Tonight may have been the beginning of the end for my marriage, but honestly who knows. I'm writing this to anyone who might learn from my mistakes of not being so called red pill enough from the beginning. I had a half ass red pill train of thought from the moment I met this chick but had no idea the amount of game it took to keep a woman in check, long term.
Let's take a look from the very beginning. Now don't get me wrong she's the best women I've met but she's still a woman.
About 10 years ago my first wife decided to cheat on me and try to pass a kid off as mine well that didn't work out so well for her but in the process left me a broken beta boy.
Fast forward to the future about eight months or so of hating the sound of a woman's voice until I finally said screw this I've had enough. I made a decision on my own I wasn't going to let women drag me down, granted this was way before I found the manosphere. Eight years ago I met this girl through a friend of mine at a bar. We hit it off I asked her out and she said "let's just dance"....... I was just getting back into game and into the red pill environment, even though at this time I had no idea that's what it was called. When she turned me down it honestly pissed me off. I was thinking wait a minute this chick is cute but she's not hot enough to blow me off, which was my mistake I know that now. So I pursued her through a friend and he set something else up. To be completely honest my plan was to fuck her and leave her simply because she tried to dismiss me that night.... Well that didn't work out so well. We went along for the next 4 1/2 years dating on and off until I asked her to marry me.Now to be honest I have wanted kids for a while at this point and she was the best candidate I had found for a mother stable and not crazy in the usual sense. At this point I thought she knew the kind of guy she was marrying but unfortunately she didn't. After some thought it was actually my fault she didn't know what kind of guy she was marrying. We have been married for 4 years or so now and tonight we had a dinner with her co-workers. I let myself get dragged into a discussion I should've kept my mouth shut in her co-workers company but the funny thing was me and my wife had this conversation before and her belief was completely different that it was tonight while her friends were around. Basically it boiled down to I said women don't choose their mate, men choose the women. Well in mixed company that went up like the forth of July....
So on the way home it got brought up again and she was up in arms this time. Saying I can't believe you think that women don't have any choice in the men she's with. Maybe I didn't explain it well enough but to be honest I'm tired of fucking explaining every little thing to women. My tolerance for this shit is getting thinner by the week! To be honest this shit is a lot of work long term. Trying to keep a woman in line for long term is a bitch! Anyone who said you don't have to run game while your married is full of crap because that's when you're game better be tight from the beginning or it could mean ruin for you. If you don't keep things in check it might not mean much 3 or even 6 months down the road but 5 years down the road she'll wear you down and then you're done! It's a marathon unlike being single where it's more of a sprint with each individual woman. Don't get me wrong I love her to death but anytime she tries to pulls a mutiny it must be dealt with harshly.
Again try to learn from my mistakes, not having a clear red pill understanding from the beginning can cause problems down the road. This isn't the only problem there has been it's just the most recent one. I have been drinking tonight so grammatical errors are to be expected.
Jay
Let's take a look from the very beginning. Now don't get me wrong she's the best women I've met but she's still a woman.
About 10 years ago my first wife decided to cheat on me and try to pass a kid off as mine well that didn't work out so well for her but in the process left me a broken beta boy.
Fast forward to the future about eight months or so of hating the sound of a woman's voice until I finally said screw this I've had enough. I made a decision on my own I wasn't going to let women drag me down, granted this was way before I found the manosphere. Eight years ago I met this girl through a friend of mine at a bar. We hit it off I asked her out and she said "let's just dance"....... I was just getting back into game and into the red pill environment, even though at this time I had no idea that's what it was called. When she turned me down it honestly pissed me off. I was thinking wait a minute this chick is cute but she's not hot enough to blow me off, which was my mistake I know that now. So I pursued her through a friend and he set something else up. To be completely honest my plan was to fuck her and leave her simply because she tried to dismiss me that night.... Well that didn't work out so well. We went along for the next 4 1/2 years dating on and off until I asked her to marry me.Now to be honest I have wanted kids for a while at this point and she was the best candidate I had found for a mother stable and not crazy in the usual sense. At this point I thought she knew the kind of guy she was marrying but unfortunately she didn't. After some thought it was actually my fault she didn't know what kind of guy she was marrying. We have been married for 4 years or so now and tonight we had a dinner with her co-workers. I let myself get dragged into a discussion I should've kept my mouth shut in her co-workers company but the funny thing was me and my wife had this conversation before and her belief was completely different that it was tonight while her friends were around. Basically it boiled down to I said women don't choose their mate, men choose the women. Well in mixed company that went up like the forth of July....
So on the way home it got brought up again and she was up in arms this time. Saying I can't believe you think that women don't have any choice in the men she's with. Maybe I didn't explain it well enough but to be honest I'm tired of fucking explaining every little thing to women. My tolerance for this shit is getting thinner by the week! To be honest this shit is a lot of work long term. Trying to keep a woman in line for long term is a bitch! Anyone who said you don't have to run game while your married is full of crap because that's when you're game better be tight from the beginning or it could mean ruin for you. If you don't keep things in check it might not mean much 3 or even 6 months down the road but 5 years down the road she'll wear you down and then you're done! It's a marathon unlike being single where it's more of a sprint with each individual woman. Don't get me wrong I love her to death but anytime she tries to pulls a mutiny it must be dealt with harshly.
Again try to learn from my mistakes, not having a clear red pill understanding from the beginning can cause problems down the road. This isn't the only problem there has been it's just the most recent one. I have been drinking tonight so grammatical errors are to be expected.
Jay