I’ve spent some of my life in small town USA. I still have good friends in these places and have dated women from town sizes as small as 200 people. I venture back to these roots occasionally, so I’ve kept up on the happenings in the small town America for the most part. Not all of small town America is created equal and the same can be said for the women as well.
Quote: (08-25-2013 08:51 PM)Courage Reborn Wrote:
I'm going to suggest that best quality in the US come out of small towns.
Looking back at my past LTR's, the girls having the best traits for wife/mother were born & raised at least an hour outside the city center.
Suburban girls located 30-60 minutes outside city center can be hit or miss. It's the ones who were raised with small town community values I felt had better models for loyalty, motherhood, and could be better trusted.
Are there drawbacks? Sure. They tend to not be as educated or interesting as city girls. You won't have as much in common with them as a man of the world. They might be ignorant. Finding hot ones is a challenge. They are damn hard to find. They won't have much in the way of fashion sense. But I'm not sure these things are so important when looking to take a wife.
The ones who make the voyage out of their small town and into the big city were either too pretty, or too smart to stay put. I have met a few LTR's of this type early in their transition, and was able to shield them from corruption while under my care. To this day, they've been my best candidates for taking a wife in the US.
Having experienced both small town and urban USA, I will agree that the greater portion of the remaining quality American women comes from small towns. Having said that there are some clear exceptions to the rule.
Yes, a lot of small town America still produces a community-centric culture of traditional and conservative values and with that some of the most nice and feminine chicks in the USA, but these places are still in the USA and are not at all immune to the toxic traits of western culture as a whole. The goods are guaranteed to be spoiled at some point in their life, no questions about it. If these chicks have not dabbled too much in high school party life or are not already wifed-up by a local dude by age 20, they will eventually become another basic university bitch, a beluga whale from too much country fixins' or a dried-up sack of skin from subscribing to some form of eat-pray-cock carousal lifestyle. Simply put, these bitches are bound to hit the wall hard and fast.
If your goal is to wife a small town chick, your ability to do so will have a lot to do with timing and social circle. Social circles in small town USA are largely formed earlier on in life compared to urban areas and these girls are still brought up in a (dying) culture that still promotes early marriage with your “high school sweetheart” or local boy that has gone to the same church or school their whole life. Thus giving an edge to the local dudes, but naturally chicks buck this trend as they grow up and experience life off the reservation, so the edge isn’t that great. This dynamic applies more to the decreasing number of small town chicks who are looking local, to stay local their whole lives, which is probably not something the wife hunters of this forum are looking for anyways.
As you addressed, depending on your standards, finding “hot” chicks will be a challenge in some small towns. Problems are typically one of the following:
-Lack of fashion sense or fitness culture (social media is rapidly changing this)
-Hearty meat, potatoes and corn-fed diet since birth
-Depending on how rural you go you’ll run into girls with a bit of a genetic predisposition stemming from a history family inbreeding.
-Limited access to social circles or solid venue options
Quote: (06-26-2015 07:56 AM)brob Wrote:
I'm not so sure about small town girls. I grew up in a small town and thinking back to my high school days, most girls lost their virginity in 9th or 10th grade and then began partying and fucking around pretty frequently. In small towns, there is less to do so I think more idle time increases the chance of sex and partying among young people. There were definitely some good girls but they were still a minority. Most small town girls never leave upon high school graduation. Most go to local community college. They get impregnated at an early age, settle down earlier than city folk, and then go through a few dramatic marriages. Whenever I need a pick me up, I can just look at my Facebook feed and see how most of my graduating class has assumed this fate.
Very true post, but the cycle is present in every town in America, big or small. Small town American girls are most certainly susceptible to the idle time, readily accessible booze/drugs with places to party and a drawn-out sexual angst fueled by a religiously sheltered upbringing. From my experience it is probably more 50%-50% on what small town girls fuck around with sex/booze/drugs in early high school, leaving you with a mostly undamaged, fuckable 15-20% of that 50% at age 18. Past the age of 20 that percentage is solidly below 10%.
Quote: (08-27-2013 08:29 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:
The problem with small towns is the logisitics involved in finding and banging them.
If they're not on a dating site you have got to put in serious ground time in this towns to find those girls.
And you gotta think about how many towns are in a good logistical distance from you. Like a 30-40 mile circle. It may be a lot for some and few for others.
If its a lot you are gonna be putting in a lot of ground time. If its few you gonna have fewer opportunities. And the competition for the top local birds is usually pretty intense. But on a positive note a cool new dude in the area is a like cat nip to the chicks.
I did a good amount of small town game a few years back. I would pick a place on a map and ride my motorcycle there. Then I would spend the day exploring the shops, stores, and restaurants. Some I went to and decided they weren't worth a return visit and some became regular spots (with some rotation regulars of course) to visit whenever the weather was good.
Like anything in life, your logistics will be key to the success of your mission. This is a serious drawback to small town America game, especially if you are venturing into the unknown without local connects. Pre-trip research will be a necessity toward your success on the ground. Riding around the countryside on your bike and showing up in small town bars, stores and restaurants will for the most part give you great street cred with the locals, but you will eventually run into dry spells of viable women. Those who choose this path with swagger and confidence will do well.
For those looking to take a more planned approached, map any country/tri-county area that perks your interest and then search the summer/autumn festivals of every small town within your targeted area. 95% of American small towns have summer/autumn festivals. These bring everyone in the area out of the woodwork and it will give you the best opportunity to game, both day and night.
In addition to these small festivals, there are other events that should not be overlooked. There are numerous small country music festivals across America every summer. The equivalent of Ultra, Bonnaroo, or Cochella for small town America. Massive partying, tons of drunk women, daisy dukes and tits everywhere. Easy social circle access. So much to like about these festivals. Examples:
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Rock the South in Alabama
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Country Concert in Ohio
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CountryFest in Wisconsin
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Country USA in Wisconsin
Quote: (06-24-2015 11:28 AM)Pokerbaby Wrote:
Those mid-sized mid-west cities (St Louis, KC, Indianapolis) are gold. Not really small towns but not towns you first think about when you think of the USA. There are a lot of good looking girls. They are usually friendly, especially to outsiders.
These are sizable metropolitan areas over 1 million people with completely different dynamics to those of true "small towns". It is true that these cities will attract thousands of small town Midwestern American women, but they will be diluted and will not truly be “small town” anymore. The game is different in these cities.
Quote: (06-24-2015 05:20 PM)The_Wonder Wrote:
I'm English and ready for a great American adventure. Any places you guys would recommend for a prince charming?
Your accent and nationality will be mostly well received by small town chicks in the USA, you will slay if you have an ounce of game and basic knowledge of American country culture. I would recommend focusing where your accent clashes most and where people have likely had no previous contact with a Brit. Look into the upper Midwest (Dakotas, Minnesota, Wisconsin, Iowa) or the Deep South (Louisiana, Mississippi, Alabama or even Texas).