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How is it possible to get past the American girl personality?
02-03-2014, 09:31 PM
I'm not usually one to post on the game forum regarding advice, but at this point I believe it's necessary.
I have no motivation anymore. After spending a year studying abroad in Europe and banging/semi-dating European girls who have lavished me with attention and had completely normal social habits, I may have given up. Mind you all, I'm 21 years old, still in college and jaded as shit.
Even today, the girl I was routinely having sex with texted me saying she was going on a date with some guy. I felt nothing.
However, there is one wild card here. I met this one girl who shows all the qualities of a feminine European girl. I'm scared that if I think this that I'll treat her like a European girl and subsequently be shut down because Western European game (mostly French) is much different than American game. I'll also develop oneitis badly if I look at her like a European.
I just need some motivation to bang American sluts again I'm guessing. How do you guys get past it?
I figured it would be better to post this on the game forum anyway because I'm not going anywhere anytime soon.
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02-03-2014, 11:12 PM
Start thinking with your dick again, not with your mind/heart/anything else. Lifting heavy and not jerking off for a while should get you in the right state of mind.
Civilize the mind but make savage the body.
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02-03-2014, 11:35 PM
Quote: (02-03-2014 11:31 PM)Aer Wrote:
But honestly I think I drank too much
Don't do this. but also...
Quote:Quote:
having to deal with people's bullshit
You don't have to do this at all. You don't have to do anything you don't want to. Remember, getting rid of toxic people is always an option, regardless of how long/well you know them.
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02-04-2014, 12:58 AM
Aer:
Welcome to the toughest question that an international traveler has had to deal with. I and many other guys on this Forum went through what you're going through.
Once you go abroad and see what real women are like, you can't accept an "ersatz" female. You can't go back. You just can't.
Don't torture yourself trying to change them. Try to structure your life so that you can travel frequently.
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02-04-2014, 01:46 AM
Like QC said, organize your life to travel, however, if that's not an option right now, or if you have business in the states that can't be avoided, then here's two solutions:
1. Date 1st Generation American Girls
In Los Angeles for example, there are tons of girls who were born here in the states, but who's parents are from another country. This means two things:
A. They generally are raised in traditional homes: Mom stays at home and Dad brings home the dough.
B. While they are 'corrupted' by western culture, they tend to be the most traditional type of girls in the US. The exception would be girls in the southern states or those from religious homes.
2. Enjoy The Decline
Let's get down to the fucking facts: You're TWENTY-ONE years old.
You shouldn't even be thinking about dating in the sense of having a girlfriend. Bang away, experience life, get drunk, have fun and focus on making money.
Money will be your ticket out of the states and to the promise land of poon one day.
If you bust your ass now, you could very easily set up your life to be location independent within 5 years, maybe less or more depending on your niche etc.
America is great for party sluts. This country produces sluts who will fuck and suck you dry, so enjoy them and know in your heart that you'll not settle for one of them, but will get a solid girl outside of the states one day. Keep in mind that there are some decent girls in the states, but you have to find them.
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02-04-2014, 02:06 AM
Date some chicks that aren't from the U.S.
One of the nice things about America, that few guys ever seem to mention, is the fact that it's teeming with foreign women.
While at the train station a few weeks ago I started chatting with some cute French girls. In the evening I talked to some German tourist girls. Later that night I flirted with a Brazilian.
While the United States does have a bunch of annoying girls, there are plenty of foreign women who come here to study and vacation.
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02-04-2014, 02:12 AM
Look at the bright side bro; you took the red pill very early in life. You are WAY ahead of the game!
McQueen is right; first generation girls.
I would also add that its important to think about what you are interested in, in life, as well as where you can make money. If you follow the money exclusively you'll end up having to backtrack at some point of your life to find what you are actually interested in doing. The money comes regardless - with work of course. But, like I said, you are miles ahead of the game so you'll tear it up!
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02-04-2014, 08:15 AM
It's actually pretty easy:
1. Work on your body. When you're physically strong, your frame is strong too.
2. Treat them with the expectation that they're dirt until proven otherwise.
2 is a bit tricky. You can't be too forward but at the same time you can't be too wimpy. Practice makes perfect in this instance.
I was at a burger joint with a bunch of church friends. I didn't want to eat this hot dog i got with my hands so i got some silverware.
This little asian chick (5/10) looked at me and said, "Oh come on? Man up and eat it with your hands!"
I sat there and calmfully took my bite. I looked at her back and said, "Why don't you put a napkin on your lap and lady up?"
1950s style misogyny is highly effective at combating snark in women. Don't be afraid to use it, especially when the opposite party did it first.
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02-04-2014, 11:20 AM
I haven't dated an American girl EVER. Just smash the hotties, don't date and have fun.
Furthermore, I focus almost exclusively on foreign girls or 1st generation foreign girls- Asian, African, Latina, etc etc.
People will give you shit, but you can throw them some lame "excuse"- Im just not boyfriend material."
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02-04-2014, 01:24 PM
This happened to me when I started visiting W. Europe. Wait until you visit EE (Ukraine/Poland) or Brazil -- you'll look back and wonder why you even bothered with W. European feminists.
Regardless, the bottom of the barrel is US women and the previous posters have it right, treat them exactly that way.
Have some fun with this. Run Other Women of the World Game.
Her: "You've been to Europe."
You: "Yeah, twice."
Her: "Awesome. How was it? I've only gone to Mexico on Spring Break."
You: "You should see it. The women wear high heels everywhere and are in great shape. Great cooks too BTW, had one Ukrainian girl cook some delicious borsh. She offered to wash my dirty clothes and then starched and ironed them. Yeah, it was fucking awesome. Can you cook?"
Her: "Uhh...Oh...Yeah I'm a GREAT cook."
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02-04-2014, 06:05 PM
I know where you guys are coming from, and understand. But trust when I say, after years of extensive travel/living abroad, that I've learned to appreciate the American female. Look at my profile at the countries visited list, and I still rate chicks here near the top. I've seen about the best and worst, and never complain about coming home and getting my arms around a perky little UGA girl.
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02-04-2014, 06:36 PM
Honestly, one word. Standards. Seriously, just qualify girls on your standards. If she doesn't meet them, walk away, regardless of how hot she is. I've done it. I'm sure many of us have.
If you're not fucking her, someone else is.