And what if she is having a fuckawesome time with all your three boxes check and still turn ice-queen?
I'm not saying women don't give honest feedback, far from it. The problem lies in the fact that feedback from women depends entirely on their emotional state and therefore unreliable. Sure, the answer is just to "draw her into a positive emotional state" but this is very hit or miss and that's why game is largely a number's game.
Remember how Roosh said in Bang a girl said she loves his hair even though he washes it twice a week with conditioner?
I'm gonna use the last girl I took home to illustrate my point. Without too much details, met her in dance. Didn't even talk, just dance with her and she loves it. Saw her again, game her for about 2 min, then asked her out.
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Think about it like this: if she is not commenting on how great some aspect of you is, then it is a weakness. (Obviously there are exceptions to this. she will not tell you how cute she thinks you are if she doesn't want to seem superficial. she will not tell you how great your clothes or watch or car are if she doesn't want to seem materialistic).
Think about your hair game. If you don't regularly get compliments from girls that they love your hair, then guess what - you still have room to max out your hair game.
That night we went out, she commented on how she loved my jacket. "I know, that's why I wore it". After sex, she said "You are so muscular, it's hot" And "I love your mouth"
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Think about how fun you are. If the girl is not so dumbstruck by how much fun she's having with you that she can't help but comment on it, then guess what - you still have room to max out your funness.
The whole night I could see the glow on her face. When I walked into the venue and hi-5 all my friends including the DJ. When I took her from one awesome moves to another. When I make out with her as we dance and everybody was wooah. And when I took her home she couldn't stop "you have this/you did that?"
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Think about your comfort game. If girls are not regularly commenting on how they feel like they can say anything to you, then guess what - you still have room to max out your comfort game.
She asked me about my best friend, how I grew up. Told me stories about her and significant people in her life. We talked like soul mate. Philosophy, science etc. Morning I went with her to school and still make out like crazy in the subway.
Bam. Two days later, she sent me a FACEBOOK message saying she thought it was a mistake and she just broke up with her boyfriend and other BS and she didn't want to go any further. Yeah you could say it's buyer remorse, but thanks to the help here (especially Onto's) I laughed it off, maintained frame and asked her out on another date.
It worked. We gone out again as if she never sent that message. We talked more and make out so damn much at the first venue the waiter had to come and cockblocked me. She asked my opinion on a close BFF she "has never told anyone" Venue changed, make out so much again. The waiter gave us a free drink tour. DHV as fuck. Out on the streets I pin her against a wall and ravage her again. And I always had to pull away first.
So buyer's remorse out of the picture. And if your post-coitus game is tight you should not have trouble with buyer's remorse.
A few days later, saw her again unexpectedly at a club and she was as cold as if I'm the most disgusting guy in the room. Any further attempt was pushed back and I had to stop before I FUBAR myself.
Assuming all her feedback was honest, and there's no reason it wouldn't be, can you really explain the whole attitude change? Granted I was a bit needy the last time I saw her, but given the comfort and attraction level she was already giving me you would think she would look past that.
I discussed some more with RVF members and come to the conclusion that sometimes you do your best and the girl just won't squeeze and you won't fucking know why. You can trace it to this and that but truthfully you will never know. Then there's probably what Onto told me "She could be considering turning lesbian/her dog die/came back to her ex/gone full retard etc."
It is impossible to know the specific why with a particular girl unless we royally fuck up something. It is however possilbe to establish patterns of what work and what not with many girls. That's how Roosh recommend we calibrate our game and I'm 100% on board. I've had many girls complimenting me on my jacket for ex. so that's my default pimping gear. But any feedback a girl give you only has value at that exact moment because of the emotional value she attributes to it. Unless you hear the same feedback again and again it's not something you should stress about. Worrying too much about specifics with particular girl and you run the risk of changing a default game that is already working