[Veloce]

(06-21-2013 02:32 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

I'll never understand you guys that think a girl cheating is equivalent to a man sleeping with a lot of women.

It keeps coming up too. It falls in line with gender equality which we all know is bullshit.

I'd like to think this forum isn't about equality. It's not about being an AFC.

It's about rising to the top, whatever that means to you. If your standard is that your girl should be able to fuck other guys if you're fucking other girls, well, if anything I feel sorry for you. In a patriarchal society, it's understood that men of power or position have a wife with several mistresses. I don't know about you, but this is what I strive for. This is my model of happiness. I like having a woman that knows me and cares for me, sexually pleases me, etc. But nothing can substitute for variety. Whether my girl knows about it and turns a blind eye, or she's the jealous type and I have to be secretive, it doesn't really matter to me. The need to fuck other women is what makes me a desirable mate in the first place and is what keeps my girl attracted to me. If she strays or finds something else, it means I didn't keep her occupied enough and I've got an empty slot to fill at some point.

I think any guy that says, "Well, she should be able to fuck other guys if I'm fucking other girls", you guys gave up the fight. As MikeCF mentioned, being controlling or enforcing punishment as a cultural value is a GOOD thing for us. It might seem contradictory to what I said earlier about "signs of anger being a byproduct of oneitis" but once he clarified it in a cultural context I absolutely agree. In personal interactions, I believe in detachment. But on a cultural level, I'm 100% about outwardly shaming and dictating the place of a woman. This is why patriarchal societies of the past knew what the fuck was up. They knew the nature of women and realized women are like horses in that they requires saddles, bridles, and blinders. Pull the restraints off and they run fucking wild with nothing to guide them but their own whims and so-called "instincts".

It's been said many times before. Men are capable of keeping a serious partner with flings on the side. I could be a great husband, dad, family man etc, and once in a while I gotta plow some strange. Women cannot do this. Getting foreign cock flips her world upside-down and changes her feelings. Once she crosses that line, she's lost, and you gotta let her go.

There's no point in getting angry at any guy involved because if it wasn't him it would be someone else. If women are running wild, then it means the ultimate fault is men as collective in not keeping our horses in the corral and tending the ranch properly.

[pitt]

(06-20-2013 02:05 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

I would psychologically demoralize my girlfriend for the rest of her life. I would truly ruin her forever. How?

I'd walk in, see them, and smirk.

She'd have a look of fear on her face. The guy would be thinking, "Oh, shit."

(I can beat up most men but I would still be thinking, "Oh, shit." You don't know if the guy is going to go crazy and pull out a gun or if the girl is suddenly going to cry rape.)

I'd pull my iPhone out and put it on the dresser and then start pulling my pants down. "Whoa, guys, don't stop. I am going to join in. Let's Eiffel Tower this bitch."

I'd look over at the guy, "She's just a whore to me, bro, don't worry about anything."

Once the girl got up and started freaking out, I'd start taking picture.

"These are great shots. I'm going to display this as art and call the exhibit: THIS IS WHAT A WHORE LOOKS LIKE."

Do you think that girl would ever have a normal relationship ever again? I sure don't.

Men, don't ruin yourselves and make rash decisions that will affect your future when people wrong you. Ruin the other person.

You can do far more damage to a person's mind than to a person's body. Even an ass kicking heals. Deep psychological trauma lingers for decades.

Your answer sounds great if she was just your girlfriend. But would you react exactly the same way if she was your wife of 15 years and both of you had 3 kids?

I remember when i asked these to two good friends (alpha guys), both told me that i should beat up the guy. That it is disrespectful for a guy to walk into your house and fuck your girlfriend at your house. If you let that shit slide, then you will let slide everything and anything. Actually i am glad that i brought up this question on here, its good to see different perspectives, because i was already thinking that it is a ''bitchass'' attitude not to do anything to the guy that is fucking your girlfriend at your house.

I seriously dont know how i would react on this, but i definetely wouldn't tell them to leave and act like everything is ok. Disrespect must be treated with disrespect. I am either psychogically destroying that bitch as you said or i am beating up that dude (stab him or shoot him if i think that i can't fight him).

[rudebwoy]

Pitt - I am not fighting over any girl, if she is low enough to do that then she is a skeezer.

If you fight the guy and let's say you beat him up, he ends up calling the cops. What do you think the cops are going to do to you when they show up? Then you have to go to court, pay money for a lawyer and you know how the story goes.

A criminal record is no joke and for what some skeezer.

[iknowexactly]

(06-21-2013 02:26 PM)pitt Wrote:  

Disrespect must be treated with disrespect. I am either psychogically destroying that bitch as you said or i am beating up that dude (stab him or shoot him if i think that i can't fight him).

This sounds a lot like the guys in jail I used to work with thought.

If someone's actions determine what you do, they are in control of you. You are forced to fight, no matter
how badly things turn out for you. That guy that fucked your girl, also turned you into a jailhouse clown, strutting around an hour a day-- with no women around.

It's your life, but it sounds like you're reacting to others, and letting them determine your actions rather than going after what you want.

So you're going to stab or shoot a guy when you've got three kids? Great strategy. Your kids will really enjoy their food stamps and father figure heroically in jail. That's a great DHV for your son to explain to girls:

Q:What does your father do.
A: He's in prison.

[silent_scope]

(06-21-2013 12:18 AM)snoop Wrote:  

Just shoot the fucker and claim you thought he was raping her like this guy did.

http://celebshine.com/2013/06/05/man-sho...fes-lover/

Best answer...

Second best answer was taking your clothes off and joining in... smutting her out and taking pix.

[vinman]

If you were in the military for any length of time and you had game there is NO WAY IN HELL that you haven't been caught in some dudes house boning their girl.

[FourToTheFloor]

I don't understand the logic behind beating up a guy who probably didn't even know you existed.

If it's a friend or a relative, go to town on that guy.


My response, "Alright, you're time's up. That'll be $500."

[Architekt]

Haha, I can just imagine
"what do you mean???"
"well, clearly, you're fucking a whore"

[soup]

(06-21-2013 02:26 PM)pitt Wrote:  

(06-20-2013 02:05 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

I would psychologically demoralize my girlfriend for the rest of her life. I would truly ruin her forever. How?

I'd walk in, see them, and smirk.

She'd have a look of fear on her face. The guy would be thinking, "Oh, shit."

(I can beat up most men but I would still be thinking, "Oh, shit." You don't know if the guy is going to go crazy and pull out a gun or if the girl is suddenly going to cry rape.)

I'd pull my iPhone out and put it on the dresser and then start pulling my pants down. "Whoa, guys, don't stop. I am going to join in. Let's Eiffel Tower this bitch."

I'd look over at the guy, "She's just a whore to me, bro, don't worry about anything."

Once the girl got up and started freaking out, I'd start taking picture.

"These are great shots. I'm going to display this as art and call the exhibit: THIS IS WHAT A WHORE LOOKS LIKE."

Do you think that girl would ever have a normal relationship ever again? I sure don't.

Men, don't ruin yourselves and make rash decisions that will affect your future when people wrong you. Ruin the other person.

You can do far more damage to a person's mind than to a person's body. Even an ass kicking heals. Deep psychological trauma lingers for decades.

Your answer sounds great if she was just your girlfriend. But would you react exactly the same way if she was your wife of 15 years and both of you had 3 kids?

I remember when i asked these to two good friends (alpha guys), both told me that i should beat up the guy. That it is disrespectful for a guy to walk into your house and fuck your girlfriend at your house. If you let that shit slide, then you will let slide everything and anything. Actually i am glad that i brought up this question on here, its good to see different perspectives, because i was already thinking that it is a ''bitchass'' attitude not to do anything to the guy that is fucking your girlfriend at your house.

I seriously dont know how i would react on this, but i definetely wouldn't tell them to leave and act like everything is ok. Disrespect must be treated with disrespect. I am either psychogically destroying that bitch as you said or i am beating up that dude (stab him or shoot him if i think that i can't fight him).

Our women are lost. Get over it. Don't get married. Don't have kids. At least not in America.

[MikeCF]

(06-21-2013 02:26 PM)pitt Wrote:  

I seriously dont know how i would react on this, but i definetely wouldn't tell them to leave and act like everything is ok. Disrespect must be treated with disrespect. I am either psychogically destroying that bitch as you said or i am beating up that dude (stab him or shoot him if i think that i can't fight him).

I don't know if it's my age or just mileage on my body, but now a conflict has to be worth it.

I used to fight over anything. I like violence. I enjoy inflicting pain and I enjoy the adrenaline rush of wondering if violence is going to be inflicted on me.

Every street fight is exciting. Even if the guy is smaller, maybe he is Royce Gracie. Maybe he has a gun. Maybe someone is going to jump you.

Now...not so much. Been there, done that. I would only get into a conflict for something that was worth it.

A miserable whore is not worth risking my body, my brain, or my freedom.

Now I ask, "What would I gain?"

The adrenaline rush isn't enough of a gain.

If you beat the whore up or kill the guy, what have you gained?

Maybe you think your pride would be restored. Would it?

And even if you kick a guy's ass, will you get respect?

Do you know how many guys I FUCKED UP....who still talk shit?

Beat a mother fucker down and he's still going to tell people he fucked your bitch and laugh at you.

If you beat the guy down, what do you gain? Is what you gain worth the loss you'll feel when you're arrested, sued, and lose custody of your children and perhaps your very freedom?

[Samseau]

You guys are almost right about patriarchal societies. It wasn't just men who got punished for adultery. Both sexes get punished. It's so bad in some Islamic countries, they execute a woman who is raped.

[solo]

First of all, for many reasons this is unlikely to happen to anyone who has learned about game and alpha/beta.

One good way to get back would be to get multiple girls who are hotter than both 1) the slut and 2) whatever girl(s) the guy has.

If you think about it, the guy is really doing you a favor, making you see you should get rid of her. Though it would still be worth it to fuck up his life for doing in your house, so you could possibly buy up his company and then fire everyone, or something like that.

In a modern society with law enforcement it is best to avoid the urge to fight the guy (since, as others already said, otherwise he would become the guy who put you in jale too). If there is no law enforcement though, why not kill him?

[JohnKreese]

"Oh...you're busy. When would be a good time for us to talk about that positive herpes test result that I just got back?"

[Merenguero]

(06-23-2013 11:42 AM)JohnKreese Wrote:  

"Oh...you're busy. When would be a good time for us to talk about that positive herpes test result that I just got back?"

I would change herpes to H.I.V., although herpes would be much more believable.

[MrXY]

A while back a guy in my town came home early from work and walked in on his wife and a guy having sex in his bedroom.

He hit the guy in the head with a baseball bat and he died. Even though to me this seemed like a classic case of manslaughter, the husband was convicted of second degree murder and might be released from prison when he's an old man, if he's lucky

[poutsara]

This is a great thread. I've never been in this situation. I like MikeCF's approach but I doubt I would think of it in time. I would not fight the guy. The obvious gut reaction is to fight the guy but this could destroy you (legally) and is too risky.

In general, if I find out that a girl who I believe is only getting fucked by me is in fact getting fucked by other guys, I would do nothing. If the sex is good, doesn't waste too much of my time, then I would pretend not to know anything and continue to recreationally fuck her, while pursuing and fucking additional girls. I think this is the only reasonable strategy in our current environment. (This assumes the girl isn't married to me, obviously).

For those who say that it is alright for a girl who is just a fuckbuddy to you to fuck other guys, then you are deluding yourself. You might not care about her, but at your core you must care that someone else is fucking her. I can't rationalize this, but I feel it. The ideal is you fucking multiple girls while the girls are only fucking you. That's the ideal. The realistic compromise a lot of guys make is that you get to fuck the best girl you can get your hands on and she agrees that she will only get fucked by you. That's the time-tested, old-school defense of the many "betas" against the few "alphas" who otherwise would hoard all of the women into their harems. That's the source of the anger and bloodlust that most guys would feel confronted with this situation.

[iknowexactly]

(06-23-2013 03:29 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

A while back a guy in my town came home early from work and walked in on his wife and a guy having sex in his bedroom.

He hit the guy in the head with a baseball bat and he died. Even though to me this seemed like a classic case of manslaughter, the husband was convicted of second degree murder and might be released from prison when he's an old man, if he's lucky

Perfect example of why ghetto thinking "He disrespected me and I have to "show " him" is moronic.

Lots of thugs brag about how they don't mind being in prison, but no 25 year old knows what it's like to do 20 or even 10 years. So their proclamation that they are "ready to do the time" is mere boasting.

[cafedelmar]

Sh*t, I spilled my drink... US saved Europe?

[mental]

Hmmm, inviting a girl to live with me? Whatever, let's play. I'd either go with MikeCF's option or I'd call another girl from my rotation to come to my apartment, and when they're done, I'd just say "You can keep her bro".

[Yano]

I flat at tell my girlfriends this:

"You are mine until someone else fucks you and then you are theirs and I won't want you anymore."

Every time I have ever said that I always get a vice-grip hug from them.

I've never been cheated on to my knowledge.

The best vaccine to a cheating girlfriend is just to fuck her like it's your last fuck every time.

[Timoteo]

I smashed a long-time lover in the bed she shared with her husband, and chilled in his house. While he was out of the country...hahaha! Remember in "Minority Report," one of the guys pre-crime nailed was a husband that came home unexpectedly from work to find his wife fucking another dude in their bed.

Honestly, I don't know what I'd do if I walked in on that. It's the ultimate in disrespect from her, and disrespect and stupidity on the part of a guy for walking into another man's house. He should either bang at his own place, or spring for a room somewhere. Frankly, if you get caught in a spot like that, you get what you get.

[MidniteSpecial]

The whole reason approach anxiety even exists is because since the beginning of time men have been killed over women. You wanna approach my woman? Cool. Lets fight to the death for her and see how much you really want her. It's hard wired into us. Part of our DNA.

That was the way of the land for 200,000 years.

Alphas fucked the women, betas watched from the sidelines. Fuck with the wrong dudes woman and that meant your life.

I wish I could say what I would do in this situation but I can't. I never make any girl my girlfriend in the first place. I fuck them and than replace them with another one. I don't think any girl is really worth losing my 'freedom' for.

If a dude was physically assualting and raping my girl or any woman in my family that's a different story. I would black out on him and fight.

Bigger question here is why are you making a hoe into a housewife?

Or better yet why is your girl cheating on you in the first place?

Do your homework.

[Pola]

definitely you should tell her :"I see you are busy. Maybe later we can talk about the HIV positive result I got after having sex without condom with you. Also, for our future court representations,
the whole sex act is recorded on tape"

[El Padrone]

Some threads shouln't die. Closely correlated with the 'most jealousy is warranted thread'.

[tomtud]

IMHO the stupidest thing is to be violent. Alpha or beta who cares. Smartest is to get out of the situation and relationship with as minimum harm done to you physically and keep your belongings.
If there is any altercation odds are the police will come. Who knows how that ends up.

Simple, shake the guys hand and thank him for saving you from her. Then communicate with her via text or email (in order to prove that there were no threats) to separate the belongings in the shared residency.