Quote: (10-02-2012 05:25 PM)murrb Wrote:
While in Thailand say you meet a nice thai girl you like and start hanging out are you always expected to pay for everything? Do all the women from thailand just look at white tourists as a paycheck now?
I have been on thaifriendly and wasn't sure if alot of the girls on there are just gaming you for a paycheck or actually might like you?
This is true for every single Thai girl in the history of earth.
But seriously, I've had girls from Thai friendly offer to split the bill, and I've had girls who didn't offer. Never had a girl where I felt she looked at me like a paycheck though. Of course, I am young, white and handsome. If you are old and fat, you may have a different experience.
One of my regulars who I met on TF even spent about 600baht on pizza and refused to take any money for it. She makes about 9,000 baht a month. Although, I suspect she had one or two dudes back in their home countries sending her cash. So, she definitely viewed THEM as a paycheck.
In 9ish months in Thailand, I never felt like any girl was using me for my money.
I did however have one girl steal about 1,500 baht from me. This chick was a school teacher at an international school, kindergarten I believe, spoke fluent English, went to a good University, and her family had money. She stole money from me because she's a piece of shit, not because I'm white, and not because she actaully needed it. I met her at an expat bar in Silom, not online.
I would say for a young, good looking guy, most chicks on TF are looking to have a bit of fun and get laid. Not so much looking for a paycheck.