[Therapsid]

(10-02-2013 04:15 PM)Remington Wrote:  

Received a text from her about an hour ago that said "We need to talk." Time for radio silence. My text game is garbage anyways.

Why are you still thinking in terms of gaming this bitch?

It sounds like you're looking to play games here, possibly to resurrect her attraction for you. Forget about it.

[el mechanico]

Text her.

Go find some girls

When she replies text back

Did you find a girl to bring?

only leave a threesome on the table and that's it. You're in one of those wormholes now so keep the frame and don't talk to her unless she has drunk pussy threesomes to offer.

[Menace]

Remington, let el mech take over the texting for you. Don't send anything yourself. BTW you are emotionally hurt, despite the bravado I think. That's normal, and I would not try to suppress it just to look tough on the forum.

[Cattle Rustler]

Listen to emech, he's the text game master....

[Ensam]

She wanted you to catch her. Maybe not consciously but some part of her psyche wanted to get caught. She knew you dropped by her place sometimes, you either have a key or she left the door unlocked. If she really wanted to hide it from you she'd have hooked up with the guy in another location. She wants the drama, she wants the confrontation. Don't give it to her.

Did you guys ever actually have a conversation about exclusivity? If not I guarantee you she's going to try and claim that even though she referred to you as her boyfriend it was some how ok to be fucking another guy.

Anyway, you handled it like a pro. I doubt many guys (myself included) could have maintained that kind of composure.

Take some time and honestly think about what you want to have happen now. You have an incredible amount of emotional power over this girl at the moment. No point in discussing anything you don't know for sure with the girl. She's going to lie her ass off. My move would be radio silence then get an STD screen in a few weeks and send her the bill.

[Belize King]

Was he strapped? It would have been fucked up if he was raw dogging her. I wouldnt handle it like you did but I wouldnt have given a fuck either. Probably would have made it known that I was in the apartment then drove to my house and chilled.

Pussy is pussy. Shes either a slut or you werent handling your business. Either way if she comes back punish her with crazy sex then try to force a threesome. Otherwise, beat the streets for some new pussy.

[VincentVinturi]

You handled this really well. You kept cool, didn't beat the dude up, and learned some more information about the situation over a cold one.

This story illustrates why, in my opinion, agreeing to exclusivity (implicitly or otherwise) is mutually disadvantageous. Often, both the guy and the girl end up with ruined expectations and hurt feelings.

From my point of view, if a girl I'm seeing is banging another dude, I might feel a bit jealous, sure, but I'm not going to demand she fuck only me. That would be demanding something that isn't under my control. So when she eventually does fuck another guy, whether I learn about it or not, I'll be the jerkoff for insisting on "loyalty", without any practical means to enforce it.

If, on the other hand, I have a woman by the balls financially, then it would be in her interest to be loyal lest she get cut off. But rich chicks fuck around all the time with the specter of being out on their ass if the husband finds out. Doesn't deter them, just makes the forbidden fruit tastier lookin'.

[soup]

Remington, don't be a pussy. Either do what Mech says or cutt her out completely.

[Valhalla]

I think the most "alpha" thing would have been to beat the shit out of him then fuck her right there but that's irrelevant and not realistic.

This thread reminds me of this,

"The successful middle-class alpha male is a mythical figure that can’t exist for any significant amount of time. Our society is specifically built to put most alpha behavior in check. The only types of men who can pull off any semblance of true alpha behavior in the West are men at the extreme lower end of the socioeconomic scale because they feel they have nothing to lose and men at the extremely high end of the socioeconomic scale because despite having something to lose they have more resources with which to get away with alpha behavior. This is a society that keeps the peace and maintains the status quo by keeping alpha behavior in check through various disincentives and punishments."

What would a silverback gorilla do if he saw his girl being fucked by another male? I doubt women would cheat as much if they knew alphas weren't kept in check by society. Obviously, what's legal and what's alpha are two different things. This is just for discussion. I would never do that.


Good story though, what sort of dirt you find out from the guy?

[Glock]

Did you ask her why she cheated? I want to know what her real reasons were, as well as the reasons she gave.

[Glock]

I agree that this is no time for Game. You need to understand why she cheated and then move on with your life -- cut her off completely.

[soup]

This thread belongs in the newbie forum.

It's better if you realize that there is nothing to be proud about in this situation except for the fact that you can recgonize your own failure.

It's like a video game.

The moment you walked up to her door it was a countdown like this:

And now you have to insert coin:

You have to get it like this:

[slothpiece]

She could have sent the "We need to talk" text before she got caught banging another dude. LoL. She didn't. She doesn't deserve any closure to make her feeeeeel better. GFTOW 8===================D ----- (l) (*)(*) x 10

[teh_skeeze]

If you're gonna take the dude out and pay for his beer the least you can do is drop him off in a dangerous part of town. As for the bitch, there's nothing to talk about. All she is going to do is hamsterbate and tell you why she was justified in doing what she did. As others have said, threesome or silence. Sounds like you got a bit of oneitis.

[Dr. Howard]

This just happened yesterday? Excellent way to handle the initial situation, that is some self control.

Keep it going, maintain radio silence and if anyone asks you just answer 'we're not together anymore'. She needs information/cooperation from you to manage the situation with her friends/social media. Your silence makes any of her stories to friends/posts that much more difficult. Guaranteed she is freaking out waiting for the shoe to drop.

I wouldn't overthink it either. Just move on, this forum is evidence that this shit happens all the time in America.

[soup]

(10-02-2013 08:07 PM)teh_skeeze Wrote:  

If you're gonna take the dude out and pay for his beer the least you can do is drop him off in a dangerous part of town. As for the bitch, there's nothing to talk about. All she is going to do is hamsterbate and tell you why she was justified in doing what she did. As others have said, threesome or silence. Sounds like you got a bit of oneitis.

If you are going to take a dude out and buy him a beer for fucking your girl, you might as well go ahead and suck his dick while you are at it.

[XYZ]

never contacting her again would be the best revenge. i doubt youre getting a threesome from a girl that blatantly cheated on you so just cut her off

[worldwidetraveler]

(10-02-2013 08:10 PM)soup Wrote:  

(10-02-2013 08:07 PM)teh_skeeze Wrote:  

If you're gonna take the dude out and pay for his beer the least you can do is drop him off in a dangerous part of town. As for the bitch, there's nothing to talk about. All she is going to do is hamsterbate and tell you why she was justified in doing what she did. As others have said, threesome or silence. Sounds like you got a bit of oneitis.

If you are going to take a dude out and buy him a beer for fucking your girl, you might as well go ahead and suck his dick while you are at it.

I think Soup walks around all day wondering if he is alpha enough.

Am I walking like an Alpha?
Am I wiping my ass like an Alpha?
Am I eating this delicious sandwich that I made myself like an Alpha?

Maybe you should chill a little and not take everything so serious Soup. You seem tightly wound which is the opposite of an Alpha.

We get you don't approve of what he did. The first post was enough to see that. Now you are just trolling.

[Peregrine]

So much effort. Just laugh and tell them both to leave. Start moving her shit out the door as well. If it's her place, laugh and walk out. Laughter is your best weapon.

(You can cry and punch trees later.)

[MrXY]

The only thing I'm going to really criticize about what the OP did was letting the girl come into his place.

I think this was a big risk that had no benefit and shouldn't have been taken. She was in a highly upset state and women can do anything in that condition. What if she was angry at the way the OP reacted so cooly and attacked him and then called the police and say he attacked her? Guess who's going to jail. Or bruised herself and claimed he did it? Or claimed he tried to rape her?

The best reaction I think would have been to stand in the doorway for a moment and then say " Oh-so you're fucking her too ,man? That's cool, she's just a whore, she's fucked more guys around here than I can count." Then walk out and never communicate with her again.

[eradicator]

(10-02-2013 07:28 PM)Consul Wrote:  

Did you ask her why she cheated? I want to know what her real reasons were, as well as the reasons she gave.

There are no real reasons, other than that she didn't want or didn't know how to say 'no' when another guy wanted to fuck her.

I'd just cut off all contact with her. If this happens again in the future, i think mike_cf had a pretty good solution: just take your clothes off and say "oh don't stop, we are going to have a 3 way on this whore". and then fuck her with the other guy.

afterwards, get up and leave and never speak to either of them again.

[Rutting Elephant]

No sympathy at all for the dude who got blueballed?

[reaper23]

sorry I dont really buy it

[Glock]

(10-02-2013 08:32 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  

(10-02-2013 07:28 PM)Consul Wrote:  

Did you ask her why she cheated? I want to know what her real reasons were, as well as the reasons she gave.

There are no real reasons, other than that she didn't want or didn't know how to say 'no' when another guy wanted to fuck her.

I'd just cut off all contact with her. If this happens again in the future, i think mike_cf had a pretty good solution: just take your clothes off and say "oh don't stop, we are going to have a 3 way on this whore". and then fuck her with the other guy.

afterwards, get up and leave and never speak to either of them again.

There's got to be a reason why she didn't say "no." In my experience, a satisfied woman generally doesn't stray.

[worldwidetraveler]

(10-02-2013 10:41 PM)Consul Wrote:  

There's got to be a reason why she didn't say "no." In my experience, a satisfied woman generally doesn't stray.

What do you mean by satisfied?

I fucked many married women as well as women with boyfriends who didn't want to end their relationships. They were happy for the most part.

Doing something wrong is exciting. Fucking the same person for years is boring.

If they think they can get away with it, you bet your ass they will pick exciting.