[jasond]

Rollo Tomassi also had an interesting article concerning asian guys in the global sexual marketplace. Some of you might find it interesting:

https://therationalmale.com/2019/02/27/t...rketplace/

[StrikeBack]

I might be an anomaly then because Swedish and German girls like me. Especially Swedish girls, maybe because many are introverts and I happen to do very well with those regardless of ethnicity. I know some AMWF couples where the girl is German, and also slender and feminine, very rare in that country. Actually have you ever thought that Asian guys do not like Germanic girls in general because they tend to be a bit butch? It's not always about the girls not liking Asian guys, you know. If that's your mentality, you might need to reassess your Inner Game.

We Asians are very diverse, you can't claim that some countries are terrible for us all, if you don't get laid there. Tall_asian_guy is tall and has the skinny kpop look going for him, which I think is popular in EE right now, but may not work elsewhere. The girls I've dated, my wife included, would make fun of his skinny pants, squat-less legs and non-existent beard, and those have nothing to do with him being Asian. The girls he's dated may not like me because I'm short, hairy, muscular, have a massive beard and a permanent boss grin.

[bigblubber]

wow, I like the confidence coming from some of you. I would love to get some love from a swedish girl.

We should set up a meeting in sweden, and you can show us how its done.

[Tall_asian_guy]

(03-12-2019 08:43 PM)StrikeBack Wrote:  

I might be an anomaly then because Swedish and German girls like me. Especially Swedish girls, maybe because many are introverts and I happen to do very well with those regardless of ethnicity. I know some AMWF couples where the girl is German, and also slender and feminine, very rare in that country. Actually have you ever thought that Asian guys do not like Germanic girls in general because they tend to be a bit butch? It's not always about the girls not liking Asian guys, you know. If that's your mentality, you might need to reassess your Inner Game.

We Asians are very diverse, you can't claim that some countries are terrible for us all, if you don't get laid there. Tall_asian_guy is tall and has the skinny kpop look going for him, which I think is popular in EE right now, but may not work elsewhere. The girls I've dated, my wife included, would make fun of his skinny pants, squat-less legs and non-existent beard, and those have nothing to do with him being Asian. The girls he's dated may not like me because I'm short, hairy, muscular, have a massive beard and a permanent boss grin.

Yeah I know, there are some Swedish and German girls who likes Asians, my ex was a tall, slender, and feminine blonde German girl. But in general Germanic girls are like you said very butchy and masculine. I myself don't like the average girl in Sweden. I only like the top 10% which are hard to get. Sweden's top 10% is equivalent to top 20-30% in Poland, which is easier to get.

[croquet]

Wow so much controversy lately. Ok here's how it breaks down.

Style can get girls. Muscles can get girls. With both you will do better.

Stop thinking about which place is the best and work on yourself. That way you can get girls in any place.

[Tall_asian_guy]

(03-13-2019 05:42 AM)croquet Wrote:  

Wow so much controversy lately. Ok here's how it breaks down.

Style can get girls. Muscles can get girls. With both you will do better.

Stop thinking about which place is the best and work on yourself. That way you can get girls in any place.

Of course, but what I'm saying is that with the same effort you will do better in Poland than Sweden. You need to try harder in Sweden to get the same quality of girls due to lower quality of girls in Sweden thus leading to higher competition of the smaller portion of high quality girls compared to Poland. Sure everyone can easily get a 5/10 in Sweden but why do do it when you easily can get a 7/10 in Poland for the same effort?

[croquet]

^

I don't disagree with you, if I was to base in Europe 1st place contender is Poland by far based on my experience.

However in real life people can't just up and go to another part of the world. Therefore they can and should only work on themselves.

That is my point.

[worldtraveler3]

Latin countries for Asian dudes:

https://youtu.be/xEqGzZOHfcQ

Now , compare this with your Asian girl in SF

[JWLZG]

(03-13-2019 05:20 AM)Tall_asian_guy Wrote:  

(03-12-2019 08:43 PM)StrikeBack Wrote:  

I might be an anomaly then because Swedish and German girls like me. Especially Swedish girls, maybe because many are introverts and I happen to do very well with those regardless of ethnicity. I know some AMWF couples where the girl is German, and also slender and feminine, very rare in that country. Actually have you ever thought that Asian guys do not like Germanic girls in general because they tend to be a bit butch? It's not always about the girls not liking Asian guys, you know. If that's your mentality, you might need to reassess your Inner Game.

We Asians are very diverse, you can't claim that some countries are terrible for us all, if you don't get laid there. Tall_asian_guy is tall and has the skinny kpop look going for him, which I think is popular in EE right now, but may not work elsewhere. The girls I've dated, my wife included, would make fun of his skinny pants, squat-less legs and non-existent beard, and those have nothing to do with him being Asian. The girls he's dated may not like me because I'm short, hairy, muscular, have a massive beard and a permanent boss grin.

Yeah I know, there are some Swedish and German girls who likes Asians, my ex was a tall, slender, and feminine blonde German girl. But in general Germanic girls are like you said very butchy and masculine. I myself don't like the average girl in Sweden. I only like the top 10% which are hard to get. Sweden's top 10% is equivalent to top 20-30% in Poland, which is easier to get.

"Butch" and "Bitchy" aren't the same words, I think you might've gotten them mixed up.

You keep harping on and on about Poland, why don't you back up your statements by describing your runaway collection of easy notches in Poland. Otherwise, it's hard to believe a single shred of what you've been saying. The world doesn't work in such polarised terms as Sweden bad, Poland good.

[Brosemite]

(03-12-2019 08:16 PM)jasond Wrote:  

Lol at these big ballers like JWLZG and Brosemite who think girls are the same everywhere, and guys just need to up their game. I've traveled and lived in 30+ countries and there are big cultural differences that will affect your success.

Haha thanks for the shout out as a "big baller."

Not quite at your level yet..but I've been to 24 different countries while taking the time to develop literacy in 3 languages with semi-fluency in another.

I primarily speak from my experiences having an active life in high school, college, and immediately after graduating as a young professional. Even dated quite a bit outside of campus during the waning days of my undergrad too. As mentioned in another thread, I will never be able to hold a finger on what you've accomplished academically and in your career but was always surrounded by higher quality social/female interaction opportunities opposed to being bottled up in a heavily male atmosphere of Silicon Valley after college. Socializing, dating, or "gaming" as everyone puts it wasn't prolonged till years after my career started in other words.

If you've read my previous posts, it's essentially sums up my travels & different tendencies of females of various countries but also mentioned that not everywhere within the US is the same as well.

Much like many guys on this forum, I've had my share of successes not to mention failures as well. Have had the advantages of benefitting off different social circles while falling short due to not having the comfort of being in the immediate spheres of influences regarding certain gals too which guys can't really take too personally either.

In reference to observing my surroundings, these are some influential factors that shape my overall thought process of social situations:

1) I grew up half Taiwanese and half Vietnamese as the communication patterns of my parents were quite different. Being close to relatives from both sides of the equation, I had to absorb two different cultures while straying away from interaction was unfortunately perceived as disrespect. Disrespect = disciplinary consequences; we're all Asian here so use your imagination....

2) As a son of immigrants from two different cultures being raised in the west, I often had to not just perform many functions but also spoke on behalf of my parents in many different situations. I didn't do it as frequently as my older sister but had my fair share of the responsibility. I had to absorb the viewpoints of my parents & while pre-maturely developing an understanding of how adults outside of the Asian bubble interacted while touching the buttons of others correctly; that process continues till this day.

It's as if I've always been in "sales" for the sake of family members & myself even before actually engaging in the profession years later.

3) I used to take theater classes for fun while in college and afterwards too. My time in that venture entailed more than just regurgitating memorized scripts as endless hours were spent learning about human tendencies & knowing how to act accordingly as a result of it.

4) Playing team sports & always engaging in extra-curricular activities exposed me to the benefits yet also distaste of human tendencies in the past. Big key was that I had terrific takeaways & knew how to evolve as a result of the positives & negatives of those experiences in the past.

You seem like the guy who's very particular about what suits you best minus the unwillingness to adapt to the conditions. Unfortunately, it's obviously not working with all these whiny threads posted in the last few years.

(^Notice I said "unwillingness" & not "ability;" you're a smart guy who can figure it out)

Here's a last tidbit.

[Don't physically identify other members -Mod]

This is true for many but especially critical for most Asian guys as having the right type of haircut brings out the best of your facial features.

In other words, grow it out and only get scissor cuts minus buzzing off the sides. I gave this advice to Dalaran years back as he was able to consequently get more IOIs from gals.

You have my personal contact info so shoot me a DM if you're willing to talk