First of all, let's not attack this guy, he raises a legitimate question that needs to be addressed.
Thing is, it depends on what you're looking for and what kind of man you are. If you're the kind of guy who doesn't plan to make a family and you want to party, travel, have fun for the rest of your life, then whether the woman is a slut or not won't change a damn thing for you. The problem starts when you want to form serious relationships with them, meaning family and kids. Meaning,
spending the rest of your life with the damn girl. The dynamic completely changes once you do that. Things that you accepted at first will really bother you. Sure, at the inital stage, when "love" and novelty are still strong, things are going to be fine. But when these go, and when you get to the point where every relationship needs work, you will see a huge difference between a "slut" vs a good girl.
Quote: (01-16-2013 07:46 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:
I mean, did the 13th dick change her brain chemistry? Or was it the 3rd? Seriously, I'm trying to understand your perspective here.
Slut brain vs good girl thinking is so different. Most of the time :
Good girls love you more and everything is new to them. Sluts are unimpressed.
Good girls are emotionaly available and will connect on a deeper level. Sluts are more reserved and cautious and have a thick skin.
Good girls will work very hard to fix a relationship. Sluts are less patient and are ready to leave at the first sign of trouble.
Good girls are more innocent and less dangerous. Sluts are more cunning and manipulative.
Good girls are generally more family oriented and religious. Sluts wake up at 30 years old.
More specifically, sluts have no idea how to be good girlfriends. They're too used having plan B's hovering around them in case shit happens, too used to be with a guy who doesn't give a shit, too used to jealousy ploys and manipulation. They will bring this dynamic to your family, and when you come back home from a hard day of work, another evening of work will be starting. This will wear you down because you can't be a superstar
all the time.