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12-30-2012, 05:37 AM
Miss chocolate probably needs a good fuck and then she will be quiet.
Instead of worrying about enabling men to be alpha, why don't you show us a picture of your pussy with "soup" written next to it in red mascara?
Or at least show us a picture of you putting a chocolate birthday cake into your pussy with "soup" written on a piece of paper next to your pussy.
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12-30-2012, 06:52 AM
Funny that women bitch about men not choosing yet love to criticize their choices day in and day out. To me mrs chocolate revealed herself when she mentioned "I love modern girl power" as someone who wants to have her cake and eat it, too. Either you want power which comes with responsibility or you expect to be led and then shut up instead of complaining about where he leads you.
This is why I dislike going to semi-feminized societies, they are the worst of both worlds. In Asia girls will let you lead and not complain. In western Europe they "woman up" and offer input and opinion, accepting responsibility. In modern Brazil they want to be "strong and equal" while being pampered like a princess and critical of men. I will miss the beach in Brazil but more than likely will not return, the place has become a dump with western prices, entitled attitudes and hypocritical girls. Better to live in NAmerica or Europe for work and reason, go to Asia for feminine women.
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12-30-2012, 12:19 PM
Gender roles and Gender Equality are contradictory social philosophies. pick one, because you can’t have both. Under the gender role philosophy it is my role to stand up and let you sit down on a crowded bus, under the Gender Equality philosophy you ought to stand up on a crowded bus because I got here first. Under Gender Role I should pay for the date. Under Gender Equality: We pay for our own meals. Gender Role: It is mainly my job to be the provider in the house hold. Gender Equality: Get a damn job and pay half the bills. Be consistent and stop wavering between the two philosophies depending on which one is most beneficial to you at the time.
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12-30-2012, 03:17 PM
Miss C, from everything you've said in this site over the past few years, it sounds like have trouble finding guys, so maybe be a bit more lenient on him. Just because he isn't taking charge now doesn't mean he can't learn. You just may have to drop some hints. Way back in the day before I learned about game, I was an uber beta and got blown out by a girl I was crazy about for what is probably the same reasons you are saying here.
In retrospect, she was dropping hints left and right that she wanted me to be more assertive but I was just too clueless at the time to act on it. And she bailed. But the thing is, I'd have actually made a decent guy for her, but she couldn't get past that. It might not be worth it if he has other good qualities that make up for it. I'm assuming you are looking for a serious guy and don't want to go into your 30s single.
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12-30-2012, 05:16 PM
Speakeasy, do you propose men change their way of being to please girls who "drop hints" as to what behavior they want? Talk about female imperative. If You lead just because she asks you to do so you do not really lead, you do as she says...
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12-30-2012, 10:02 PM
its really sad when someone like Ms. C who studies game and does not even recognize why men act that way. Ms. C cannot claim ignorance on this.
So Ms. C judgement is swift and cold, guilty without trial or review.
Guilty for being a nice guy...the very men women created.
Ms. C, Those guys don't know any better, like Speak said.
Is it there fault? Damn if you don't, damn if you do...
How does a guy really win in dating,
Ms. C should be more compassionate, and show some empathy.
At least these guys like her and treat her well, would she rather have someone play games with her and than cheat on her.
Women, come on....decide what you want, its okay to like players just be honest with yourself....
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12-31-2012, 02:55 AM
samseau: so I hate women because I think a man should not change his persona simply to please them? You throw the " misogyny hammer" at me? You try to shame me with masturbation remarks because we disagree?I feel like I am on jizz-a-bell..
To address your point, sure game works but men should pick it up for their own benefit and to help themselves, not be nagged into it by a female and adopt the selective part she likes like a trained puppy.
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12-31-2012, 12:07 PM
@Asaxon: Why are you so angry? What was her name?
@jerome: This nice guy thing... I can asure you that not every men that passed by was kind or even good to me. But this subject is something else. Some guys are just lazy, agressive (in words, attitude).
@speakeasy: I understand that we are an anxious and insecure generation/society, and I don't expect a super macho men by my side. I can be tolerant, I have been for too long I guess. I was dating a guy who was uneducated (a terrible high school), probably earned less than I do, he had no many manners (how to eat, talk in public) and all of this wasn't bothering me, in fact, he was great and I miss him in part. Once, he asked me help to choose a prep school. I felt it was weird, because if in my position I would do it by myself. But I helped him without say MAN UP or something alike. My guess is that he was wondering what was I doing with him instead of enjoy.
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12-31-2012, 12:12 PM
Mrs chocolate: nice ad hominem. Got no arguments so pulling out personal insults, eh? Says a lot about yourself.
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12-31-2012, 12:34 PM
Mrs. C, why don't you become an au pere and head on over to the DC area. I guarantee you that there are guys here that will tell you just what to do without asking your opinion.
Bottom line is, what actions are you actually going to take to get what you want? My suggestion is date older guys.
Also, just because Mrs. C is the only woman allowed to post here, doesn't really mean she has internalized what we talk about. I think it's a lot harder for women to be self-critical because of their solipsistic nature; it would be an attack on her self.
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12-31-2012, 04:50 PM
Samseau, why the hyperbole? I never stated anything close to what you claim ( not do anything for a woman ever). I stand by my point as made above: leadership stems from an inner attitude, not female-demanded roleplay.
I am not sure why you feel the need to get negative and be in attack mode (masturbation, " I don't give a rat's ass") in this thread but won't speculate on what exactly riles you up so much that you resort to these tactics.
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01-01-2013, 12:50 PM
Quote: (12-31-2012 12:34 PM)Menace Wrote:
Mrs. C, why don't you become an au pere and head on over to the DC area. I guarantee you that there are guys here that will tell you just what to do without asking your opinion.
Bottom line is, what actions are you actually going to take to get what you want? My suggestion is date older guys.
Also, just because Mrs. C is the only woman allowed to post here, doesn't really mean she has internalized what we talk about. I think it's a lot harder for women to be self-critical because of their solipsistic nature; it would be an attack on her self.
I will date one if possible and I will post the results. Although I think some 40s men have been acting like 20s, because your life experiences and self conscious growth dictates your maturity.
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01-01-2013, 02:53 PM
Quote: (01-01-2013 12:50 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:
Quote: (12-31-2012 12:34 PM)Menace Wrote:
Mrs. C, why don't you become an au pere and head on over to the DC area. I guarantee you that there are guys here that will tell you just what to do without asking your opinion.
Bottom line is, what actions are you actually going to take to get what you want? My suggestion is date older guys.
Also, just because Mrs. C is the only woman allowed to post here, doesn't really mean she has internalized what we talk about. I think it's a lot harder for women to be self-critical because of their solipsistic nature; it would be an attack on her self.
I will date one if possible and I will post the results. Although I think some 40s men have been acting like 20s, because your life experiences and self conscious growth dictates your maturity.
Mrs. C, I understand you are facing some immature men and lazy men versus good guys.
My advice is learn to filter out men before going on dates, to save time and mental frustration.
For example ask some specific questions that will disqualify them.
I filter out girls that are not interested in sex or romance. So I don't waste my time texting them or calling them....that way I can only focus on girls that are serious about romance.
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01-01-2013, 03:16 PM
Still....
There is NO official book, document or law that determines who is a good guy, bad guy or al...al...al...aww dammit, I'll say it, alpha or be....be...be...aww dammit, I'll say it, beta. All of this sh*t is very subjective and it goes back to whatever work for that INDIVIDUAL guy.
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01-01-2013, 03:57 PM
Quote: (01-01-2013 03:16 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:
Still....
There is NO official book, document or law that determines who is a good guy, bad guy or al...al...al...aww dammit, I'll say it, alpha or be....be...be...aww dammit, I'll say it, beta. All of this sh*t is very subjective and it goes back to whatever work for that INDIVIDUAL guy.
That is why it is up to her to filter it out.....Only she knows what she wants , and only she can filter out what she wants and not waste her time...
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01-02-2013, 12:26 PM
Quote: (01-01-2013 03:57 PM)jerome Wrote:
Quote: (01-01-2013 03:16 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:
Still....
There is NO official book, document or law that determines who is a good guy, bad guy or al...al...al...aww dammit, I'll say it, alpha or be....be...be...aww dammit, I'll say it, beta. All of this sh*t is very subjective and it goes back to whatever work for that INDIVIDUAL guy.
That is why it is up to her to filter it out.....Only she knows what she wants , and only she can filter out what she wants and not waste her time...
Even filtering guys some features slip in front of you. And by restricting too much you can miss meet someone that you will like(= picking and ageing like a hoarder cat woman) and have no idea that you could because you didn't let yourself doing so. I think there is a difference between what you want and what you need.
I want a less insecure person. But maybe I needed a more patient guy to deal with my anxiety of seeing him making his own decisions and so on. The effect in both cases can be the same, but in the second case, I realize my weakness is in the way too. I am no perfect nor intend to be.
Anyway, despite my flaws, I put something on the table. Too bad and too sad for the ones who doesn't.
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01-02-2013, 07:59 PM
Quote: (12-29-2012 04:21 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:
Well I hate the lack of effort. I dress myself, I buy decent undies, hair and nails done. I read books, I watch movies, in order to follow conversations.
And then... You can't pick the damn restaurant ONCE. NOT ALWAYS, ONCE.
How about just saying something to that effect directly to him?
Something like, "I've had a long day of making every decision, I could use someone else to take charge right now and pick something." Then you can also add in the things you don't want to do (allergic, had it for lunch, etc)
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01-03-2013, 04:03 AM
Aside from any personal connections that Roosh has with Mrs. Chocolate, how is she different from other women?
What makes her so special that she is the only woman who is allowed to post here?
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01-03-2013, 04:21 AM
soup, I wonder myself! This thread is a pretty good depiction of some female behaviors people on here claim to despise and see through but magically accept now (name calling, shaming, wanting her cake and eat it, too, "grrrl power" remarks). There is even some whiteknighting in here. Very curious.
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01-03-2013, 01:42 PM
Solomon's Dating Dilemma...
If a woman has to tell you she wants you to be dominant - and you do it - you are still doing what you are told which automatically means that you are not dominant and that you don't "get it".