Quote: (08-29-2015 12:52 PM)redbeard Wrote:
OK OK....despite my previous hating I'm coming back to this thread for advice.
Funny situation.
I didn't post about her much but I had a mini-LTR with a girl between April and June. Things ended after we had an argument one night...we still kept in touch but never met, until two weeks ago I tried to booty call her and she said "I don't want to hang out again. Sorry." I said "OK cool" and deleted her number.
She texted me a few days ago and said she wants to hang out but under one condition: that I come over during the day while her roommates are working and completely dominate her. Do whatever I want. Push her limits. Only rules were that she gets a safe word and I have to wear a condom.
Obviously I'm going to do it, but I want to use this as an opportunity to expand my arsenal. I've got the gameset, now I need the tools.
Items I'd like to buy:So my questions for you pervs:
- Collar
- Leash
- Butt plug
- Strong leather blindfold
- Restraints (so I can tie her feet without having to learn some BS knot?)
- Whip
1. Best place to buy this stuff?
2. Do you tie girls up? If so what is the best or easiest way to do it?
If it's a one time deal and you're not planning on going farther with it, you can get all that shit off Amazon for pretty cheap. If your nearest mall has a Spencer's Gifts in it you can get the collar, leash, and restraints (and maybe the whip, not 100% on that). Go small with the butt plug unless you're fucking her in the ass regularly, and even then, buy lube anyway.
As far as tying girls up, depends on a few things; what you want to tie them up with, what you want to tie them to, and what you want to do with them while they're tied.
If you're just trying to tie her up to the headboard in a static position to fuck her missionary, you can use rope, a necktie, a handkerchief, pretty much anything, and an overhand knot should do you fine. If you want to restrain her arms but still leave the rest of her body free, or tie her arms to her legs, or tie her legs, or basically anything other than tying her up to fuck her in one position, rope is your best bet.
Learn the single and double column ties (the youtube tutorials are only a couple minutes long and you can practice on yourself first). Those 2 knots are pretty much all you need for simple restraining purposes. The single column is more for tying her to different things but still allowing for a little freedom of motion, double is for tying her to herself or keeping things immobilized completely.