On harem collapse: Which of Roissy's 16 commandments was forgotten?
My life is an open bar...
Quote: (02-08-2013 03:34 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
Quote: (02-07-2013 04:52 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:
what happens to players once they hit 40+.
not being the 45 y.o. guy at the end of the bar.
Quote: (02-07-2013 08:41 PM)bacan Wrote:
I wonder how many of us will end up as 40 year old losers...
So, what is a player to do after 40???
Get married? Settle down? Move to D.R. or SEA?
I expect to be banging women in their 20's when I am 40.
My dad fucked a 17yo when he was 44. I plan on doing the same.
I'm gonna start a blog for girls with daddy issues!
Quote: (02-07-2013 05:44 PM)Vicious Wrote:
The fact that you will never truly be pleased. You will always go for another notch, flag, position, experience etc
Even if you have a really good thing with someone you keep asking yourself if you can do better, and since you really can't scale these things the answer will always be yes.
It is somewhat paradoxically a lonely existence.
It can really eat on you.
Quote: (02-07-2013 06:42 PM)Samseau Wrote:
I think the worst part of being a player is knowing that you'll never be able to have it all.
Quote: (02-07-2013 04:32 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:
Gio and Mechanico-no one taught me these things about women, I think there was some inherent desire to have a deep, romantic relationship with a woman.
Quote: (02-07-2013 04:32 PM) Wrote:
that's not something that needs to be learned from a parent.
Quote: (02-07-2013 04:32 PM) Wrote:
no one taught me these things about women,
Quote: (02-07-2013 06:42 PM)Samseau Wrote:
I think the worst part of being a player is knowing that you'll never be able to have it all.
If you want hot girls, the likelihood of having a fufilling relationship is low.
But if you want a fulfilling relationship, the likelihood of having a hot girl is low.
Quote: (02-09-2013 12:34 PM)JJ Roberts Wrote:
Quote: (02-07-2013 01:41 PM)Roosh Wrote:
For me it's not the rejection, the work, the STDs, or the pregnancy scares. It's harem collapse.
I used to have this problem but I don't anymore.
Quote: (02-11-2013 01:20 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:
Quote: (02-07-2013 06:42 PM)Samseau Wrote:
I think the worst part of being a player is knowing that you'll never be able to have it all.
If you want hot girls, the likelihood of having a fufilling relationship is low.
But if you want a fulfilling relationship, the likelihood of having a hot girl is low.
So true. This realization was hard for me to swallow.
Quote: (02-11-2013 01:26 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
Quote: (02-11-2013 01:20 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:
Quote: (02-07-2013 06:42 PM)Samseau Wrote:
I think the worst part of being a player is knowing that you'll never be able to have it all.
If you want hot girls, the likelihood of having a fufilling relationship is low.
But if you want a fulfilling relationship, the likelihood of having a hot girl is low.
So true. This realization was hard for me to swallow.
What was hard for you to swallow???
The realization of what???
Love, sex, hot women, healthy relationships, sluts.
Which of these things do you think is off limits to you?
Quote: (02-11-2013 02:35 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:
Are you saying you disagree?
Quote: (02-07-2013 02:29 PM)scorpion Wrote:
Knowing that no matter how cool her personality is, how madly in love with me she appears to be, or how much I like her, that I can never fully trust or emotionally invest in a woman again.
Having repeatedly witnessed firsthand the incredible facility women have for deceiving their boyfriends while cheating with me, I know that I could easily be deceived as well.
The trust you give a woman will be the rope she hangs you with.
Quote: (02-11-2013 02:51 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
Quote: (02-11-2013 02:35 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:
Are you saying you disagree?
Yes. I believe a player can have it all.
Now that you have taken the red pill, don't you agree with me?
You can have it all.
What is out there in this world that is not available to you?
P.S. I did read your post, thank you for explaining to me what was hard to for you to swallow, that was interesting. However, just because you became a player doesn't mean that you can not have love AND hot sex with younger women.
Quote: (02-07-2013 02:16 PM)Nascimento Wrote:
The hardest part for me is handling the emotional roller coaster. Is this temporary, is it something that you just become resistant to over time?
Quote: (02-14-2013 11:32 AM)Krauser Wrote:
The worst part for me lately is how difficult it is to find good friends. Pre-game I had lots in common with my friends in terms of age, background, interests, world-view, day to day pattern. Everything was so simple. Now I can't share their world because they are married off with ageing ghastly women, spending all week at work and all weekend at Ikea or visiting the in-laws. It's like I escaped from the gulag, I won't go back.
The people you meet in Game are often weird. Lots of them are dickheads. Others are broken. There's fucked up community values. So you can enjoy the common interests but can't trust them the way you do with your blue-pill pillar-of-community friends.
Making friends who are dependable AND have game / like the life is hard. When you find one, it's even rarer and more important than pulling a 10 into your harem. But then people drift apart because Game makes you independent and to follow your dreams... which might be to another country... so the gang loses a member.
Quote: (02-14-2013 11:32 AM)Krauser Wrote:
The worst part for me lately is how difficult it is to find good friends. Pre-game I had lots in common with my friends in terms of age, background, interests, world-view, day to day pattern. Everything was so simple. Now I can't share their world because they are married off with ageing ghastly women, spending all week at work and all weekend at Ikea or visiting the in-laws. It's like I escaped from the gulag, I won't go back.
The people you meet in Game are often weird. Lots of them are dickheads. Others are broken. There's fucked up community values. So you can enjoy the common interests but can't trust them the way you do with your blue-pill pillar-of-community friends.
Making friends who are dependable AND have game / like the life is hard. When you find one, it's even rarer and more important than pulling a 10 into your harem. But then people drift apart because Game makes you independent and to follow your dreams... which might be to another country... so the gang loses a member.
Quote: (02-08-2013 10:52 PM)NewGamer Wrote:can't you just move on to women in their late 20's and 30's when you're 40?
Quote: (02-08-2013 03:34 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
Quote: (02-07-2013 04:52 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:
what happens to players once they hit 40+.
not being the 45 y.o. guy at the end of the bar.
Quote: (02-07-2013 08:41 PM)bacan Wrote:
I wonder how many of us will end up as 40 year old losers...
So, what is a player to do after 40???
Get married? Settle down? Move to D.R. or SEA?
I expect to be banging women in their 20's when I am 40.
My dad fucked a 17yo when he was 44. I plan on doing the same.
I'm gonna start a blog for girls with daddy issues!
Get married but never settle down!
Quote: (02-11-2013 04:32 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:
I get where you're coming from, but I don't completely agree with you.
Quote: (02-11-2013 04:32 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:
I look at game as a platonic form. It's an ideal that we aspire to, but it ultimately doesn't always work. The concepts and core lessons of game are spot on, but the other reality is that some of us have a first down on the 5th yard line when we come to game but others haven't even put their cleats on yet. Some guys are square jawed muscular charismatic cowboys and some are overweight spergs. To say that the sperg can have it all like the cowboy because of game is to set someone up for a big disappointment.
Quote: (02-11-2013 04:32 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:
I don't think I can have it all until I actually become a high value, high status man.
Quote: (02-11-2013 04:32 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:
I'm 25. I love the fact that I have a solid 15 years to game, gain experience with women, and then maximize my chances at landing a sexually as well as emotionally satisfying relationship with a younger woman.
Quote: (02-11-2013 04:32 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:
But the irony is if I do, that just validating the core principles of game.
Quote: (02-11-2013 04:32 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:
I know that hypergamy is my enemy
Quote: (02-11-2013 04:32 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:
All the guys who get it "all" are usually famous, powerful, good looking, in other words guys who got a head start because they're naturally alpha or just really fucking lucky in some regard.
Quote: (02-11-2013 04:32 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:
Genuine desire for a man from a hot woman is something that will be out of reach for most men