Not another height thread.
I will correct this:
Women despise short guys who despise themselves for being short.
I will correct this:
Women despise short guys who despise themselves for being short.
Quote: (11-22-2013 11:52 AM)scotian Wrote:
I'm 5'4 and can't recall ever being hated on by a woman for being short, I hear it a lot from guys at work but everyone gets it at work, whether you're short, fat, have a big nose, whatever. Anyone who knows me knows I'm a bit of a mouth piece and won't hesitate to nuke them over any perceived flaw they may have and trust me, no one is perfect and everyone is insecure about something. Having a silver tongue and no filter can be a great thing somtimes, whether you're short or not, if someone disrespects you, fucking nuke them, problem solved and egos shattered.
One comment I do remember that blew my mind was when I was at a family event at my best friend's house and his sister and her infant boy were there. They were beside me and she was making some baby talk with him and said something to the effect of "you're gonna big a big tall man some day, just like your daddy, that's why I married a tall man." This chick is short herself, shorter than me so about 5'0-5'2, and her husband is tall, about 6'2 but get this, before they were married, the guy got testicular cancer and thankfully made a full recovery and props to her for sticking it out with him. So basically this girl was willing to overlook this guys shitty, cancerous genes (not to mention he's introverted and shy, no personality and doesn't have a great job) just because of his height.
As for dating and gaming women, I think I do alright and am happy with the results I get but I have realistic expectations, I have banged lots of taller girls, a couple around 5'10 and it was fun to crawl all over them but my usual targets are obviously shorter girls in the 5'0-5'6 range. I accepted the fact long ago that most women want a taller guy and most don't want to date one shorter than them, so a lot of the really hot girls (8s+) who are 6'0 with their heels on are basically invisible to me in clubs and night life situations and that's fine with me. I usually go for the 6s anyway, sometimes I end up with a 7 and if I'm really drunk and horny, I'll take home a 5 at 3am haha. I know that some guys will say that this is a "limiting belief" but I don't care, I get in where I fit in and being seen with really hot women isn't a major priority in my life.
Honestly I don't think that its something to focus on too much if you're a short guy, like anyone else, short guys can focus on improving other areas of their lives and will see positive results. Or you can always hop on a plane and travel to a country where height isn't such a big deal, which is what I do, I'm in Bogota now and banged a cute girl a few times yesterday who I dare say wouldn't be kicked out of bed by most RVF members for eating crackers.
Quote: (11-22-2013 12:52 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
Quote: (11-22-2013 12:07 PM)Hotwheels Wrote:
Quote: (11-22-2013 11:58 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
If you are a short guy, want to know how to get girls?
It is easy:
Walk Tall.
How tall are you G?
In reality?
Or in my own mind?
Quote: (11-22-2013 01:02 PM)Hotwheels Wrote:
Quote: (11-22-2013 12:52 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
Quote: (11-22-2013 12:07 PM)Hotwheels Wrote:
Quote: (11-22-2013 11:58 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
If you are a short guy, want to know how to get girls?
It is easy:
Walk Tall.
How tall are you G?
In reality?
Or in my own mind?
For teh realz.
Unless you are 5' or 7' I doubt it will out you.
Quote: (11-22-2013 01:31 PM)el mechanico Wrote:
Does anyone know if New Orleans is full of tall people? I was thinking about going next week but if I'm going to get AMOG'd the whole time I'll just stick around here and hit up some Asian restaurants.
Quote: (11-22-2013 07:47 PM)Peregrine Wrote:
I'll bet Teddy Roosevelt had wished he wasn't born asthmatic or with heart conditions. He could've used those as excuses to be mediocre. But he didn't. He flipped a MASSIVE bird at the hand he was dealt and played the shit out of those cards. In fact, I'm willing to bet that would not have been HALF the man he was if it were not for those challenges. Don't wish for an easier mountain, but instead be grateful it wasn't bigger and work at strengthening your legs.
Nick Notas talks about height here. Good article.
Another mental trick I shared with a friend even shorter than me: when you're hanging out with guys taller than you, pretend they're your bodyguards. All about the frame.
Quote: (11-22-2013 08:55 PM)Doctordude Wrote:
I don't think you can dismiss height as it is probably the number 1 physical attribute that women desire in a man. I have known several girls through the years who wouldn't even consider dating anyone under 6 feet.
Quote: (11-22-2013 09:16 PM)germanico Wrote:
Quote: (11-22-2013 08:55 PM)Doctordude Wrote:
I don't think you can dismiss height as it is probably the number 1 physical attribute that women desire in a man. I have known several girls through the years who wouldn't even consider dating anyone under 6 feet.
Why do you want to date them? Fuck them and go home in the morning. I assure you those women that swear they wouldnt date anyone under 6 feet also wouldnt date anything less than a 6´4 Harvard lawyer-doctor with a 9 inch dick that bakes cupcakes, loves dogs, wants 4 children (including the 2 from her previous marriage) and earns over 500k a year, of which of course she has full control.
Guess what are they getting instead? a 5´5 tall can of Fuck Yourself.
Quote: (11-22-2013 11:30 PM)Wutang Wrote:
Height does seem to be the one physical trait that girls feel no shame about expressing openly as a requirement.
I've seen a lot of girls state that they want a guy who is no shorter then a certain height or if they aren't as picky they'll at least state the guy must be taller then her. However girls typically won't come right out and say they will only date guys who make X amount of dollars per year or guys that are not fat or guys that are at least above average in looks. I have no idea why this is the case.
Quote: (11-22-2013 01:31 PM)el mechanico Wrote:
Does anyone know if New Orleans is full of tall people? I was thinking about going next week but if I'm going to get AMOG'd the whole time I'll just stick around here and hit up some Asian restaurants.