Quote: (10-21-2014 01:24 AM)Skips Steps Wrote:
Is your post aimed at me?
I am not trying to date white women exclusively. I actually prefer mixed chicks like myself.
I have a different approach to women. I like a certain pedigree and I like exclusivity. Your L is my W and vice versa.
You are somewhat correct about currency being non transferable...but a 5% can do pretty well.
You are correct though, I thought it woudl be easier.
Regardless of women, I think you could benefit greatly from learning more red pill wisdom and working on improving yourself.
You have one of the most difficult situations perception-wise to deal with. You are by most metrics successful, you see yourself as high value (and in many ways you really are), but you also see yourself as better than women.
Women want to be with a man that is better than them, but they don't want to be with a man that thinks that he's better than everyone else and thinks everyone else is inferior.
That is disdainful.
Let me give you an example. As a broke (compared to you), uneducated (again, compared to you), shitty wardrobed, unsuccessful (compared to you), I managed to game and bang a woman with a doctorate from an ivy league, VP of a large corporation, pilot, and owner of a multi-million dollar home in one of the most exclusive areas of the west coast. I wasn't spending $350/date with her, I was spending between zero and maybe $75 bucks. Sometimes she paid. We usually drank her wine which ran well into the $100+/bottle range. We talked about culture, politics, the differences between the sexes, travel, skiing, freediving, etc...
She was FLOORED by my ability to keep up and often encircle her in her own conversations and ultimately her mind. She was absolutely intrigued with me. She ran in very exclusive circles. After I stopped dating her she had men worth even more than her chasing her, to nearly the point of stalking her.
How was I able to do this?
Did I meet her through a charity event? No.
Did I go up and talk to her at an exclusive restaurant? No.
Did I meet her through one of her wealthy circle? No.
Did I chat her up suited down at a business convention? No.
Did I meet her after flying my private plane into a high end ski resort that she frequents? No.
I met her on the beach at a volleyball tournament that my friends run. I barely paid her attention and she just gave me the cursory hello, she seemed a little high maintenance and high pedigree like you like. I was too busy massaging a female friend of mine that she was sitting nearby to pay her much attention, but that sure got her intrigued in me in a hurry. The lack of story/link to any particular girl on the beach got her even more interested.
Your different approach to women is exactly why you're failing. Do you need to adjust the general game principles towards what you're specifically looking for and for your personal situation with regards to income, preferences, etc? Of course. Don't make the mistake a lot of women make thinking that they're a special snowflake and that the rules don't apply to them.
Your "win" is still a loss if you can't successfully get in a girl's head long term.
If you can't do that, you'll never succeed with women. Sure, you might be able to import a wife, but good luck keeping her in the long term in the US. Hell, even in another country, you need to understand how to maintain hand.
If for NO other reason, you need to learn the red pill so that if you end up elsewhere and trying to find a wife, you can make sure you and her are happy enjoying your mutual "pedigree."
I'll never forget one of the nights that I walked into that woman's multi-million dollar house and she was playing Mozart or Beethoven on her sleek black grand piano while she waited for me to arrive. When she stood up, resplendent in her elegant dress, her jewelry sparkling even in the low candlelight surrounding her, I thought to myself, WOW, now that's nice.
I can appreciate the pedigree. I just also appreciate that they're still women. She was blowing me in only her expensive jewelry not 15 minutes later while her kid slept with only a gilded unlocked door separating the kid from having full view of that scene.
Also, remember that this life is about having fun. Sure, your version of fun might be different than others, but nobody likes someone totally uptight. I work on this myself.