floor who seemed very homosexual. I can’t put it in a nicer way - everything about him screamed “faggot”. The way he walked, the way he talked, the way he interacted with people. Well one day we walk past a room of cute women while one of them was bending over. I didn’t say anything because I didn’t want to make him feel uncomfortable, but he comes out and says that he “enjoyed the view”. I later figure out that yes, he is 100% straight. Many other men on my floor were very feminine as well, but through various “house talks” (college programs), I learned that they were straight men who desired women, most of them either having bad luck in that area or “happy” being tied down by a gross whale.

You see, it’s not just gay men, but also feminized pussies who claim they’re attracted to women. The obvious thing to say in this section is “our increasing-leftist society has made more men come out as gay or think they are gay, and that gets rid of some competition”, but I’d say that it’s more generally the fact that it’s molded very many men, both gay and straight, into a more feminized version of what they otherwise would be, making masculinity stand out more than what it ever has been. Dudes who are “on the prowl” for women do this with their gay voice, gay walk, gay clothes, and overall gay self. Western society is influencing many of your fellow men to be feminized and act gay. And then they wonder why attractive girls aren’t into them (an eventual problem, I figured out, with the same guy on my floor; he’s a nice guy).

Side note: How can you tell if someone has a gay voice? Over the last year, I’ve developed in my own head what I like to call ‘The Gay Voice Test’. It’s very simple: Imagine them saying “I’m gay” and “Oh my god, he’s so cute.” Does it sound believable? Does it sound authentic? There’s your answer.

Also, many men let themselves go. Toxic foods are today’s most abused drug. They taste good, and that’s enough for many men to let themselves look like a pig by stuffing themselves with shit. Laziness also attributes to men not exercising. If you care about what you eat and what you do with your body, this will stand out quick. Women will notice right away that you are a man that actually gives a shit about your own health enough to look good and stand out amongst the pudgy mess that makes up the majority of your fellow men. Self-respect also plays a big role in this.

Perfect example of what I’m talking about. This is the modern man of Western cultures. Right away you can notice by his double chin that he doesn’t give a shit about what he eats or what he does with his body, but then has the confidence of a baby duckling when conversing with women and then wonders why they didn't seem interested. You also notice the gay clothes, the gay haircut, the gay body language, and *insert Jonah Hill’s voice here* the gay voice. This guy will not attract quality women, not by a longshot.

In short, the feminized society of today makes manly men stand out. Women are attracted to masculine, fit men. This is why you’ll never see feminine or grossly pudgy men with anyone attractive. There is a legitimate shortage of masculine men today for women, and deep down a lot of them know it and are quick to try and lock down actual men. Just by being yourself, being true to who you are as a man and not acting like a faggot and not letting yourself go, you will automatically stand out by a longshot amongst other men and be considered ‘above average’. Being a man with neomasculine characteristics will pay off.

The Bad

Women are affected by this too.

First off, more women today are becoming lesbians. Gullible women are tricked into thinking they like eating carpet more today compared to 10, 20, 30 years ago simply because of a growing leftist propaganda. SJWs want others to feel that they are not straight, that if you look deep within yourself you’ll realize that it’s a lot more complicated than that. If you’re an ugly loser who doesn’t get quality dick, make no attempt to improve your appearance, because that couldn’t possibly be the reason why. Obviously this is just the universe’s way of telling you you’re meant to be a lesbian. “Wow, that makes so much sense!” screams every gullible ugly western woman ever as she heads to Hot Topic for her carpet muncher starter pack. As a result, women who could otherwise pass as sexy end up embarrassing themselves by shooting through the heart and they’re to blame cause they give love a bad name.



Or however you want to word it, I’m just really feeling Bon Jovi today.

But a rising rate of conversion to Elena Kaganism isn’t even half of the problem. As I’ve stated in another thread, I strongly believe that more homosexual men exist in the western world compared to homosexual women simply because of the feminized nature of our new culture. So what’s the bigger issue with women? Well, it’s exactly that: the bigger issue.

Raise your hand if you want to bang these beautiful broads.



What, no hands? Why ever not?

Western culture is influencing not just men, but women as well to shove toxic food down their chew holes and have no motivation to hit the gym. The way I see it, and in all reality this is how every man who is honest with himself sees it, a woman is as physically attractive as she appears to care about how she looks. Being a giant glob of fat with a face, two arms and two legs thrown somewhere on there brings you down to a flat 0 on a scale of honest attractiveness. There’s nothing sexy about blatant physical evidence of a woman’s history of neglect to care for her own body and her own self.

All this means fewer options for men to look out for in the world of playing the field, dating, and even looking for ‘the one’ later in life, if you end up making that decision. But one may say, “Don’t both sides even themselves out?” Both men and women have become gay, fat and unattractive as a result of our modern culture, so men aren’t at any more of a disadvantage as women, right?

Wrong. Here’s where it gets ugly.

The Ugly

Do me a favor: Open a new tab, go to YouTube, search “plus-size body”, “body confidence” or something similar and take note of any trends you see in the first page of video thumbnails. Go ahead, I can wait.

Notice a trend that sticks out?

All of the videos are of women.

There is a growing movement that gradually came about in the 90’s and early 2000’s but really took off about five years ago that involves fat women using videos and social media to justify their own pigliness to the world and encourage other women to settle for a future that involves being taken to your Aunt Judy’s family reunion in the back of a tow truck. And that’s the odd trend about this movement: it’s exclusively by women, for women. I’ve never seen a fat man behind a video camera or dancing on the streets of New York City making a fool out of himself trying to justify the fact that he’s a fat cow. It’s all women. Women are both the leaders and the followers of this pig-positive movement.

And one may wonder: Why is that? The more logical answer is something feminists and leftists would gasp at for being over-the-top and politically incorrect, but here it is: Generally-speaking, compared to women, men have shown to have different and more logical ways of responding to their own physical and emotional problems. Where a 20 and 30-something woman will pop five different kind of pills a day for her depression, men seek positive time investment in productive and meaningful hobbies. Where a woman will be suicidal after a break-up and then for the next few months slut around to replace the void that her ex-boyfriend left only to feel guilty, embarrassed and used afterwards, men will more quickly and calmly realize that they need to adapt and move on with their life in less of an extreme way. And where a fat woman will attempt to justify the fact that no quality man has wanted anything to do with her since her metabolism ran out after high school and she ballooned up and constantly assured herself that she is a healthy and beautiful woman, a fat man will either fully understand and accept the fact that he has no good dating options for obvious reasons or will start eating healthy and hit the gym, because he knows that this will fix the main reason why he can’t get ass that’s not grossly fat and jiggly.



Fat men do not attempt to justify why they have horrible dating options with some bullshit excuse about society’s structure, they instead understand that their options are what they are because of their own poor choices.

I sincerely believe that advocators for the plus-size body confidence movement are, in every case, unhappy with themselves initially because of how much they’ve let themselves go. And the reason why they stay this way is because they can keep themselves sane with today’s technology by somehow managing to fit within a camera’s view, tell their life story, whine about how mean meanies are mean for saying mean things about their sexy Monstro the Whale body, and have other human lards write to them about how inspiring they are. These lards end up taking what was said in the video seriously, where sane people would take it as a joke or a big comedy routine. They then live under the facade that being fat is the exact same as being a more healthy weight. Same shape. Same risk of physical and emotional problems. Same burden on others. Not at all an indicator of self-control and mental stability.

All of this means that us men have very few dating options, unless we’re content with being a chubby chaser. Admittedly, many men have shown to adapt to this fat feminist movement by settling for hamsters.

I see this all the time.

But for those of us who aren’t content with settling for farm animals, the truth is simply that we have fewer options, not only today, but I predict much worse in the close future.

But a growing fat movement for women isn’t the only awful, imbalancing aspect about Western culture that puts men with good standards at a loss and disadvantage in the game. Below is a quick list of other miscellaneous characteristics.

• Men who are players or who simply play the field once in awhile and flirt are now douchebags. The roles have been reversed. Years ago, it was viewed that men who get quality ass by flirting around were cool and women who slept around were sluts. Now, women who have sex with randoms are empowered and independent and “don’t need no man”, whereas men are left with the title of ‘douchebag’ and ‘jerk’.
• The rape culture phenomenon. Obvious one, and it’s getting worse and worse. More women are realizing that if they regret a night of fucking a man or men, they can simply call rape to save their face. Mix this with the broadening of the definition of rape and you have one hell of a sketchy system of romance. It sure is gonna be fun walking on eggshells for the rest of our lives.
• A growing hostile attitude towards men who reject women based on weight. I remember when I was in 6th grade, a whole 10 years ago, I started seeing the first of this. One day during recess, whilst balling and being a pimp (just kidding, I was on the swings), I was told by this fat girl’s friends that she had a crush on me. When I said I didn’t feel the same way, I was heckled and bothered, demanding why this is. When one of the girls asked “Is it because she’s fat?” I told the truth and said yes. This obviously made me worse than Osama Bin Laden. I even remember one of them threatening to “tell on me” for saying that. For what, having standards? Although this was just in elementary school, this same scenario can be seen all throughout the western world nowadays. If you reject a woman because she is fat, and especially if her friends are around, be prepared for an earful.
• More pill poppers. I mentioned this briefly above. More prescription drug abusers exist today for multitudes of mental health problems that doctors diagnose and figure a smorgasbord of pills will help. This is usually found within white women in their 20’s and 30’s but can stretch beyond that demographic.
• More psychopathic/clingy women. Relating to above, more women are clingy and psychopathic today which I would say is positively correlated to an increase in pill poppers. As a result, some women are even suicidal. None of this is something you want to deal with.
  

And I’m sure there’s more that I am forgetting. And remember: These are only disadvantaging aspects that involve game. I could go on forever about how men (and society in general) are at a loss for reasons unrelated to game as well.

The evolving western culture puts men’s game at a great loss today and even more in the future.

What Can You Do?

So much negativity, right? I start off with something relatively good, but then crush your spirits with two doses of debbie-downeritis. But like your childhood doctor after he gave you your first shot, here’s where I give you a lollipop and tell you everything’s gonna be okay….. sort of.

The declining western world is a bummer, but instead of bitching about it and adapting the way every other guy has by being apart of the problem and settling for less, the best thing you can do for yourself is to take pride in where you stand. This is the whole point of this write-up. Why should you take pride in where your stand, you may ask? Because everything about it is good. Sure, a big perk of not being apart of the decline includes better physical and mental health, but there’s so much more to it than that. You have no idea how good you look to others by standing out and being one of the very few who haven’t succumbed to this new and evolved social culture by being fat, thinking you’re gay, being feminine, being ugly, etc. It says a lot about who you are. It says a lot about your willpower, your stability, your confidence, your intelligence, and your self-respect. You are unique because you show every sign of being a sane, masculine, smart and successful man, something that is rare to find today.

At the end of the day, when the Lindy Wests and the Laci Greens and the BuzzFeed and VICE faggots and millions of other toxic human beings are tucking themselves in having to sleep on what they do, being honest with themselves, and the person they honestly are and to eventually wake up and stare back at themselves in the mirror, you can rest soundly and gaze joyfully on the fact that you are everything positive and good that you can be. You are the best you that you can be. You are a realistic person. You don’t pretend, you don’t make up words, you don’t shove your problems in others’ faces. And you certainly don’t take your life for granted. Everything about you tells others how you’re doing, and how you’re doing is great. You have risen above a toxic society to be apart of a small population that is good. You represent self-improvement in a dying world, and people respect that. People don’t look at you and wince at the hideous view, they smile and grin because they can see physical evidence that you know what you’re doing with yourself.

You represent a resistance to a toxic world and, being apart of this resistance, you are respected and loved; envied and desired.

If you are honest with yourself about the man that you are being today, living by neomasculine beliefs and characteristics, you are and will always be a happy person living a great and self-fulfilling life.

[HenryHill]

>>>First off, more women today are becoming lesbians.

Do you base this on anything else besides anecdotal evidence?

[RoastBeefCurtains4Me]

I see lesbians everywhere I go nowadays. I can't go out in public without seeing them. I'm not exaggerating. I live in a large American city, and I think they might be more common here than the population as a whole, but I see a huge increase of blatantly butch women. I see a huge number of older women with plainly butch hair and clothes, and huge numbers of younger women out in public holding hands and showing various other PDA. Not just ambiguous, but unmistakably lesbian. Perhaps there were always this many lesbians, and now they are more "out" in their hair and clothing styles. However, I'd guess the actual numbers are up.

[easternwomenrule]

I spend most of the year in the East where the people are sane but im back in the West to work now where i notice that most men act gay and have feminine qualities while women are muscular with short hair. This doesn't include fat women nearly everywhere i look!! It feels like I'm in a nightmare when i come back to the West!

I have very little friends in the west these days cause we dont see eye to eye. 3 more months to go before i head back to the East. Just going to keep my head down and work my ass off.

It seems to get way worst everytime i come back... Living in the east really opens your eyes up! I feel sorry to men that date westernise women. If they only head to the East and date a couple women there!

[CynicalContrarian]

Milo Yiannopolouosososos (whatever his name is), isn't all to impressed with the idea of lesbianism.

Sure enough, I had a lesbian girl recently state quite unexpectedly at work, that I was ( to paraphrase ) -

"one guy she'd turn straight for."

This girl is far too 'sporty' & more masculine than your average hipster / emo git; so I have no personal interest.
Yet, as much of a surprise as it was, it is also somewhat flattering.
So yes, don't be a foppish hipster / emo git.
Be masculine & seize the day.

[CH-Toronto]

I agree with you for the most part - but I don't think you're enough credit to men.

Quote:

In short, the feminized society of today makes manly men stand out. Women are attracted to masculine, fit men. This is why you’ll never see feminine or grossly pudgy men with anyone attractive. There is a legitimate shortage of masculine men today for women, and deep down a lot of them know it and are quick to try and lock down actual men. Just by being yourself, being true to who you are as a man and not acting like a faggot and not letting yourself go, you will automatically stand out by a longshot amongst other men and be considered ‘above average’. Being a man with neomasculine characteristics will pay off.

The problem is less that - "masculine men stick out" and more "FEMININE women stick out". For those that have met me, I'm pretty much simply average - HOWEVER, because the average western woman of today is much more masculine than of days past - she desires a "masculine" man.

As it's pointed out, real, healthy relationships are built on a feminine/masculine disparity. The real problem has become the standards by which 'how a woman, and how a man' should be.

So we have women today having a masculine level of about 5 or even 6-7. They list their top traits as being funny, sarcastic and confident. Those are not the traits of a feminine woman - however they desire a masculine man. Going by that scale, a "masculine man" needs to be closer to an 8-9 just in terms of masculinity. The problem is that the AVERAGE guy has been for years closer to a 5-7 on the masculinity scale- and now in schools/media they've been encouraged to REDUCE IT.

It's only going to get worse before it gets better. I've been in Colombia about a month now - and the BEST guys I've seen always happen to be WESTERN MEN. That's not a coincidence.

[samsamsam]

(10-15-2015 07:06 PM)easternwomenrule Wrote:  

I spend most of the year in the East where the people are sane but im back in the West to work now where i notice that most men act gay and have feminine qualities while women are muscular with short hair. This doesn't include fat women nearly everywhere i look!! It feels like I'm in a nightmare when i come back to the West!

When you refer to east I assume it is Asia? Or does that include EE?

[Quintus Curtius]

(10-15-2015 05:26 PM)Goldhawkstar Wrote:  

If you are honest with yourself about the man that you are being today, living by neomasculine beliefs and characteristics, you are and will always be a happy person living a great and self-fulfilling life.

Great, great post, Goldhawkstar. I agree.

This last quote you made above is to me a modern way of restating the old Stoic principle:

The man of virtue will never be in want, will never be in need, and can never be miserable.

So old, and yet so timeless, are these truths.

[Horus]

Quote:

The declining western world is a bummer, but instead of bitching about it and adapting the way every other guy has by being apart of the problem and settling for less, the best thing you can do for yourself is to take pride in where you stand. This is the whole point of this write-up. Why should you take pride in where your stand, you may ask? Because everything about it is good. Sure, a big perk of not being apart of the decline includes better physical and mental health, but there’s so much more to it than that. You have no idea how good you look to others by standing out and being one of the very few who haven’t succumbed to this new and evolved social culture by being fat, thinking you’re gay, being feminine, being ugly, etc. It says a lot about who you are. It says a lot about your willpower, your stability, your confidence, your intelligence, and your self-respect. You are unique because you show every sign of being a sane, masculine, smart and successful man, something that is rare to find today.

Nicely put. Although we are told by many in society that we should think and act in an opposite manner to the one you describe, deep down most sane people know that this is the way we garner the most respect.

Nice post Goldhawkstar. This wouldn't be the first time I wish I could give multiple rep points.

[Glaucon]

Rejoice, we have the problems of the emperors:

“The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane.”
― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

“Begin each day by telling yourself: Today I shall be meeting with interference, ingratitude, insolence, disloyalty, ill-will, and selfishness – all of them due to the offenders’ ignorance of what is good or evil.”
― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

“The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts: therefore, guard accordingly, and take care that you entertain no notions unsuitable to virtue and reasonable nature.”
― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

[Tim in real life]

Thank you for this wake up call. It gives me more motivation to stay the course of positive change.

[Scorpio Rising]

In short, the feminized society of today makes manly men stand out. Women are attracted to masculine, fit men. This is why you’ll never see feminine or grossly pudgy men with anyone attractive. There is a legitimate shortage of masculine men today for women, and deep down a lot of them know it and are quick to try and lock down actual men. Just by being yourself, being true to who you are as a man and not acting like a faggot and not letting yourself go, you will automatically stand out by a longshot amongst other men and be considered ‘above average’. Being a man with neomasculine characteristics will pay off.

Sorry but things are so screwed up these days that you can't count on that maxim holding up with any degree of regularity. I'm not going to go full biographical but I am much older than the average here. I have seen alpha leaning men cucked for parasitical betas. Handsome men dumped for more pedestrian looking men, even those who would be considered unattractive. Short men, fat men, short and fat men accompanied by drop dead gorgeous women. Men even as old as me gaming 20 and 30 somethings. The world is turned upside down in the so called civilized west. Yes my all means work hard to be as traditional masculine as you can. It may increase your chances of success but this is truly a world gone mad.

[The Black Knight]

GoldHawkStar Wrote:

The best thing you can do for yourself is to take pride in where you stand. This is the whole point of this write-up

[...]

It says a lot about your willpower, your stability, your confidence, your intelligence, and your self-respect.

[...]

I remember when I was in 6th grade, a whole 10 years ago

No one, including myself, is going to argue with taking justified pride in one's self. Your pep talk post makes a lot of valid points.

However, assuming you are only about 20/21/22 years old: I wouldn't go around making grand statements, even in a general sense, about a person's willpower, self-respect, and so forth when you really haven't been neck deep in shit in the trenches for very long time and understand at a visceral level what years living in a shitshow can do to one's perspective.

This "be happy because you're awesome" while on a sinking ship non-sense is a great attitude to have in the short-term because it will improve your odds of keeping you alive briefly. In the long-term, it's gonna get you killed.

The only way to survive the whole trip is to get off the sinking ship or fix it.

[Rush87]

From my own observations in Australia, even muscular men who are masculine in appearance are dating absolute land whales. It has descended to the point where despite their masculine appearance, their personalities are extremely feminine.

[R_Niko]

I see that in Toronto, too. I think it's the next step in the evolution of feminist cultures. Completely denigrating the value of masculinity, humiliating men, acting like we have no value whatsoever. If you can get handsome men to settle for land whales, you have total control.

[General Stalin]

You got to understand that it is not a modern young woman's imperative to "lockdown" a man. They don't want kids or a family. They heavily value their "freedom" and independence - this doesn't mean you can't casually bang plenty of good looking girls. Of course you can. That's essentially all you can do with them.

Guys who want a steady committed relationship are generally relegated to the bottom of the barrel women who of course would gladly "lockdown" a man who is way above their punching weight.

[Valentine]

Repped, great post.

In the community there's an overwhelming focus on the negative sides of the modern age, and this leads many to become bitter and jaded or even MGTOW.

It is good to document all the negative things, for they serve as a warning to those who buy into the bullshit of mainstream society.

At the same time it wouldn't go amiss if we as a whole regularly express gratitude for our good fortune and freedom.

We can live the sex lives that only Kings could have, travel to country in the world in only a few hours and seduce every nationality with just our words. All things we've been able to do because we crowdsourced this information and have used it to enhance our lives.

Thank you for this reminder of just how fortunate we are.

[Subtext]

(10-15-2015 05:26 PM)GoldHawkStar Wrote:  

There’s no sugarcoating it (no pun intended); if you live in America, Canada, Western Europe or certain parts of Australia, your culture has evolved to influence (I would argue) the majority of those around you to be simply unappealing and unattractive. And the worst part: Anyone with a brain can tell you that what lies ahead in the future is even more hideous.

Now many will argue that this is none of your business. Who cares how others live their lives, it doesn’t affect you. It does. I could get into the nitty gritty of how obesity, homosexuality and other leftist propaganda negatively affects a society’s well-being in more ways than I can count on my hands, but today I want to specifically talk about why this is a problem for your game. Like it or not, we’re all strapped into the downward-sloping roller coaster that is society’s decline This never-ending ride puts a certain group of people at the biggest disadvantage, and that group consists of straight men with neomasculine characteristics who care enough about themselves to look good and have standards that aren’t somewhere within the confines of a toilet.

Regarding your game, like most things in the real world, there is both good and bad to this decline, but mostly bad. Let’s talk about it.

The Good



The gay movement has taken over, and it’s done more than what you may think to the male population.

A couple years ago, I met this guy on my floor who seemed very homosexual. I can’t put it in a nicer way - everything about him screamed “faggot”. The way he walked, the way he talked, the way he interacted with people. Well one day we walk past a room of cute women while one of them was bending over. I didn’t say anything because I didn’t want to make him feel uncomfortable, but he comes out and says that he “enjoyed the view”. I later figure out that yes, he is 100% straight. Many other men on my floor were very feminine as well, but through various “house talks” (college programs), I learned that they were straight men who desired women, most of them either having bad luck in that area or “happy” being tied down by a gross whale.

You see, it’s not just gay men, but also feminized pussies who claim they’re attracted to women. The obvious thing to say in this section is “our increasing-leftist society has made more men come out as gay or think they are gay, and that gets rid of some competition”, but I’d say that it’s more generally the fact that it’s molded very many men, both gay and straight, into a more feminized version of what they otherwise would be, making masculinity stand out more than what it ever has been. Dudes who are “on the prowl” for women do this with their gay voice, gay walk, gay clothes, and overall gay self. Western society is influencing many of your fellow men to be feminized and act gay. And then they wonder why attractive girls aren’t into them (an eventual problem, I figured out, with the same guy on my floor; he’s a nice guy).

Side note: How can you tell if someone has a gay voice? Over the last year, I’ve developed in my own head what I like to call ‘The Gay Voice Test’. It’s very simple: Imagine them saying “I’m gay” and “Oh my god, he’s so cute.” Does it sound believable? Does it sound authentic? There’s your answer.

Also, many men let themselves go. Toxic foods are today’s most abused drug. They taste good, and that’s enough for many men to let themselves look like a pig by stuffing themselves with shit. Laziness also attributes to men not exercising. If you care about what you eat and what you do with your body, this will stand out quick. Women will notice right away that you are a man that actually gives a shit about your own health enough to look good and stand out amongst the pudgy mess that makes up the majority of your fellow men. Self-respect also plays a big role in this.

Perfect example of what I’m talking about. This is the modern man of Western cultures. Right away you can notice by his double chin that he doesn’t give a shit about what he eats or what he does with his body, but then has the confidence of a baby duckling when conversing with women and then wonders why they didn't seem interested. You also notice the gay clothes, the gay haircut, the gay body language, and *insert Jonah Hill’s voice here* the gay voice. This guy will not attract quality women, not by a longshot.

In short, the feminized society of today makes manly men stand out. Women are attracted to masculine, fit men. This is why you’ll never see feminine or grossly pudgy men with anyone attractive. There is a legitimate shortage of masculine men today for women, and deep down a lot of them know it and are quick to try and lock down actual men. Just by being yourself, being true to who you are as a man and not acting like a faggot and not letting yourself go, you will automatically stand out by a longshot amongst other men and be considered ‘above average’. Being a man with neomasculine characteristics will pay off.

The Bad

Women are affected by this too.

First off, more women today are becoming lesbians. Gullible women are tricked into thinking they like eating carpet more today compared to 10, 20, 30 years ago simply because of a growing leftist propaganda. SJWs want others to feel that they are not straight, that if you look deep within yourself you’ll realize that it’s a lot more complicated than that. If you’re an ugly loser who doesn’t get quality dick, make no attempt to improve your appearance, because that couldn’t possibly be the reason why. Obviously this is just the universe’s way of telling you you’re meant to be a lesbian. “Wow, that makes so much sense!” screams every gullible ugly western woman ever as she heads to Hot Topic for her carpet muncher starter pack. As a result, women who could otherwise pass as sexy end up embarrassing themselves by shooting through the heart and they’re to blame cause they give love a bad name.



Or however you want to word it, I’m just really feeling Bon Jovi today.

But a rising rate of conversion to Elena Kaganism isn’t even half of the problem. As I’ve stated in another thread, I strongly believe that more homosexual men exist in the western world compared to homosexual women simply because of the feminized nature of our new culture. So what’s the bigger issue with women? Well, it’s exactly that: the bigger issue.

Raise your hand if you want to bang these beautiful broads.



What, no hands? Why ever not?

Western culture is influencing not just men, but women as well to shove toxic food down their chew holes and have no motivation to hit the gym. The way I see it, and in all reality this is how every man who is honest with himself sees it, a woman is as physically attractive as she appears to care about how she looks. Being a giant glob of fat with a face, two arms and two legs thrown somewhere on there brings you down to a flat 0 on a scale of honest attractiveness. There’s nothing sexy about blatant physical evidence of a woman’s history of neglect to care for her own body and her own self.

All this means fewer options for men to look out for in the world of playing the field, dating, and even looking for ‘the one’ later in life, if you end up making that decision. But one may say, “Don’t both sides even themselves out?” Both men and women have become gay, fat and unattractive as a result of our modern culture, so men aren’t at any more of a disadvantage as women, right?

Wrong. Here’s where it gets ugly.

The Ugly

Do me a favor: Open a new tab, go to YouTube, search “plus-size body”, “body confidence” or something similar and take note of any trends you see in the first page of video thumbnails. Go ahead, I can wait.

Notice a trend that sticks out?

All of the videos are of women.

There is a growing movement that gradually came about in the 90’s and early 2000’s but really took off about five years ago that involves fat women using videos and social media to justify their own pigliness to the world and encourage other women to settle for a future that involves being taken to your Aunt Judy’s family reunion in the back of a tow truck. And that’s the odd trend about this movement: it’s exclusively by women, for women. I’ve never seen a fat man behind a video camera or dancing on the streets of New York City making a fool out of himself trying to justify the fact that he’s a fat cow. It’s all women. Women are both the leaders and the followers of this pig-positive movement.

And one may wonder: Why is that? The more logical answer is something feminists and leftists would gasp at for being over-the-top and politically incorrect, but here it is: Generally-speaking, compared to women, men have shown to have different and more logical ways of responding to their own physical and emotional problems. Where a 20 and 30-something woman will pop five different kind of pills a day for her depression, men seek positive time investment in productive and meaningful hobbies. Where a woman will be suicidal after a break-up and then for the next few months slut around to replace the void that her ex-boyfriend left only to feel guilty, embarrassed and used afterwards, men will more quickly and calmly realize that they need to adapt and move on with their life in less of an extreme way. And where a fat woman will attempt to justify the fact that no quality man has wanted anything to do with her since her metabolism ran out after high school and she ballooned up and constantly assured herself that she is a healthy and beautiful woman, a fat man will either fully understand and accept the fact that he has no good dating options for obvious reasons or will start eating healthy and hit the gym, because he knows that this will fix the main reason why he can’t get ass that’s not grossly fat and jiggly.



Fat men do not attempt to justify why they have horrible dating options with some bullshit excuse about society’s structure, they instead understand that their options are what they are because of their own poor choices.

I sincerely believe that advocators for the plus-size body confidence movement are, in every case, unhappy with themselves initially because of how much they’ve let themselves go. And the reason why they stay this way is because they can keep themselves sane with today’s technology by somehow managing to fit within a camera’s view, tell their life story, whine about how mean meanies are mean for saying mean things about their sexy Monstro the Whale body, and have other human lards write to them about how inspiring they are. These lards end up taking what was said in the video seriously, where sane people would take it as a joke or a big comedy routine. They then live under the facade that being fat is the exact same as being a more healthy weight. Same shape. Same risk of physical and emotional problems. Same burden on others. Not at all an indicator of self-control and mental stability.

All of this means that us men have very few dating options, unless we’re content with being a chubby chaser. Admittedly, many men have shown to adapt to this fat feminist movement by settling for hamsters.

I see this all the time.

But for those of us who aren’t content with settling for farm animals, the truth is simply that we have fewer options, not only today, but I predict much worse in the close future.

But a growing fat movement for women isn’t the only awful, imbalancing aspect about Western culture that puts men with good standards at a loss and disadvantage in the game. Below is a quick list of other miscellaneous characteristics.

• Men who are players or who simply play the field once in awhile and flirt are now douchebags. The roles have been reversed. Years ago, it was viewed that men who get quality ass by flirting around were cool and women who slept around were sluts. Now, women who have sex with randoms are empowered and independent and “don’t need no man”, whereas men are left with the title of ‘douchebag’ and ‘jerk’.
• The rape culture phenomenon. Obvious one, and it’s getting worse and worse. More women are realizing that if they regret a night of fucking a man or men, they can simply call rape to save their face. Mix this with the broadening of the definition of rape and you have one hell of a sketchy system of romance. It sure is gonna be fun walking on eggshells for the rest of our lives.
• A growing hostile attitude towards men who reject women based on weight. I remember when I was in 6th grade, a whole 10 years ago, I started seeing the first of this. One day during recess, whilst balling and being a pimp (just kidding, I was on the swings), I was told by this fat girl’s friends that she had a crush on me. When I said I didn’t feel the same way, I was heckled and bothered, demanding why this is. When one of the girls asked “Is it because she’s fat?” I told the truth and said yes. This obviously made me worse than Osama Bin Laden. I even remember one of them threatening to “tell on me” for saying that. For what, having standards? Although this was just in elementary school, this same scenario can be seen all throughout the western world nowadays. If you reject a woman because she is fat, and especially if her friends are around, be prepared for an earful.
• More pill poppers. I mentioned this briefly above. More prescription drug abusers exist today for multitudes of mental health problems that doctors diagnose and figure a smorgasbord of pills will help. This is usually found within white women in their 20’s and 30’s but can stretch beyond that demographic.
• More psychopathic/clingy women. Relating to above, more women are clingy and psychopathic today which I would say is positively correlated to an increase in pill poppers. As a result, some women are even suicidal. None of this is something you want to deal with.
  

And I’m sure there’s more that I am forgetting. And remember: These are only disadvantaging aspects that involve game. I could go on forever about how men (and society in general) are at a loss for reasons unrelated to game as well.

The evolving western culture puts men’s game at a great loss today and even more in the future.

What Can You Do?

So much negativity, right? I start off with something relatively good, but then crush your spirits with two doses of debbie-downeritis. But like your childhood doctor after he gave you your first shot, here’s where I give you a lollipop and tell you everything’s gonna be okay….. sort of.

The declining western world is a bummer, but instead of bitching about it and adapting the way every other guy has by being apart of the problem and settling for less, the best thing you can do for yourself is to take pride in where you stand. This is the whole point of this write-up. Why should you take pride in where your stand, you may ask? Because everything about it is good. Sure, a big perk of not being apart of the decline includes better physical and mental health, but there’s so much more to it than that. You have no idea how good you look to others by standing out and being one of the very few who haven’t succumbed to this new and evolved social culture by being fat, thinking you’re gay, being feminine, being ugly, etc. It says a lot about who you are. It says a lot about your willpower, your stability, your confidence, your intelligence, and your self-respect. You are unique because you show every sign of being a sane, masculine, smart and successful man, something that is rare to find today.

At the end of the day, when the Lindy Wests and the Laci Greens and the BuzzFeed and VICE faggots and millions of other toxic human beings are tucking themselves in having to sleep on what they do, being honest with themselves, and the person they honestly are and to eventually wake up and stare back at themselves in the mirror, you can rest soundly and gaze joyfully on the fact that you are everything positive and good that you can be. You are the best you that you can be. You are a realistic person. You don’t pretend, you don’t make up words, you don’t shove your problems in others’ faces. And you certainly don’t take your life for granted. Everything about you tells others how you’re doing, and how you’re doing is great. You have risen above a toxic society to be apart of a small population that is good. You represent self-improvement in a dying world, and people respect that. People don’t look at you and wince at the hideous view, they smile and grin because they can see physical evidence that you know what you’re doing with yourself.

You represent a resistance to a toxic world and, being apart of this resistance, you are respected and loved; envied and desired.

If you are honest with yourself about the man that you are being today, living by neomasculine beliefs and characteristics, you are and will always be a happy person living a great and self-fulfilling life.

It was actually tried to push the gross fat male acceptance. Remember the "dad bod" thing that lasted all of a couple of weeks?

https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2017/01/06...08484.html

[JackinMelbourne]

(10-15-2015 06:01 PM)HenryHill Wrote:  

>>>First off, more women today are becoming lesbians.

Do you base this on anything else besides anecdotal evidence?

Anecdotal evidence is the most direct evidence there is.

If I need to make my mind up about something that is clearly observable, am I going to trust my own eyes or some cooked statistics?

[TheFinalEpic]

I'm glad this got bumped, because 3 years on, it still rings true.

You create the world in which you live. I don't live in a world of these ridiculous beliefs, fat women, or dyed haired harpies. These people simply don't exist to me. Just like I don't exist to them, in that I am unattainable.

The internal happiness that come from this is staggering.

[MrLemon]

(12-29-2018 04:41 PM)TheFinalEpic Wrote:  

You create the world in which you live. I don't live in a world of these ridiculous beliefs, fat women, or dyed haired harpies. These people simply don't exist to me.

This is the secret.

I started on a similar path 30 years ago. Not as well defined -- we didn't have a red pill movement back then -- but I was a guy who always despised bitchy women and gravitated towards traditional women.

I don't have a perfect life, but it's infinitely better than my poor friends who were suckered into marrying bitchy career women. They are, without exception, divorced and fucked over.

Also their wives always HATED my guts. Bitchy lesbians hate men who see them for what they are. I mean, why shouldn't they hate us? They are fundementally the criminal, hating mind, and there is nothing that makes criminals more angry than the cop who is on to them and doesn't believe their lies.

The lesbians of the world are headed for their inevitable day of reckoning. It will be very ugly indeed, but I won't have sympathy for them. For society to flourish, the scumbags must be eliminated or banished. I know that many other men on RVF don't believe it will come, but I do.

[Borges]

Has gym culture ever been as popular as it is today? Actually - has gym culture ever existed in a form that's comparable to today's? I don't think so. There are gyms everywhere, there's a huge international market of supplements and gym-related products, and you'll find gym rats no matter where you are. With current technology and resources, people are able to perfect their bodies in ways that were simply not possible in the past. And they are doing it. Sure, obesity has been steadily on the rise (I'd wager in direct proportion to office jobs and agricultural automation), but there are a lot of people out there - including straight men and women - who are exercising. It's fashionable to exercise. Cross-fit is a worldwide hit. Social media, especially Instagram, exacerbates this phenomenon. There are lots of wannabe IG thots out there working hard on their abs and butts. Men do so as well. As a matter of fact, even feminine, literally gay men do. Ever heard of the bear subculture? Some of those guys are jacked as fuck.

I don't disagree with the OP that being masculine is a form of resistance and that our physicality has a lot to do with it. But it's not the whole story - far from it. Being masculine is much more about frame, attitude and mentality than it is about physicality.

[Aszhaeleos]

There are gym bro's and fit guys everywhere today (well atleast where im from). Its almost like that old PUA cliché get a haircut and wear nice clothes if you want a girl, except now its oh and bust your ass working out 3-5 days a week too if you want to be acceptable.

Women on the other hand are getting fatter and fatter and still getting decent men to date/bang down to them. The few women that I see at the gym that are actually serious seem to have this obsessed fixation on attaining gigantic asses.

Shits not right

[Day Game Bang]

^^The blonde from that gif probably banged the whole football team lol

[moneyshot]

The one problem I have with this whole thing is seeing myself as a victim, not because I've been brainwashed into firmly believing that straight white males can't possibly be victims, but because it's directly counter to what is preached by this community and all other "men's groups" worth their salt–you have both the power and responsibility as a man to take charge of your shit, work on improving your lot (not just with women either), and make a life for yourself in this crazy, upside-down we live in, especially in the West.