Quote: (09-22-2016 05:48 AM)Ivanis Wrote:
There is no verbal "opener" needed in this situation.
The circumstance itself "opens" them as you enter the room..
Other than being attractive and cool, the big key here is
demeanor.. From the moment you walk in, body language will communicate much more than the words you use.. Your
vibration will tell them if you are
a member of the "Secret Society" or not.
But, even if you are a nervous, ugly, dork.. Opening them will be easy.. If that were the case, they would open you!
I would simply greet them with a coy smile.. Not overly excited, not dull and boring. I call it my secret society smile.
Verbally, I imagine myself just saying --
"hiiiiiii"
(
notice how I drag it out and lengthen it, just for dramatic effect as I look each of them in the eyes)
I don't imagine that I would say much early on, other than answering their questions for me, if they had any.
I would get comfortable. I want them to see that my comfort is my #1 priority, not talking to them, But, as I got comfortable and settled in, I'm sure some conversation would flow. If not, i would enjoy my sauna without worrying about having sex with them..
I'm going to say something else...
This shit happens all the time!
You will be in close proximity to 3 pretty girls. In line at a cafe, restaurant, fast food place.. A classroom, campus area, or backyard party.. Starbucks, Chipotle, McDonalds.. Public transportation, airport, elevator.. Mall, festival, sporting event, art event, beach, sunglasses kiosk, gym, spa, cruise ship, downtown street corner, etc.
One of them will look at you.. How will you respond?
You will probably look down, look away, or avoid eye contact.
That is what most guys do.
Don't be like "most guys"..
Hit her with the coy smirk/smile and "open" immediately!
Think simple
"hey"
"hi"
"what do u guys usually get here"
"oh that looks good"
"is that good"
"oh hey, what are you guys up to?"
General tips for these situations:
-Look at what she is holding in her hands, ask or comment on it
-observe and comment on her clothes
-discuss food, drink, menu options, etc.
-whatever she item she is looking at, ask her about
You will be in close proximity to 3 pretty girls. Remember this thread. Don't be a pussy!