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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-10-2014, 02:21 PM
Little bit of a strange situation I got myself into. I'm living in South America now, having the time of my life, many girls and what not.
Now in my harem, I have one girl (beautiful colombian modelgirl) who is a bit more serious, she's my nr.1 you know since half a year now and she has no idea about what is really going on (mainly because she lives in another city). She also knows I'm an expat and that the chance is there that I will leave very soon.
However, she is in love and because of this she decided that she wants to tattoo my name in her neck. Now, thats flattering I know. Many guys would like that, but in my mind its foolish and naive. Plus I find it a bit ordinary to do such a thing (like many tattoos in general).
I never asked for this, I even hinted that I didn't like tattoos and that I think it is a strange idea. She however still intends to do so, because im the man of her life.
Any idea how I can get her to not do it? I mean, its very well possible that in a few months I will be gone to another continent. I dont want to leave behind a mark like that on a dreamy girl. If she gets hurt by me one day, shes gonna want to remove it and I imagine that might be costly, but its a hard thing to say to a girl: I dont want you to do this, although I know it is an act of love, etc because its basically saying, dont love me too much. Like going for the financial split up talks when you get married.
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-10-2014, 02:54 PM
have her get it on her inner-thigh instead
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-10-2014, 02:56 PM
Quote: (09-10-2014 02:54 PM)iamdegaussed Wrote:
have her get it on her inner-thigh instead
That will really please the next dude that comes along!
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-10-2014, 02:59 PM
ABSOLUTELY do it.
There will be nothing more endearing to your ego later in life than knowing that some bitch has your name tattooed on her neck for everyone to see.
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-10-2014, 03:27 PM
If you care about this girl, and it sounds like you do, tell her not to do it
It will harm her appearance, her social status, and her marriage prospects
Tell her you are flattered but you insist that she not do it and you will dump her if she does
Tell her having you name secretly tattooed on her heart is all you want
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-10-2014, 03:53 PM
I once convinced a girl to tattoo my initials on her but she backed out.
Do it man.
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-10-2014, 04:03 PM
Do it.
And take a picture of it.
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-10-2014, 04:05 PM
Tattoos are disgusting, be an alpha male, lead and insist on NO!
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-10-2014, 05:31 PM
I think it'd be a great story....just not on her neck.
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-10-2014, 05:34 PM
It would be a good story I know but I'm with MR XY on this one. It might hurt her in the long run and this is a good girl. I think there is no other way than to just tell her not to do it, but she's gonna be mad because its hard to explain that to a girl, given the circumstances.
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09-10-2014, 05:40 PM
If you really care about her and think there is a good chance you are leaving in a few months then dump her. I have dumped a lot of girls Not because I didn't care about them but because I did.
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09-10-2014, 05:43 PM
Ha!
I remember once I was with a chick, she had a tat of a cartoon girl on her wrist. I asked about it and she said her boyfriend had one of a cartoon guy on his wrist, they matched.
I was like, "Ok..." changing the subject, asked about one on the back of her neck.
"That's my boyfriend's name."
"Ok... isn't it a beautiful night out?"
We were fucking in my car an hour or two later...
Chris Brown said it best...
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-10-2014, 06:00 PM
Well, you have a choice: allow her to run around with your name on her neck AND a broken heart when you leave or you can just leave her with a broken heart. Don't expect a Latin woman to make a rational decision. That is your job as the "man".
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-11-2014, 12:25 AM
Poor girl.
Don't let her do it! It doesn't provide you with any utility whatsoever, and it's going to be a little embarrassing for her when you leave, which you almost certainly will.
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-11-2014, 01:40 AM
Quote: (09-11-2014 12:08 AM)Bacchus Wrote:
Tell her that, if she really loves you, she'll get a face tat.
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-11-2014, 02:12 AM
Neck tat of your name? Sounds like one of those good problems.
Don't debate me.
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09-11-2014, 02:24 AM
girl I worked with had a tramp stamp that said Dan. so I asked her how is Dan. she was like who? what? why? I explained. she said oh no my bf named Mike. I smiled cause I knew that she wasn't getting it much doggy style
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-11-2014, 03:27 AM
I'm in the "No" camp.
As to how to tell her without an ensuing implosion I don't know. Perhaps you could try this:
Make it a point that while you're flattered, you secretly really REALLY hate tattoos. That you've always hated them your entire life and you can't even explain why, it's a gut reaction. And you'd be devastated to see one on a someone you really care about.
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-11-2014, 04:11 AM
I am in NO camp too.I hate tatoos even more than short hair.
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Girl wants to tattoo my name in her neck...
09-11-2014, 04:24 AM
Yep, tats are gross. Even if you wanted to stay with her, you should tell her not to do it (at least, that's what you should say to her... ).
No need for you to break her heart over a tat. Tell her you hate 'em, and get her to do something else crazy to show her love (if she really wants to). Clit piercing, threesome, take you on a holiday... whatever floats your boat.
Also, it's awful to let a girl do something like that, which will affect her life, if you're not planning on staying with her - but you seem to know that anyway.