Quote: (06-15-2011 04:45 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:
As a guy that, historically, has raw-dogged new talent only rarely, I'm curious to get the community's input on the matter. I've been thinking of slightly loosening my own "policy" on raw-dogging (strictly for higher-value females I encounter), but want to get the perspective of a trusted resource.
1. What sort of factors (apart from the obvious "skank factor" and nothing-to-lose-only-to-gain-single-mother factor) go into that decision for you guys?
2. What percentage of new girls do you raw-dog? If you started off raw-dogging a girl, do you raw-dog her all the time after that?
3. How do girls usually receive your efforts to go in bareback? Do most acquiesce with no protest? Do they invite you in bareback, assuring you they're "on the pill"?
4. Do you have a case-by-case attitude toward raw-dogging or an across-the-board policy?
5. Do your policies on raw-dogging vary according to her status within your "rotation" (a regular, a "made" member of your harem, a girl that you've pounded a few times, a brand new prospect)?
Etc.
1) The Skank factor is huge, but thankfully a sister, mostly female cousins and a decade of dealing with women has given me a good Slut Radar™.
Fact is, if it's a girl I've taken out a few times, have poked around in her head and things have escalated slowly, I'm more open to no dome than I would be a girl that I picked up in the club who was grabbing my cock on the dance floor. This is because I know who the first girl is, and the second girl, chances are I'm not the first guy that fucked her the same night he met her.
2) Condoms suck, and I hate them, but I always try to use one on new girls the first
few times at least.
But I'm not gonna lie and say I sometimes don't break my own rule. Sometimes there's too much liquor, or I forgot to carry one out, or she doesn't have anything that fits. That is not going to stop me banging a girl.
You want a percentage? New girls that get raw-dog is maybe 30-45%.
3) Most girls say 'I'm on the pill', but unless I see the case, then I don't believe it. Back when I started getting laid regularly (about 6 years ago), they would almost always demand/suggest a condom. Now I'd say only about 1 in 3 girls do that. Miraculously, I have never had an STD and have only had a tiny handful of pregnancy scares.
A sign of the times, or my game getting tighter? Are things changing in the marketplace, or am I putting off a more dominant vibe that makes women want me to impregnate them? Chicken and the egg.
4) Case-by-case. As I said, give me three hours with a girl (which is about two dates) and I could gauge her sluttiness and form a reasonable estimate of the number of men she has fucked to within +/- 2.
Girl I went out with two nights ago, sweet, 22, small-town, feminine, laughed at my jokes, didn't breach the topic of sex until I did has a single-digit notch count. When I fuck her next week, I'll have no remorse sliding in unprotected.
Friend of a friend I met at the bar last night; hammered (at 8 PM), 28, loud, smoker, fondling my chest, tattoos on her wrist and ankles...I would not go in raw unless I
absolutely had to.
5) Well girlfriends are no condom most definitely...don't people get girlfriends so they can stop buying condoms?
Regulars vary by the girl. If she wants one, she gets one, if not, she doesn't.
As a caveat, if a girl is fucking other guy[s], she gets one.
'Made' member? I'm not sure what you mean. I'll assume it's a girl who is in your orbit, but isn't really close to the center, like my half Scandinavian half-Muslim ex-co-worker the 20-year-old drug dealer I have in rotation but only hear from every few months. Condoms.
Fresh prospect? If I deem her worthy and she doesn't put off a slut vibe (they're good at hiding it, but I always discover it) then I don't mind. If she asks for one, then I'll do it.