[Que enspastic]

Link is here : http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/...63831.html

Quote:

Ms Hemmings, who was travelling in India for three months and has since returned to the UK, wrote about the experience on her Lucy's Miles Away travel blog in March.

She was sitting at a bus stop in Mumbai when she noticed a man move closer to her.

“From the corner of my eye, to my horror, I realised that he had pulled out his penis and was masturbating, staring intently at me,” she wrote. “I felt sick.”

Ms Hemmings wrote that although she respected Indian culture by covering herself completely in loose clothes and had followed safety advice about travel and conduct with strangers, it was not the first time something similar had happened. Ms Hemmings said groups of men can become intimidating in India. Photo: Lucy Hemmings Ms Hemmings said groups of men can become intimidating in India. Photo: Lucy Hemmings

On a previous visit to India in 2012, she and a female friend spotted another man masturbating while watching them from bushes at an ashram. They laughed at him and moved on.

When it happened to her second time as she waited for a train, she alerted fellow travellers and he disappeared.

But Ms Hemmings said that the latest incident “felt different” and affected her far more, making her nervous walking alone and avoid eye contact with strangers.

She told The Independent: “I found it really frustrating because I’m someone who really loves interacting with people and I really struggled because suddenly I was afraid to look at people.

“I kept on thinking: ‘Is it going to happen every time?’

“Of course it doesn't but for about three days I really found it difficult.” Ms Hemmings said she found the next three days in Mumbai difficult

After deciding that she would not allow the man and his “tiny penis” to affect her, Ms Hemmings decided to write about the experience and discuss it with others, which she said was “cathartic”.

The former Bournemouth University student said she had no idea of the impact her blog would have and hopes it will encourage other women to talk about their experiences of sexual harassment around the world.

“It could easily have provoked a really negative reaction but it’s been absolutely wonderful and so humbling that people are writing to me to say they are sorry,” she said.

“There are very few countries in the world I can think of where that would happen.

This is doing the rounds on my facebook feed. Comments from everyone who has ever been to India suggest they too have encountered IRT. IRT is not considered charming; in fact, he is perceived as rather quite creepy and perverted.

[Oz.]

This woman has clearly never been on a train in a major u.s city at a late hour

[jariel]

[Broady]

How about this one.

Quote:

Police are on the hunt for a man who ejaculated onto the back of a woman at a Melbourne music festival.

The suspect is described as being of Indian appearance

Here's the link: Police hunt for man after he ejaculated on woman’s back at St Kilda Festival

That's just disgusting!

[Eskhander]

I have heard similar stories about blondes and redheads going to Egypt and India. For some reason it was those countries in particular.

But hey, I'm kind of a redhead! And I like attention!

[Veloce]

Tuth, what does your client have to say for himself?

Edit: I started google image searching "Indian guy masturbating .gif" thinking I could find something funny, not realizing that any porn would show up.

Yeah that was a mistake

[Kingsley Davis]

Woman not complicit in repeat visit to region where local men fail to restrain themselves from masturbating in her presence due to how hot she is.

[Que enspastic]

How did the Melbourne IRT ejaculate on someone's back while at a festival?? Did he just blow his load without wanking ?

[britchard]

This is actual sexual harassment, not some eye-raping shit western feminists make up.

[Saladin]

Fuck, my countrymen are embarrassing.

[Horus]

I've traveled to India a few times. After experiencing it, people will either love it or hate it. Personally, as a solo male traveler, I love the place, some areas more than others.

But when I've been hanging out/traveling with female travelers, you notice that sexual harassment of western females is very real. There have been several times I've had to push a local guy away when they touch a girl's arse, brush up against her for no reason, walk past and stroke her hair etc. Afterwards, the guy will often go back to a group of onlooking friends and they all stare with a kind of dull look in their eyes. I know we don't like the word creepy, but it's actually a very appropriate word for these experiences. The worst I saw was when I was sitting behind a couple of German girls on a train when it pulled into a station in the early hours of the morning. There were three local lads standing outside their window, and one of them just looked at the girls and pulled out his dick - didn't do anything with it, just wanted to show them.

Those are examples of real sexual harassment. Looking at a girl, saying "hello beautiful," or approaching a girl in the street to ask about the nearest pet shop is not sexual harassment.

[CodyB]

Sexual repression is real in the sub continent. I theorize that they see the west as a constant fuckfest and, because women often control their sexual fate in India, that women must be more welcoming in the west. They see getting their cock out and wanking furiously in public as a request to join the fuckfest.

[blck]

Quote:

...women must be more welcoming in the west. They see getting their cock out and wanking furiously in public as a request to join the fuckfest.

Showing them some german public action with busty blondes would be devastating for the west, boat people full of IRT would arrive every day.

[Libertas]

There's a reason why the State Department has issued warnings to young women traveling in India. This is that reason.

This is actually a real issue that Western feminists could focus on, but we know they won't because that requires effort and might be Racist.TM

[Cobra]

(05-22-2015 03:44 AM)Saladin Wrote:  

Fuck, my countrymen are embarrassing.

I would furiously agree that some are, yes. While I do think there is some universal Indian social programming that deteriorates the Inner game of Indian guys, the guys harassing women like this are the extreme representation of a smaller piece of that rather than the norm. And they almost always from the lower end of the socioeconomic ladder. A significant lack of education and resources turn them to the extremes.

Unfortunately, for a westerner, this extreme representation seems more universal than it is especially when publicized in such a way. While I can't blame them, it sucks that she will then go back home and talk about what those "Indian guys" did, not what some low lifes did.

These behaviors from that tier of Indian people are expected. It doesn't bother me because I know how they think. They don't have other options anyways. So to me a true IRT is one that has the education and the resources but fails to improve himself.

Thankfully I don't associate with them as they're just like any other guy in the west that fails to improve his situation.

[TravelerKai]

(05-22-2015 07:00 AM)Libertas Wrote:  

There's a reason why the State Department has issued warnings to young women traveling in India. This is that reason.

This is actually a real issue that Western feminists could focus on, but we know they won't because that requires effort and might be Racist.TM

Why are Western White women still traveling in India alone? Did CNN's non-stop coverage of it last year not do enough? Do the The US Border and Customs officers need to pull them to the side before they board a plane just to hammer in the fucking warnings? How stupid or ignorant can they be? I saw a poster on the wall in the passport office a couple months ago, talking about the travel advisories.

[kazz]

This is nothing new, its their country, if western women dont like it dont go there. I had shit happen to me in South America, including being accosted by a group of fags and trannies in Iquitos. We all have shit happen, their strong independent women right? I frankly dont give a fuck if some Indian dude flops his cock out at a western women in his own country.

[Pride male]

Fap India : Coming Soon.

[Tuthmosis]

(05-22-2015 07:26 AM)kazz Wrote:  

This is nothing new, its their country, if western women dont like it dont go there. I had shit happen to me in South America, including being accosted by a group of fags and trannies in Iquitos. We all have shit happen, their strong independent women right? I frankly dont give a fuck if some Indian dude flops his cock out at a western women in his own country.

   

[Surreyman]

Getting wanked at happens to more or less all female solo travellers in India, but they still keep going.

It's a great place, but I never would've gone there if I was a woman.

[Surreyman]

(05-22-2015 07:06 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

(05-22-2015 07:00 AM)Libertas Wrote:  

There's a reason why the State Department has issued warnings to young women traveling in India. This is that reason.

This is actually a real issue that Western feminists could focus on, but we know they won't because that requires effort and might be Racist.TM

Why are Western White women still traveling in India alone? Did CNN's non-stop coverage of it last year not do enough? Do the The US Border and Customs officers need to pull them to the side before they board a plane just to hammer in the fucking warnings? How stupid or ignorant can they be? I saw a poster on the wall in the passport office a couple months ago, talking about the travel advisories.

They say some shit like, 'why shouldn't I be able to?'

The obvious answer is, 'because of all the rape', but most western men don't have the balls to say that.

I think that's why they go, nobody has the balls to advise against it.

[Surreyman]

(05-22-2015 07:01 AM)Cobra Wrote:  

(05-22-2015 03:44 AM)Saladin Wrote:  

Fuck, my countrymen are embarrassing.

I would furiously agree that some are, yes. While I do think there is some universal Indian social programming that deteriorates the Inner game of Indian guys, the guys harassing women like this are the extreme representation of a smaller piece of that rather than the norm. And they almost always from the lower end of the socioeconomic ladder. A significant lack of education and resources turn them to the extremes.

Unfortunately, for a westerner, this extreme representation seems more universal than it is especially when publicized in such a way. While I can't blame them, it sucks that she will then go back home and talk about what those "Indian guys" did, not what some low lifes did.

These behaviors from that tier of Indian people are expected. It doesn't bother me because I know how they think. They don't have other options anyways. So to me a true IRT is one that has the education and the resources but fails to improve himself.

Thankfully I don't associate with them as they're just like any other guy in the west that fails to improve his situation.

When I was in college there was a fresh-off-the-boat Indian caught in the bushes jerking off looking at the girls.

[PeruLover12]

(05-22-2015 07:01 AM)Cobra Wrote:  

(05-22-2015 03:44 AM)Saladin Wrote:  

Fuck, my countrymen are embarrassing.

I would furiously agree that some are, yes. While I do think there is some universal Indian social programming that deteriorates the Inner game of Indian guys, the guys harassing women like this are the extreme representation of a smaller piece of that rather than the norm. And they almost always from the lower end of the socioeconomic ladder. A significant lack of education and resources turn them to the extremes.

I disagree and think this behaviour is endemic throughout the castes and socio-economic classes from Dalit to Brahmin, poor to rich. That was my experience in the country where educated guys I knew behaved at times in ways towards women that was pretty fucked up from a western point of view. The big story however is not some white woman getting jizzed on at a bus stop but the abuses that takes against Indian women in the back country in places like Madhya Pradesh or Bihar. Some of the news stories that make it out of there are pretty shocking.

It's not only in India either. Here in the UK whenever there is a news story about a doctor being struck off for sexual misconduct ( groping, unnecessary examination etc. ) you can almost always guess he is Indian before you read his name. It's so often it's funny. I watched 'To catch a predator' on youtube a while back and the funniest ones were Indian IT guys fresh off the boat and working high salaried jobs in the valley.

It's inevitable in places where men are so repressed and denied relief from their natural urges. If you're 26 and a virgin you're going to do anything for a bit of relief.

[Slim Shady]

(05-22-2015 02:15 PM)The Ligurian Wrote:  

(05-22-2015 07:01 AM)Cobra Wrote:  

(05-22-2015 03:44 AM)Saladin Wrote:  

Fuck, my countrymen are embarrassing.

I would furiously agree that some are, yes. While I do think there is some universal Indian social programming that deteriorates the Inner game of Indian guys, the guys harassing women like this are the extreme representation of a smaller piece of that rather than the norm. And they almost always from the lower end of the socioeconomic ladder. A significant lack of education and resources turn them to the extremes.

I disagree and think this behaviour is endemic throughout the castes and socio-economic classes from Dalit to Brahmin, poor to rich. That was my experience in the country where educated guys I knew behaved at times in ways towards women that was pretty fucked up from a western point of view. The big story however is not some white woman getting jizzed on at a bus stop but the abuses that takes against Indian women in the back country in places like Madhya Pradesh or Bihar. Some of the news stories that make it out of there are pretty shocking.

It's not only in India either. Here in the UK whenever there is a news story about a doctor being struck off for sexual misconduct ( groping, unnecessary examination etc. ) you can almost always guess he is Indian before you read his name. It's so often it's funny. I watched 'To catch a predator' on youtube a while back and the funniest ones were Indian IT guys fresh off the boat and working high salaried jobs in the valley.

It's inevitable in places where men are so repressed and denied relief from their natural urges. If you're 26 and a virgin you're going to do anything for a bit of relief.

These news stories are nothing more than Western propaganda designed to undermine Indians and Indian culture. While I don't disagree that weird and vile things happen, they are very small in number and committed by mentally deranged individuals. The problem is that every incident is highlighted and broadcasted.

It's akin to saying all white people are deranged psychos who will shoot up little kids with guns.

It's akin to saying all men are murdering rapists.

The hypocrisy some people display when it comes to Indian people here is astounding.
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Having said all this, again I agree that many poorer Indian guys will actually harass women on the streets verbally. Verbally harass does not mean masturbate in the bushes, which is a comical invention.

White women and Westernized/Urban Indian women suffer more from this harassment than regular Indian girls. This is because these girls are foreign to many of these men who come from really downtrodden villages - it's like seeing an alien. These girls have been highly pedestalized for them their entire lives. They also see these girls as "easy" and "cheap", a sentiment I think they share with a lot of men on this forum.

It's a weird relationship: they see them as superior goddesses and highly sexual objects at the same time. But they believe that they can never actually get any of these creatures. So when they see a white woman they go for broke and get some mild entertainment with their worker "bros" by sexually calling out to them and this gives them a distraction for 10 seconds from their incredibly difficult and shitty lives.
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You guys should be thankful to these losers, it will probably make it incredibly easy for you to game white or slutty urban Indian girls in India. After cute 18 year old Belgian gap year girls have been hit with lame one liners all week, they'll be ready to jump into your arms on the weekend when they see the impressive and stark contrast between you and these losers. That is, assuming that you are impressive yourself.

[Captainstabbin]

Subheadline:
"Woman is secretly flattered and plans a return trip."