Dalaran, I'm also a fellow asian that grew up in home country but came to USA at 12. Since then I've lived all over the US, have done fair share of traveling, and also lived and worked in Japan for two years.
I'm 29 now and I regret some of the things I have done with regard to my heritage. In many ways I echo your sentiment. For years I went out of my way to distance myself from my culture. But now I'm starting to see a bigger picture of where I fit in the world. While the US and western culture has allowed me to grow personally, I find myself thinking nostalgically more and more about my culture. At the end of the day we all want to be in a place where we feel like we belong. I regret some of the things I have done to distance myself from my culture.
Your dilemma is primarily a cultural one. My advice is to not be black and white about this decision. If it's possible to maintain a foothold in Vietnam and your culture while continuing to live in the West, that might leave more doors open for you later.
Because like most wise and older posters have already said you're only 24. Yeah you've done a lot but your brain and bag of experiences have a bit more to go. Don't close doors on yourself.
I'm 29 now and I regret some of the things I have done with regard to my heritage. In many ways I echo your sentiment. For years I went out of my way to distance myself from my culture. But now I'm starting to see a bigger picture of where I fit in the world. While the US and western culture has allowed me to grow personally, I find myself thinking nostalgically more and more about my culture. At the end of the day we all want to be in a place where we feel like we belong. I regret some of the things I have done to distance myself from my culture.
Your dilemma is primarily a cultural one. My advice is to not be black and white about this decision. If it's possible to maintain a foothold in Vietnam and your culture while continuing to live in the West, that might leave more doors open for you later.
Because like most wise and older posters have already said you're only 24. Yeah you've done a lot but your brain and bag of experiences have a bit more to go. Don't close doors on yourself.