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I met a girl, who is considering leaving her BF. She wants to leave the small town where I met her and move to LA. I would let her live with me for a bit but I have mentioned how I think it is important that she has her own place. I feel a little bad about the fact she will leave her BF (much older dude) to be with me, with an uncertain future. But I am having some fun with her and I like being around her. I have been so busy working lately, I have not focused on chicks. She seems a bit submissive and understands her "place." How do I protect myself if she does come out to LA and I let her stay with me for a while until she finds a job and a place?
I am usually pretty analytical trying to make all the right moves, but I sort of feel like saying "what's the worse that could happen" but I know that a lot of bad stuff could happen. But I would be having some fun.
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So I have been in the middle of nowhere for the last few weeks and met a girl, 25. I am several years older. She thought I was only 32 (thanks RVF for the motivation). Here is the deal, we have messed around but no bang. She likes spending time with me and she comes to my hotel to hang out. It is a small town so people know each other. I enjoy being with her. Unlike most women her age, she is constantly trying to learn and she watches where she spends her money.
She currently is living with her senior citizen bf (I know, I know).
She doesn't want to have sex until she breaks up with her bf. She doesn't want to cheat, but somehow has rationalized kissing and nudity. She has several things to think about, but she says she is leaning toward breaking up with him.
I have told her she needs to decide as if I was not in the equation, it would be a terrible burden if she broke up for me and we didn't work out. Sorry I know some guys are indifferent and I can be also, but I can't be indifferent to her situation.
I have a bit of uncertainty about all this. And here is why, she seems like a really nice girl. Yes, having read RVF, like men with the right temptation a woman will stray. So I won't be surprised if she strays from me.
But I just want to have some fun. I can't tell her anything that will happen in the future. She has not been with many men. But she talks about swinging from one vine (old bf) to another vine (me).
It has been a while since I have connected with a female in a while that I could stand for more than a few days. So I am tempted to roll the dice and see where this goes.
She wants to move out to LA eventually. I don't really want her to live with me, just because I do value alone time. But we have talked about she could stay with me until she got settled. But my analytical mind is going through all the headaches of what happens if it doesn't work out.
How do I protect myself if she does come out to LA and I let her stay with me for a while until she finds a job and a place?
Like I said, I am usually pretty analytical trying to make all the right moves, but I sort of feel like saying "what's the worse that could happen" but I know that a lot of bad stuff could happen. But I would be having some fun.
Thanks to all the advice in advance.
I met a girl, who is considering leaving her BF. She wants to leave the small town where I met her and move to LA. I would let her live with me for a bit but I have mentioned how I think it is important that she has her own place. I feel a little bad about the fact she will leave her BF (much older dude) to be with me, with an uncertain future. But I am having some fun with her and I like being around her. I have been so busy working lately, I have not focused on chicks. She seems a bit submissive and understands her "place." How do I protect myself if she does come out to LA and I let her stay with me for a while until she finds a job and a place?
I am usually pretty analytical trying to make all the right moves, but I sort of feel like saying "what's the worse that could happen" but I know that a lot of bad stuff could happen. But I would be having some fun.
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So I have been in the middle of nowhere for the last few weeks and met a girl, 25. I am several years older. She thought I was only 32 (thanks RVF for the motivation). Here is the deal, we have messed around but no bang. She likes spending time with me and she comes to my hotel to hang out. It is a small town so people know each other. I enjoy being with her. Unlike most women her age, she is constantly trying to learn and she watches where she spends her money.
She currently is living with her senior citizen bf (I know, I know).
She doesn't want to have sex until she breaks up with her bf. She doesn't want to cheat, but somehow has rationalized kissing and nudity. She has several things to think about, but she says she is leaning toward breaking up with him.
I have told her she needs to decide as if I was not in the equation, it would be a terrible burden if she broke up for me and we didn't work out. Sorry I know some guys are indifferent and I can be also, but I can't be indifferent to her situation.
I have a bit of uncertainty about all this. And here is why, she seems like a really nice girl. Yes, having read RVF, like men with the right temptation a woman will stray. So I won't be surprised if she strays from me.
But I just want to have some fun. I can't tell her anything that will happen in the future. She has not been with many men. But she talks about swinging from one vine (old bf) to another vine (me).
It has been a while since I have connected with a female in a while that I could stand for more than a few days. So I am tempted to roll the dice and see where this goes.
She wants to move out to LA eventually. I don't really want her to live with me, just because I do value alone time. But we have talked about she could stay with me until she got settled. But my analytical mind is going through all the headaches of what happens if it doesn't work out.
How do I protect myself if she does come out to LA and I let her stay with me for a while until she finds a job and a place?
Like I said, I am usually pretty analytical trying to make all the right moves, but I sort of feel like saying "what's the worse that could happen" but I know that a lot of bad stuff could happen. But I would be having some fun.
Thanks to all the advice in advance.
Fate whispers to the warrior, "You cannot withstand the storm." And the warrior whispers back, "I am the storm."
Women and children can be careless, but not men - Don Corleone
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