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Should you feel guilty if a girl wants a relationship...
10-04-2014, 05:51 AM
No, it is a litmus test of my attractiveness that she wants me for herself and doesn't want others having me...
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Should you feel guilty if a girl wants a relationship...
10-04-2014, 12:57 PM
Nothing to feel guilty about. Just because you're fucking her and she's a "good" girl doesn't mean you owe her a relationship.
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Should you feel guilty if a girl wants a relationship...
10-04-2014, 01:26 PM
I don't lie or mislead girls into thinking I want a relationship if I don't. I think thats wrong plus its just not worth the drama that may come. That said just because a girl sleeps with me does not mean I owe her the next 6 months of my life or a relationship either. If it means me not sleeping with her so be it, my game wasn't strong enough if I coudln't pull it but I'm not gonna lie or mislead just to get what I want either.
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Should you feel guilty if a girl wants a relationship...
10-04-2014, 03:32 PM
If she isn't attracted to me I have more to worry about. I expect her to remain faithful but for me to be faithful.....HA RIGHT. I support the double standard and will faithfully maintain it. Call me a hypocrite but men like a man with experience, and on the other hand I and men in general love women with extremely low notch counts. It's what the other party is more attracted too and so it's mutually beneficial.
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Should you feel guilty if a girl wants a relationship...
10-04-2014, 04:55 PM
Only if you are dangling the relationship carrot in front of her as a mean of obtaining the notch.
If you are not, and you shouldnt as it is not necessary, then no. You are giving her what you want to give, she cant take it, or leave it, but theres no way she can get something you are not giving.
Imagine this: You are selling, say, a car. She wants to pay half, would you take it? of course not. She wants you to upgrade the car, repaint it, reupholster it, get it to pass a mechanical inspection, new tires, and extended 2 year guarantee and free maintenance. Of course not lady, its sold "as is", take it or leave it.
Why accept the same deal in sex or relationships?
You are offering her sex. Its non negotiable. If she wants or likes the sex, then let her take it. If she wants more (relationships, dates, exclusivity) then she can either leave it, or be content wit it and take it as it is. Its non negotiable.
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Should you feel guilty if a girl wants a relationship...
10-04-2014, 09:55 PM
If the girls wants a relationship or no bang, so be it, just don't specify how long the relationship will be. The next day, you can play the "well I'm not sure yet" card. Business is business.
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10-05-2014, 05:02 PM
No.
Both parties must want the relationship. At the end of the day you have to do what's best for yourself. I would probably have more sympathy for a good girl that wants a relationship over a gutter rat, but guilt? No. Been there, done that. Never again (and you often learn down the track that they aren't a 'good girl' anyway...)
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10-05-2014, 05:14 PM
Since when Have I owed a woman anything? I've embraced the fact that it's a dog eat dog dating scene where loyalty is worth about as much as the cost of the tattoo.
I will be checking my PMs weekly, so you can catch me there. I will not be posting.
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Should you feel guilty if a girl wants a relationship...
10-07-2014, 07:48 AM
I was seeing this girl for a bit.....She wanted a relationship and I had to eject entirely....I do feel bad because I know she was hurt. I'm still human.
At the same time as I'm being kind of cold and uninterested in my attitude towards her she was talking to me about how ugly nerds are approaching her and she has to have a "spark"
One guy that apparently was always asking her out was a guy who worked for me. (She lives an hour away-SMALL world). She talked about how he wasn't attractive enough and other shit about him......he would have treated her great but was a little beta bitch boy.
Point to all this?
Hypergamous behavior squashes any bit of guilt I may feel when they think 'I' am the upgrade they have been looking for