Quote: (01-26-2014 04:17 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:
I'll go for the 7 who's lively and funny, and genuinely happy to see me, over the 8.5 how distant and slightly bitchy, always wondering if she could get a better deal then me....
This will probably be a controversial statement, but I've never found 'beautiful' women, (8 and up), hugely-bitchy, even when I wasn't particularly high-value in my teens and twenties. Maybe because I was exposed to the beautiful cliques my sister walked in. Maybe I've just been damn lucky. From my experience, (and this presuming a solid upbringing where they've suffered no major psychological damage) with the usual understanding of NAWALT:
The natural 8-9's - meaning they have always existed as 'beautiful', are the most consistently-pleasant women I've ever met. They're aware of the power of their beauty, and usually have both personal goals and expectations of success for both them and their partner, which I consider healthy. They're fun to be around, don't act masculine, and aren't carrying chips on their shoulders. The trick is to approach them without being intimidated, absolutely sure that you belong there.
Then there's the 'late blooming 8's'. They might have been fat as children, or developed late, or mastered personal grooming and style. This is where bitchiness starts creeping in. It's their insecurity about the change that has happened. Maybe they're frightened they'll slip back. They sometimes need to remind you and others they're beautiful, so the attitude starts.
The 6-7.5 range is the danger zone. They delude themselves they're hotter than they are; so their expectations are higher and more unrealistic; and their insecurity means they're likely to publicly-humiliate any sub-standard guy who approaches or any girl who pisses them off to feel better about themselves. They're far sluttier, as sex with 'hot' guys flatters their self-image and makes them believe they're more beautiful than they are.
Why are they so unrealistically-bitchy, where the 9's aren't? I suspect it's
performance. They want to believe they're a hot girl, but due to their lower sexual value, they've always been excluded from 'beautiful cliques' so their idea of how hot girls act comes from, you guessed it, fantasy depictions from television and movies, where hot girls are
always mean bitches, (unless it's a movie where the nerd wins the heart of one to the disgust of her mean bitch clique).
Cougars, ratchets and single mothers cling to this fantasy the hardest, and are the vilest bitches you'll ever meet. The less 'all that' she is, the nastier she'll act to reinforce her belief that she is.
Obviously, the Feminist Threshold (5 down) is where bitchiness turns into constant combativeness against the entire world.
Just my experience. Is it a cultural thing? My country isn't known for high standards of female beauty.