Quote: (02-20-2013 02:23 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
Interesting stuff.
Sounds like you are on a good career path. That is more important then girls. You can always be a lawyer who plays music on the side. Don't ignore your artistic passions.
The other thing I want to tell you is this...
Don't let the "manosphere" shape your perspective. The manosphere is mostly guys who are unsuccessful with women. Their perspective is jaded. Many are bitter and butthurt. Many have grown to hate women because women don't like them. Don't allow these types to influence you.
Gain real world experience off the computer. Then, come to your own conclusions.
As you know, most people are unhappy, obese, and beta. You don't wanna be like "most people". You wanna be better then "most people". So, you have to think and act a little differently then "most people".
For most of my life, people have been trying to convince me that "the glass was half empty". I never argued. I just said, "more water for me", and took the entire glass for myself. If that makes sense..
The manosphere does sometimes reek of spergs and sour grapes. I've felt pretty bitter about my experiences with women in my life, that's for sure. I think most of us come here feeling pretty bitter and pissed off, and that's understandable. But ultimately its counterproductive and won't help you get any pussy.
The main lesson of the manosphere that I've taken so far, and what I think is the most important one, is just how much the culture that I was raised in ( at home, in school, and in greater society in general) have emasculated me. I felt like I was going nowhere in my life after I graduated college ( not that I felt particularly great in school), and the manosphere helped me realize that the core reason for that was that I was disconnected from my masculinity. "Game" is about finding your inner man and letting him come out in your interactions with women, instead of continuing with the sniveling beta bullshit most of us have been acculturated to using.