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Regional Differences and the Failings of a 114k Millionaire:

Regional Differences and the Failings of a 114k Millionaire:

Quote: (10-21-2014 01:39 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

Quote: (10-21-2014 01:38 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Quote: (10-21-2014 01:34 PM)calihunter Wrote:  

What an excellent troll job
He sounds like ex Forum member Divorco who was banned for feminist trolling who also is a smart guy that can't pull in Vegas.

Maybe not a troll.

How did Divorco like Pinellas County when you met up with him?
Oh man I don't even know what to write here.

Th OP should meet him though he's out there all the time. They can talk about smart guy stuff at the bar while watching Fisto nail all the whores.
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Quote: (10-21-2014 01:24 AM)Skips Steps Wrote:  

Is your post aimed at me?

I am not trying to date white women exclusively. I actually prefer mixed chicks like myself.

I have a different approach to women. I like a certain pedigree and I like exclusivity. Your L is my W and vice versa.

You are somewhat correct about currency being non transferable...but a 5% can do pretty well.

You are correct though, I thought it woudl be easier.

Regardless of women, I think you could benefit greatly from learning more red pill wisdom and working on improving yourself.

You have one of the most difficult situations perception-wise to deal with. You are by most metrics successful, you see yourself as high value (and in many ways you really are), but you also see yourself as better than women.

Women want to be with a man that is better than them, but they don't want to be with a man that thinks that he's better than everyone else and thinks everyone else is inferior.

That is disdainful.

Let me give you an example. As a broke (compared to you), uneducated (again, compared to you), shitty wardrobed, unsuccessful (compared to you), I managed to game and bang a woman with a doctorate from an ivy league, VP of a large corporation, pilot, and owner of a multi-million dollar home in one of the most exclusive areas of the west coast. I wasn't spending $350/date with her, I was spending between zero and maybe $75 bucks. Sometimes she paid. We usually drank her wine which ran well into the $100+/bottle range. We talked about culture, politics, the differences between the sexes, travel, skiing, freediving, etc...

She was FLOORED by my ability to keep up and often encircle her in her own conversations and ultimately her mind. She was absolutely intrigued with me. She ran in very exclusive circles. After I stopped dating her she had men worth even more than her chasing her, to nearly the point of stalking her.

How was I able to do this?

Did I meet her through a charity event? No.

Did I go up and talk to her at an exclusive restaurant? No.

Did I meet her through one of her wealthy circle? No.

Did I chat her up suited down at a business convention? No.

Did I meet her after flying my private plane into a high end ski resort that she frequents? No.

I met her on the beach at a volleyball tournament that my friends run. I barely paid her attention and she just gave me the cursory hello, she seemed a little high maintenance and high pedigree like you like. I was too busy massaging a female friend of mine that she was sitting nearby to pay her much attention, but that sure got her intrigued in me in a hurry. The lack of story/link to any particular girl on the beach got her even more interested.

Your different approach to women is exactly why you're failing. Do you need to adjust the general game principles towards what you're specifically looking for and for your personal situation with regards to income, preferences, etc? Of course. Don't make the mistake a lot of women make thinking that they're a special snowflake and that the rules don't apply to them.

Your "win" is still a loss if you can't successfully get in a girl's head long term.

If you can't do that, you'll never succeed with women. Sure, you might be able to import a wife, but good luck keeping her in the long term in the US. Hell, even in another country, you need to understand how to maintain hand.

If for NO other reason, you need to learn the red pill so that if you end up elsewhere and trying to find a wife, you can make sure you and her are happy enjoying your mutual "pedigree."

I'll never forget one of the nights that I walked into that woman's multi-million dollar house and she was playing Mozart or Beethoven on her sleek black grand piano while she waited for me to arrive. When she stood up, resplendent in her elegant dress, her jewelry sparkling even in the low candlelight surrounding her, I thought to myself, WOW, now that's nice.

I can appreciate the pedigree. I just also appreciate that they're still women. She was blowing me in only her expensive jewelry not 15 minutes later while her kid slept with only a gilded unlocked door separating the kid from having full view of that scene.

Also, remember that this life is about having fun. Sure, your version of fun might be different than others, but nobody likes someone totally uptight. I work on this myself.

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Regional Differences and the Failings of a 114k Millionaire:

I like this thread though I suggest the OP stays away from tourist areas and maybe do his searching in the suburbs. Every "Normal" person I know that lives there is in Henderson.
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First of all, welcome to the forum. As you can tell, the forum is about all aspects of growing as a man. So please interpret my comments as someone trying to support you here.

If you focus on always thinking how much better you are than others (men and women) and yet also spend time and resources keeping up with the joneses, you don't really have time or resources to develop yourself.

Also, those who are obsessed about image and lifestyle, often miss the opportunities. Meaning, you are so into a scene that you automatically assume someone who is not in your scene as to not having value. Yest there are plenty of wealthy and high status people that don't give a shit about what you care about. And I imagine a ton of posers try to act like the way you are trying to act.

But, as you try to stay in this scene, which it seems you are not adequately financed for, you are just bleeding yourself dry with nothing to show for it.

Just a question and no judgement, do you walk around thinking you are better than everyone you meet? Just extrapolating from how you feel you are better than women. Just curious, since we will never meet and I don't care about status.

Edit: There is a difference between knowing your worth as a man, and trying to impress everyone and caring what they think.

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Regional Differences and the Failings of a 114k Millionaire:

This is no different than when Roosh comes back here. It's all about expectations. If you moved to Miami it would be the same. Some cities in the US are better than others same as some countries are better than others. In the end if you are going to stay in Vegas then you have to be willing to pay the price of women. The rent may be cheap but the girls aren't. In Miami both the rent and the girls are expensive [Image: wink.gif] You can also try couchsurfing and seekingarrangement game.

Also you have to remember what you may consider an 8 based on your foreign experience may consider themselves to be a 10+ here. Cities like Vegas and Miami are all glitter and little real gold.

More than your money or status women in America today care more about looks. I know exactly how you feel. I use to be in exactly your position. You need to shift your internal pattern of interacting with women from a provider mental to a lover mentally. This is not so easy to do but that's what game is all about.
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Quote: (10-21-2014 11:39 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

This is no different than when Roosh comes back here. It's all about expectations. If you moved to Miami it would be the same. Some cities in the US are better than others same as some countries are better than others. In the end if you are going to stay in Vegas then you have to be willing to pay the price of women. The rent may be cheap but the girls aren't. In Miami both the rent and the girls are expensive [Image: wink.gif] You can also try couchsurfing and seekingarrangement game.

Also you have to remember what you may consider an 8 based on your foreign experience may consider themselves to be a 10+ here. Cities like Vegas and Miami are all glitter and little real gold.

More than your money or status women in America today care more about looks. I know exactly how you feel. I use to be in exactly your position. You need to shift your internal pattern of interacting with women from a provider mental to a lover mentally. This is not so easy to do but that's what game is all about.


I am not a lover....I am a provider as you call it. You are what you are. I am not a player like many of you are. I prefer to play house with a woman and have a lil side action. I don't like my woman dating another man or relying on anyone else but me for anything. In fact, I will not countenance it.

I don't think I am a player with game--it's mot in demeanor to run game or play games. I think my mentality is more in the mold of a FSU guy than an American one.
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Girls in top two pictures are hot, girl in the bottom picture imo is 4-5.

From these pictures it is obvious:
1) You have no style sense whatsoever. You would be laughed out of the places in Europe where men dress well (Milan, Stockholm, etc.)
2) You should lose bf.

I would say improving your style should be a priority. Tanner from masculine-style.com can help and other forum members vouched for his services.
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Quote: (10-21-2014 01:46 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

Quote: (10-21-2014 01:24 AM)Skips Steps Wrote:  

Is your post aimed at me?

I am not trying to date white women exclusively. I actually prefer mixed chicks like myself.

I have a different approach to women. I like a certain pedigree and I like exclusivity. Your L is my W and vice versa.

You are somewhat correct about currency being non transferable...but a 5% can do pretty well.

You are correct though, I thought it woudl be easier.

Regardless of women, I think you could benefit greatly from learning more red pill wisdom and working on improving yourself.

You have one of the most difficult situations perception-wise to deal with. You are by most metrics successful, you see yourself as high value (and in many ways you really are), but you also see yourself as better than women.

Women want to be with a man that is better than them, but they don't want to be with a man that thinks that he's better than everyone else and thinks everyone else is inferior.

That is disdainful.

Let me give you an example. As a broke (compared to you), uneducated (again, compared to you), shitty wardrobed, unsuccessful (compared to you), I managed to game and bang a woman with a doctorate from an ivy league, VP of a large corporation, pilot, and owner of a multi-million dollar home in one of the most exclusive areas of the west coast. I wasn't spending $350/date with her, I was spending between zero and maybe $75 bucks. Sometimes she paid. We usually drank her wine which ran well into the $100+/bottle range. We talked about culture, politics, the differences between the sexes, travel, skiing, freediving, etc...

She was FLOORED by my ability to keep up and often encircle her in her own conversations and ultimately her mind. She was absolutely intrigued with me. She ran in very exclusive circles. After I stopped dating her she had men worth even more than her chasing her, to nearly the point of stalking her.

How was I able to do this?

Did I meet her through a charity event? No.

Did I go up and talk to her at an exclusive restaurant? No.

Did I meet her through one of her wealthy circle? No.

Did I chat her up suited down at a business convention? No.

Did I meet her after flying my private plane into a high end ski resort that she frequents? No.

I met her on the beach at a volleyball tournament that my friends run. I barely paid her attention and she just gave me the cursory hello, she seemed a little high maintenance and high pedigree like you like. I was too busy massaging a female friend of mine that she was sitting nearby to pay her much attention, but that sure got her intrigued in me in a hurry. The lack of story/link to any particular girl on the beach got her even more interested.

Your different approach to women is exactly why you're failing. Do you need to adjust the general game principles towards what you're specifically looking for and for your personal situation with regards to income, preferences, etc? Of course. Don't make the mistake a lot of women make thinking that they're a special snowflake and that the rules don't apply to them.

Your "win" is still a loss if you can't successfully get in a girl's head long term.

If you can't do that, you'll never succeed with women. Sure, you might be able to import a wife, but good luck keeping her in the long term in the US. Hell, even in another country, you need to understand how to maintain hand.

If for NO other reason, you need to learn the red pill so that if you end up elsewhere and trying to find a wife, you can make sure you and her are happy enjoying your mutual "pedigree."

I'll never forget one of the nights that I walked into that woman's multi-million dollar house and she was playing Mozart or Beethoven on her sleek black grand piano while she waited for me to arrive. When she stood up, resplendent in her elegant dress, her jewelry sparkling even in the low candlelight surrounding her, I thought to myself, WOW, now that's nice.

I can appreciate the pedigree. I just also appreciate that they're still women. She was blowing me in only her expensive jewelry not 15 minutes later while her kid slept with only a gilded unlocked door separating the kid from having full view of that scene.

Also, remember that this life is about having fun. Sure, your version of fun might be different than others, but nobody likes someone totally uptight. I work on this myself.


I respect your opinion and your accomplishments. I have no doubt that some dudes can have sex with some women cheaper than other dudes.
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Quote: (10-22-2014 02:41 AM)ComebackKid Wrote:  

Girls in top two pictures are hot, girl in the bottom picture imo is 4-5.

From these pictures it is obvious:
1) You have no style sense whatsoever. You would be laughed out of the places in Europe where men dress well (Milan, Stockholm, etc.)
2) You should lose bf.

I would say improving your style should be a priority. Tanner from masculine-style.com can help and other forum members vouched for his services.

I agree. I look awful in one of the pics. It also makes me look pudgy. I am not. Awful picture of me.
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So you're possessive but you don't care that your girl sleeps around because... you have the privilege of paying her way through life. And yet you're somehow still about respect and proper roles.

And you think women are respectful and appreciative of what you provide, so... they won't give into their tingles and blow some guy in the bathroom stall when they're on a girl's night out, or bring an exciting guy back to your bed when you're out of town.

Yeah, good luck with that.
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@Skip What you are looking for are women of substance to have relationships with. What most guys on here are looking for is easy sex with any woman that can give them a boner. Very different objectives that require different women and different strategies. Your rating system is reasonably BUT the moment you start dealing with 7+ women here in the US you are going to run into women that are highly entitled and just generally more a pain in the ass because of the sheer amount of attention they get. It's very difficult to find a woman here in the US to have a decent LTR with. A lot of the women are simply neurotic in one way or another. So what you are trying to find is not just an attractive woman but one that you actually enjoy being with for an extended period of time. It's like trying to find the proverbial needle in the haystack. American women until they hit their 30s and want to have kids have very little incentive to get into a LTR if they have money of their own. Forget about a relationship, as you are finding out, just "dating" them is a mission in itself.

In this country and especially that city what you consider one of your greatest assets, your intelligence, will actually become one of your biggest liabilities.
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What's so awful about putting in some work to become a more charismatic, interesting guy? Why do you want to stick to your current comfort zone even though its making you unhappy?
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Quote: (10-22-2014 02:06 AM)Skips Steps Wrote:  

I am not a lover....I am a provider as you call it. You are what you are. I am not a player like many of you are. I prefer to play house with a woman and have a lil side action. I don't like my woman dating another man or relying on anyone else but me for anything. In fact, I will not countenance it.

I don't think I am a player with game--it's mot in demeanor to run game or play games. I think my mentality is more in the mold of a FSU guy than an American one.

What you're currently doing isn't working.

At this stage you are only getting fucked by your own ego.

You are whoring out your time, money, and commitment for the chance to spend a couple of hours with girls who you've already selected based on gold-digger traits.

Either you are willing to face your fears and try a different route, or you're going to carry on throwing good money after bad. This forum can only help you in one of those cases.

"I'd hate myself if I had that kind of attitude, if I were that weak." - Arnold
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I'm glad the pussyfooting around with this dude has ended.

I was just doing push-ups in some young Venezuelan totona, and I couldn't help but think to myself, "This is what she wanted."

Everybody's place in the game is different, and unfortunately, that place often has to do with who and what we are.

Sure we can accumulate certain things that mitigate the preconceived notions to a certain degree, but they don't entirely change our reality.

This guy makes a decent living, but he's not rich, nor does he have power nor fame, so who and what he is still matters.

Look dude, you're Black. Most women, especially non-Black women, don't grow up with dreams of being taken care of and provided for by Black men. That's just not how we fit into the fantasy.

Read some of Nancy Friday's books, you'll have a better idea of where our place tends to be -- hint: somewhere behind the woman, while she grips onto something for dear life.

I have a lot of things going for myself. I know I'm a superstar. But that doesn't change the fact that women look at me first and foremost as a sexual fantasy.

It's unfortunate that your value and the desire one may have for you may lie exclusively attached to your ball sack, but that's how the shit is.

What some of these women only want from you is a sexual experience. Tupac said it once, "they've heard the stories, now they want to really see." Maybe they're down to give you that opportunity to show them, but you're too busy trying to prove to them how great of a hubby you would be.

Fuck. That.

They more likely than not don't want that from you anyway, so you are wasting your time.

Your job as far as they are concerned is to tear that ass up like they believe you can. If you tear it up right, then you just may buy yourself some time to show her where your worth really is, and then maybe she'll realize she's in the midst of something special, and she'll start seeing you for you the individual, and not the limited concept of you that she had initially in mind.

The way the world is and the way you choose to see it are two different things. I feel like some of us get to a certain place, and we accomplish certain things, and we pretend to ourselves, well we're not really what we are anymore because we've surpassed the stereotype, and that's just delusional -- women can afford to be delusional, you, Mr. Black man, can't.

At this point, your view of the world needs to change, because clearly you've blinded yourself as it pertains to where exactly you fit in it and how women want you to fit into theirs.
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Quote: (10-22-2014 06:32 AM)jariel Wrote:  

I'm glad the pussyfooting around with this dude has ended.

I was just doing push-ups in some young Venezuelan totona, and I couldn't help but think to myself, "This is what she wanted."

Everybody's place in the game is different, and unfortunately, that place often has to do with who and what we are.

Sure we can accumulate certain things that mitigate the preconceived notions to a certain degree, but they don't entirely change our reality.

This guy makes a decent living, but he's not rich, nor does he have power nor fame, so who and what he is still matters.

Look dude, you're Black. Most women, especially non-Black women, don't grow up with dreams of being taken care of and provided for by Black men. That's just not how we fit into the fantasy.

Read some of Nancy Friday's books, you'll have a better idea of where our place tends to be -- hint: somewhere behind the woman, while she grips onto something for dear life.

I have a lot of things going for myself. I know I'm a superstar. But that doesn't change the fact that women look at me first and foremost as a sexual fantasy.

It's unfortunate that your value and the desire one may have for you may lie exclusively attached to your ball sack, but that's how the shit is.

What some of these women only want from you is a sexual experience. Tupac said it once, "they've heard the stories, now they want to really see." Maybe they're down to give you that opportunity to show them, but you're too busy trying to prove to them how great of a hubby you would be.

Fuck. That.

They more likely than not don't want that from you anyway, so you are wasting your time.

Your job as far as they are concerned is to tear that ass up like they believe you can. If you tear it up right, then you just may buy yourself some time to show her where your worth really is, and then maybe she'll realize she's in the midst of something special, and she'll start seeing you for you the individual, and not the limited concept of you that she had initially in mind.

The way the world is and the way you choose to see it are two different things. I feel like some of us get to a certain place, and we accomplish certain things, and we pretend to ourselves, well we're not really what we are anymore because we've surpassed the stereotype, and that's just delusional -- women can afford to be delusional, you, Mr. Black man, can't.

At this point, your view of the world needs to change, because clearly you've blinded yourself as it pertains to where exactly you fit in it and how women want you to fit into theirs.

Wow. I think we come from different worlds with different expectations. it saddens me that you see yourself as nothing more than a sexual creature...trapped in a world where you are confined to deliver sexual fantasies.

You are right that I am neither rich nor powerful in America. Having been around Superstars, I know I sure aint one[Image: smile.gif] My bankroll is getting so low my sorry ass is considering--as in filling out the releases for--taking a USAID job in Liberia. Yeah, Liberia...about $700 a day though[Image: smile.gif] Either that or Kabul within the month.

Bankroll is a huge part of my game. Making 120k a year in Bucharest or Sofia paying no taxes getting per diem may not seem rich to you but it provides for a very good lifestyle. In LA or NYC that's chump change.

I either gotta earn about 200k per year to live the way I want or relocate abroad where my spending power is so much more potent.

I wish you the best in your endeavors.
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You want an LTR with an American women?

Forget about it. You won't listen to that advice at first, but experience is a nasty teacher.
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I don't how you're saying you're saddened by jariel, calling some advice drivel, and still talking about bankroll, all the while complaining about American women.

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Bankroll is a huge part of my game. Making 120k a year in Bucharest or Sofia paying no taxes getting per diem may not seem rich to you but it provides for a very good lifestyle. In LA or NYC that's chump change.

Your bankroll will be your crutch (not in life of course), you're labeling yourself as a provider, why not be a lover? A women will depend on you to support her needs (pay to play), do you really want a leach onto you ? Or do you want a women who wants you for how you game her and fuck her aka lover ?

Do you really want to marry an American women who will do that to you ? Most of us here think it's a lost cause, unless you enjoy divorce rape. If you do marry, make sure it isn't a western women, even I still would advise against it, in this day and age.

Well if it's a good lifestyle overseas, and it's chump change in the states. I think you know what you need to do.

Thinks about this with an open mind for a second (with no ego): Take away almost EVERYTHING you have and you're only able to keep your basics, nothing luxurious.

What kind of man are you ? Do you have anything to offer women? How will you talk to women ? How will you have sex with them ?

I either gotta earn about 200k per year to live the way I want or relocate abroad where my spending power is so much more potent. [/quote]

Well then there you go, you already know the answer.

You seem disagree with most of what we're saying.....perhaps this forum isn't for you.
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Quote: (10-22-2014 10:44 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

I don't how you're saying you're saddened by jariel, calling some advice drivel, and still talking about bankroll, all the while complaining about American women.

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Bankroll is a huge part of my game. Making 120k a year in Bucharest or Sofia paying no taxes getting per diem may not seem rich to you but it provides for a very good lifestyle. In LA or NYC that's chump change.

Your bankroll will be your crutch (not in life of course), you're labeling yourself as a provider, why not be a lover? A women will depend on you to support her needs (pay to play), do you really want a leach onto you ? Or do you want a women who wants you for how you game her and fuck her aka lover ?

Do you really want to marry an American women who will do that to you ? Most of us here think it's a lost cause, unless you enjoy divorce rape. If you do marry, make sure it isn't a western women, even I still would advise against it, in this day and age.

Well if it's a good lifestyle overseas, and it's chump change in the states. I think you know what you need to do.

Thinks about this with an open mind for a second (with no ego): Take away almost EVERYTHING you have and you're only able to keep your basics, nothing luxurious.

What kind of man are you ? Do you have anything to offer women? How will you talk to women ? How will you have sex with them ?

I either gotta earn about 200k per year to live the way I want or relocate abroad where my spending power is so much more potent.

Well then there you go, you already know the answer.

You seem disagree with most of what we're saying.....perhaps this forum isn't for you.
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It may not be. I think we seek different things.

yes, i want to be a provider. I said it. I don't game well.

I am too sterile.

The one thing I will defend myself against is when someone called me fat. For those that have seen my FB, I am not fat by any means. I do cross fit 3x a week. and play tennis 4x a week.
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Quote: (10-22-2014 10:58 AM)Skips Steps Wrote:  

It may not be. I think we seek different things.

yes, i want to be a provider. I said it. I don't game well.


This doesn't mean you can't learn things from this forum with a click of the mouse.

What's wrong with improving your game ?
What's wrong with saving money on girls ?
What's wrong with improving your self esteem and social awareness ?

I don't understand this want/need to provide for women, eventually women will tire of this and leave you for a lover/provider.

Why not also be that lover ? You can find balance between both lover and provider.

Like they've said black guys can't afford to NOT have game. As you can see with your frustrations you originally posted.


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I am too sterile.

The one thing I will defend myself against is when someone called me fat. For those that have seen my FB, I am not fat by any means. I do cross fit 3x a week. and play tennis 4x a week.

I don't think you're sterlie at all, that's a negative assessment and also self sabotaging. I think you've got potential - you've got the bankroll, now it's time for self improvement.

That's good you do xfit and play a sport, I'm assuming your diet is pretty good, check out the fitness thread.
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Quote: (10-22-2014 02:41 AM)ComebackKid Wrote:  

Girls in top two pictures are hot, girl in the bottom picture imo is 4-5.

From these pictures it is obvious:
1) You have no style sense whatsoever. You would be laughed out of the places in Europe where men dress well (Milan, Stockholm, etc.)
2) You should lose bf.

I would say improving your style should be a priority. Tanner from masculine-style.com can help and other forum members vouched for his services.

I hinted at this in my last post.

Jariel has dropped it 100% as always and I concur, the rhetoric about black president means nothing. Look at Ferguson riots to see what race means in America.

Provider game is how you roll and you have been exposed in Vegas.

Be honest with yourself, we all know rolling in Eastern Europe is alot easier when you have a bit of status and are american.
Sure the person insulted you with the dancing comment, but what do we see black americans doing in the media. The media certainly doesn't portray black men like you that attended Harvard.

You don't have to answer every comment people post, you don't have to justify anything. You have been given honest opinions and sound advice, learn from it.

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OP asks for advice on why his game isn't working.

OP gets good advice (stop running provider game in Vegas), and chooses to ignore it by saying "but I'm not like that. I'm a provider" a dozen different ways.

OP is told "then move".

OP stays in Vegas, and keeps running provider game because "that's who he is".


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Quote: (10-22-2014 10:58 AM)Skips Steps Wrote:  

yes, i want to be a provider. I said it. I don't game well.

Take a couple of minutes to read my post history. Just like us men put women into two boxes (wife and slut), women put us into two boxes (AF and BB). The problem is that they usually aren't physically attracted to the BB person. One way or another, if you want to attract and keep a Western woman you need to learn some game.

You may be thinking of game as becoming some kind of suave James Bond type guy. Sometimes it's as easy as just trolling women and calling them out. Standing up for yourself. Not taking shit from anyone. Think of them as if they were your bratty little sister and act accordingly. It's not as hard as you may think.

In the West if you want to run provider game you're competing with 80% of the other men out there. Just a little bit of simple game would go a long way. I still think you should relocate though. You'll be happier in the long run.
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Regional Differences and the Failings of a 114k Millionaire:

Recently, I was contacted by a multi-millionaire who struggles with women.. We spoke for an hour..

A few things stood out:

- He has a very high IQ but is lacking in Social intelligence and Sexual intelligence. These forms of intelligence are not formally taught in school and they can not be learned from a textbook. These intelligences are forged through real world experience and trial and error. He does not want to believe this because he thinks he has life all figured out. (Except he can't get girls) Lol!

- He is a "Game Denialist". He thinks that being "smart", having a good job, and having money is all that is needed to attract beautiful women. I explained to him that personality and conversational skills are necessary to actually bang and date these women. He does not want to believe this because he thinks he has life all figured out.

- He lacks humility. He expects the world to adjust to his perspective -- He will not adjust his perspective. His ego gets in the way of his progress. He does not want to believe this because he thinks he has life all figured out.

I see a lot of these same traits with "Skip's Steps".

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Las Vegas is a tough place to game if you are lacking in street smarts. Staying a few nights on the strip with the tourists is one thing, living there is a different game entirely. That town is designed to separate people from their money.

For me, location is the #1 factor in game success, he should move. Living in Las Vegas without a good deal of street smarts is a recipe for disappointment.

Quote: (10-21-2014 12:16 AM)Skips Steps Wrote:  

I also moved here because I thought I could run for Lt. Governor or Congress and win.

After reading this, I knew this guy had a lack of social awareness and an unrealistic perspective. (no disrespect, I'm just stating my true feelings) (Nevada politics is filled with "good ole boys", gangsters, and casino billionaires. To think that you can just show up and get elected is naive)
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Regional Differences and the Failings of a 114k Millionaire:

^ Dang.

I've seen this my entire life.. "smart" people think things work a certain way and it's almost impossible to change their minds.
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Regional Differences and the Failings of a 114k Millionaire:

@ Gio, solid input.

Skip - you want to be a provider, that is your choice. It seems like you are ok with working and putting your fate in the hands of someone else. Granted since it is the government and you are a minority your chances of unemployment may be slim. Just pointing out, it doesn't seem like you will ever be free. You will be trapped by obligations and perceptions.

Most guys on here don't seem to give a fuck about that stuff. They want pussy and financial freedom. And just doing whatever the fuck they want.

Fate whispers to the warrior, "You cannot withstand the storm." And the warrior whispers back, "I am the storm."

Women and children can be careless, but not men - Don Corleone

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