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#26

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Quote: (10-06-2012 02:00 AM)murrb Wrote:  

What do you think about the girl who wont show her face and is trying to play hard to get? That seems out of character compared to all the other ones I talked to.

You are looking for girls who are COOPERATIVE and DO WHAT YOU WANT.

If for any reason they don't--next.

Never believe excuses.
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#27

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I was reading on lonely planet forums and a few people were saying that all the thai women will charge you no matter what.

How can you make it clear ahead of time that you aren't here to pay for sex without being a total asshole?

LOL @ Lonely Planet. How can it be true that ALL Thai women will charge you for sex, those people have obviously only hung around with hookers. Obviously not every girl in Thailand is a pro. The majority are NOT.

You seriously don't want to be mentioning paying for sex to any of the girls you're trying to bang, soon as that is mentioned they'll assume you are a sex tourist and if they are a 'good' girl they will forget all about you, they get enough creepy sex tourists sending them messages as it is.

As for the girl not showing her face, probably a ladyboy. Don't even bother. Delete from skype. There's no shortage of cute, willing, girls on TF.
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#28

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Quote: (10-06-2012 07:39 AM)IainMuirs Wrote:  

LOL @ Lonely Planet. How can it be true that ALL Thai women will charge you for sex, those people have obviously only hung around with hookers. Obviously not every girl in Thailand is a pro. The majority are NOT.

You seriously don't want to be mentioning paying for sex to any of the girls you're trying to bang, soon as that is mentioned they'll assume you are a sex tourist and if they are a 'good' girl they will forget all about you, they get enough creepy sex tourists sending them messages as it is.

As for the girl not showing her face, probably a ladyboy. Don't even bother. Delete from skype. There's no shortage of cute, willing, girls on TF.

The sad fact is that for most people, Thailand only consists of lower Sukhumvit, Patong, Padpong, and Pattaya. A whole country rolled up into 4 shitholes lol.
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#29

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Quote: (10-06-2012 01:31 PM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Quote: (10-06-2012 07:39 AM)IainMuirs Wrote:  

LOL @ Lonely Planet. How can it be true that ALL Thai women will charge you for sex, those people have obviously only hung around with hookers. Obviously not every girl in Thailand is a pro. The majority are NOT.

You seriously don't want to be mentioning paying for sex to any of the girls you're trying to bang, soon as that is mentioned they'll assume you are a sex tourist and if they are a 'good' girl they will forget all about you, they get enough creepy sex tourists sending them messages as it is.

As for the girl not showing her face, probably a ladyboy. Don't even bother. Delete from skype. There's no shortage of cute, willing, girls on TF.

The sad fact is that for most people, Thailand only consists of lower Sukhumvit, Patong, Padpong, and Pattaya. A whole country rolled up into 4 shitholes lol.

I bought a one way ticket so I should be getting off the tourist trail as much as possible.

Do you rent an apartment rionomad and if so is there any shortcuts to making a border run every 15 or 30 days?
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#30

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How long do you plan to stay? You can get a tourist visa, or double entry tourist visa, assuming you are American. Not sure for other countries. A tourist visa will allow you to stay up to 90 days without leaving the country. With a double entry, you can stay for 6 months, but have to leave the country after 3 months.

I rent an apartment when I am there. Try to get something by a BTS stop. Preferably not too far out on the BTS. THonglor, Ekkamai, Victory Monument, On Nut, etc. Or somewhere on the Silom line.
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#31

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Quote: (10-06-2012 01:55 PM)RioNomad Wrote:  

How long do you plan to stay? You can get a tourist visa, or double entry tourist visa, assuming you are American. Not sure for other countries. A tourist visa will allow you to stay up to 90 days without leaving the country. With a double entry, you can stay for 6 months, but have to leave the country after 3 months.

I rent an apartment when I am there. Try to get something by a BTS stop. Preferably not too far out on the BTS. THonglor, Ekkamai, Victory Monument, On Nut, etc. Or somewhere on the Silom line.

I will stay until I get bored or my money runs out. I think I will definately apply for the 3 month tourist visa.

I think I want to go to a few spots and stay for a month each. Start at BKK then go somewhere near the beach with muay thai for a month and than maybe Chiang Mai.
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#32

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To the OP:
I found that the ones who work a job will often offer to pay depending on how frequently you see them. From my experience the ones who have jobs and are looking for more than one or two nights of fun above their pay grade work hard to distinguish themselves from greedy Thai women and one way they do this is by paying especially when you invite them out.

If you ask a Thai girl out, especially if you have not know or long or she gets the impression that you will not be around for long, expect to pick up the check. If she invites you out with her friends then you should pretty much demand to split the check (obviously covering her share and yours). If she plays stupid then excuse yourself and leave because when Thais go out as group from what I have seen 9/10 the check is split between everyone.
Quote: (10-04-2012 11:31 AM)IainMuirs Wrote:  

A lot of Thai girls don't really seem to have any interests or hobbies. You ask them what they like to do and it's the same response from everyone of them "shopping, movies, hanging with friends, internet". They tend to only like Thai food, with Korean or Japanese being the exception. They are quite clueless about what going on outside of Thailand...even inside of Thailand sometimes.
Many Thais are literally ignorant. I was with a buddy who teaches English once and his Thai friend was telling us that they don't learn things like geography and world history in lower and middle school.

They do have hobbies and interests, many just have trouble communicating them to non-Thai speakers and to be honest most of their interests would probably bore the shit out of non-Thais anyway. I often found myself wondering if some of the Thai girls I met stopped developing mentally at the age of 14 because conversations with them sometimes reminded me of conversations I had with girls in high school.
Quote: (10-06-2012 01:46 AM)murrb Wrote:  

I was reading on lonely planet forums and a few people were saying that all the thai women will charge you no matter what.

How can you make it clear ahead of time that you aren't here to pay for sex without being a total asshole?
If you don't want to pay for sex then stay away from venues that are filled with prostitutes and freelancers. I've heard tons of stories about guys saying that they did not know a woman was going to ask for money, but I find most of them to be bullshit. If you exercise some common sense it will be pretty clear when she expects a transaction. For example, if she barely speak English and is willing to leave with you after meeting in a club and knowing you for 5 minutes then alarm bells should go off because not matter what you think of your game that's not what won her over.

I did not try the Thai dating sites but talked to tons of guys who told me to: avoid the free sites, be wary of any woman who shows too much interest too quickly and don't be afraid to drop a chick who gives you a weird feeling.
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#33

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Quote: (10-06-2012 11:38 PM)DoctaWho Wrote:  

To the OP:
I found that the ones who work a job will often offer to pay depending on how frequently you see them. From my experience the ones who have jobs and are looking for more than one or two nights of fun above their pay grade work hard to distinguish themselves from greedy Thai women and one way they do this is by paying especially when you invite them out.

If you ask a Thai girl out, especially if you have not know or long or she gets the impression that you will not be around for long, expect to pick up the check. If she invites you out with her friends then you should pretty much demand to split the check (obviously covering her share and yours). If she plays stupid then excuse yourself and leave because when Thais go out as group from what I have seen 9/10 the check is split between everyone.

You will be expected to cover the bill for everyone. If a group of Thai girls go out, they may split the check. However, if a mixed group of Thais go out, the oldest Thai is expected to pay. If he doesn't/can't it is a loss of face. Like he isn't successful because he's the oldest, and couldn't afford to pay for everyone.

I met a girl for a date from TF and she brought along 3 friends without telling me. I didn't pay for all of them because that is something I would never do in the US. After they left, my bartender friend who is Thai told me I was expected to pay for them, and that it was a loss of face for the girl. Basically in their eyes I looked like a broke loser who couldn't afford to pay. Still ended up banging the chick a few times because my buddy told me to text her and tell her I didn't know that was expected.
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#34

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The rule is actually that if someone is your guest then you should pay for them. So if you invite someone out then you pay the bill (though not all Thais adhere to this and will spilt 50/50 on dates) so if she invites you out with her friends you should not really have to pay, as you are their guest. I've often went out with a group of Thais and had them insist they would pay for my drinks because I'm the guest or we've just split the bill evenly. I've never been invited out by a group or gone to meet a girl who's been with friends and been expected to pick up the tab for all of them. It's not all black and white but generally if someone is your guest then you pay for them. Most of the younger Thais are a bit more modern and progressive than this and wouldn't assume that just because you are a foreigner that you will pay, any that do are chancing their luck and probably looking for a free night out. Who brings friends on dates anyway?

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For example, if she barely speak English and is willing to leave with you after meeting in a club and knowing you for 5 minutes then alarm bells should go off because not matter what you think of your game that's not what won her over.

Exactly. This is not Thai culture, women don't tend to have ONS with strangers met in clubs, their friends would exile them for going off and fucking foreigners. That's what whores do. Any guy who says he didn't know the girl was a pro is clueless, a quick look around the club would tell you that - it will be fixed with lots of farang, many of them older sex tourists, there would be local girls but no local men. Easy.
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#35

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It also seems that about every other thai girl I talk to has just gotten her heart broken by a farang and is on the rebound. haha
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#36

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The ones on the dating sites tend to have had foreign boyfriends before and have probably been pumped and dumped by a few farang since. You're best to target the newer girls to the site who are more naive.

The girls hooking up with foreigners are often the ones that no local guys want (which in Thailand isn't always bad, I like dark skinned girls the Thai guys don't) or they've lived abroad, had a taste of foreigners (who on the whole are much more forward and aggressive - in a good way) than the local guys. A lot of the Thai girls I fucked said to me the next day they can't actually believe that the night before happened as they've never met a guy and had sex with him the same night and I can quite believe it. Seems that when Thais like each other they date for weeks / months before sex happens and any foreigners they've known have probably been too pussy to take the lead which you have to do with Thai girls. Lead and they will follow.
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#37

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Dead on IainMuirs. To all the guys who complain about Thai girls expect you to pay for everything and demand a lot, you either getting chumped or lack game. I banged many thai girls, same day or night, and many without even buying them a drink, coffee or meal. Just stay away from the whores...
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#38

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Just how prevalent are ladyboys in Thailand? Are they mainly found where all the whores hang out, or do they also hang out in regular clubs?

That's one of the main things that freaks me out about my upcoming trip to SE Asia, if I ever accidentally hooked up with one, I don't know what would happen but I imagine it would be something like what Begby did in Trainspotting when it happened to him.
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#39

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Quote: (10-07-2012 09:27 PM)scotian Wrote:  

Just how prevalent are ladyboys in Thailand? Are they mainly found where all the whores hang out, or do they also hang out in regular clubs?

That's one of the main things that freaks me out about my upcoming trip to SE Asia, if I ever accidentally hooked up with one, I don't know what would happen but I imagine it would be something like what Begby did in Trainspotting when it happened to him.

I was reading another blog about thailand and the guy said a good rule of thumb is the drunker you are the shorter the girl should be just to be safe.
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#40

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Quote: (10-07-2012 09:27 PM)scotian Wrote:  

Just how prevalent are ladyboys in Thailand? Are they mainly found where all the whores hang out, or do they also hang out in regular clubs?

That's one of the main things that freaks me out about my upcoming trip to SE Asia, if I ever accidentally hooked up with one, I don't know what would happen but I imagine it would be something like what Begby did in Trainspotting when it happened to him.

It's mostly a non issue. After a week or two they are easy to spot. You are very unlikely to get tricked, unless you secretly want to.

I owe you a PM, too.
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#41

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I joined the site Dating in Asia a couple of hours ago and have been checking out some profiles and low and behold the majority of the ones I clicked on have been ladyboys! I don't know what I'm going to do when I get over there, make every girl I meet show me her beaver before I escalate?

I'll probably start out slow and give myself a few days to get used to being in Thailand and of course, develop a sense for spotting a tranny. Man, the thought of even touching a chick with a dick makes me sick.
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#42

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Quote: (10-07-2012 09:48 PM)scotian Wrote:  

I joined the site Dating in Asia a couple of hours ago and have been checking out some profiles and low and behold the majority of the ones I clicked on have been ladyboys! I don't know what I'm going to do when I get over there, make every girl I meet show me her beaver before I escalate?

I'll probably start out slow and give myself a few days to get used to being in Thailand and of course, develop a sense for spotting a tranny. Man, the thought of even touching a chick with a dick makes me sick.

You are way over thinking this, bro. Outside of the tourist areas, there really isn't that many. And if you do approach one, you will be able to tell something is off. 95%+ of the girls in the club will be girls, not ladyboys. I approached 3 ladyboys in 9 months total in Thailand, and I could tell within 30 seconds that I made a mistake.

It really isn't an issue.
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#43

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Quote: (10-07-2012 09:56 PM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2012 09:48 PM)scotian Wrote:  

I joined the site Dating in Asia a couple of hours ago and have been checking out some profiles and low and behold the majority of the ones I clicked on have been ladyboys! I don't know what I'm going to do when I get over there, make every girl I meet show me her beaver before I escalate?

I'll probably start out slow and give myself a few days to get used to being in Thailand and of course, develop a sense for spotting a tranny. Man, the thought of even touching a chick with a dick makes me sick.

You are way over thinking this, bro. Outside of the tourist areas, there really isn't that many. And if you do approach one, you will be able to tell something is off. 95%+ of the girls in the club will be girls, not ladyboys. I approached 3 ladyboys in 9 months total in Thailand, and I could tell within 30 seconds that I made a mistake.

It really isn't an issue.

Sounds good thanks for the reassurance, I'm just paranoid because I know that after a few drinks my level of judgement in pretty much all matters goes out the window. This is one of the reasons I don't plan on partying too much over there, probably a week or so in Bangkok then going directly to a Muay Thai camp and locking myself down with that for the majority of my trip.
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#44

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Quote: (10-07-2012 10:05 PM)scotian Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2012 09:56 PM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2012 09:48 PM)scotian Wrote:  

I joined the site Dating in Asia a couple of hours ago and have been checking out some profiles and low and behold the majority of the ones I clicked on have been ladyboys! I don't know what I'm going to do when I get over there, make every girl I meet show me her beaver before I escalate?

I'll probably start out slow and give myself a few days to get used to being in Thailand and of course, develop a sense for spotting a tranny. Man, the thought of even touching a chick with a dick makes me sick.

You will honestly be fine. As rionomad said outside of the clubs in Sukhumvit etc you will never run across one, and even if you are pretty hammered you will definetly know something is not quite right way before you have a mistake you will regret. I know there are a lot of stories about this happening to people but, if you have any sort of common sense and a modicum of experience with real women, it won't happen to you. Enjoy the trip, I;m thinking of doing Muay Thai for a few weeks in December, early Jan. have you picked a camp yet?

You are way over thinking this, bro. Outside of the tourist areas, there really isn't that many. And if you do approach one, you will be able to tell something is off. 95%+ of the girls in the club will be girls, not ladyboys. I approached 3 ladyboys in 9 months total in Thailand, and I could tell within 30 seconds that I made a mistake.

It really isn't an issue.

Sounds good thanks for the reassurance, I'm just paranoid because I know that after a few drinks my level of judgement in pretty much all matters goes out the window. This is one of the reasons I don't plan on partying too much over there, probably a week or so in Bangkok then going directly to a Muay Thai camp and locking myself down with that for the majority of my trip.
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#45

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To all the guys who complain about Thai girls expect you to pay for everything and demand a lot, you either getting chumped or lack game. I banged many thai girls, same day or night, and many without even buying them a drink, coffee or meal. Just stay away from the whores...

Nice one. Curious, where were you meeting these girls?

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Just how prevalent are ladyboys in Thailand? Are they mainly found where all the whores hang out, or do they also hang out in regular clubs?

There's plenty around but seriously it's not worth worrying about. If something doesn't seem right about the girl, she's too tall, she looks TOO beautiful, face is too perfect, has a funny voice, broad shoulders, an adams apple (most of them still have this), has an over exaggerated walk then she is a ladyboy. If you sense something is wrong then eject. A lot of them will tell you they are a ladyboy. One annoying thing is some Thai girls seem to find it funny to joke when you're about to bang that they are a ladyboy. I had one of my bed, stripped naked and dripping wet (so obviously not a ladyboy) and then she starts joking about being a katoey. Even though I knew she wasn't it was a massive boner killer. Don't know why they do it.
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#46

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Despite being here a while I've been tricked couple of times and not realised until I was about to pull them home, and even one I only realised when we were in bed (before doing anything thankfully). 99% of them are obvious but... some are very subtle. So you need some defenses -

Ultimate ladyboy test:

Extend their arm out at the elbow as far as it will go. Guys arms look straight or very nearly straight when you do this. Girls arms nearly always hyperextend noticably - i.e, they dont looke straight - the lower arm angles away from the upper arm, pointing away from the body. It's down to joint formation when you're young, ladyboys cant change this... yet.

Another good test is make her show you her hand. If she "hides" her thumb e.g. tries to keep it towards the palm or slightly below her index finger, or wont let you look at her hand for a minute, that's a big red flag (she's self-conscious about man-hands and trying to make them look feminine)

Of course you can always just ask to see her ID card too. But, they can get fake ones easily enough.

Iain yeah the ladyboy joke gets tiresome after the 35th time lol
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#47

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Yeah the ID card is a good way to tell, even if they are a ladyboy the ID has to show the sex they were born as. Their ID cards have English on them too so you can read it, if it says 'Mr' then fucking run. My photo on my ID is funny so I say "look at my funny photo" and let them see it then ask if I can see theres. It's Thai law that you always have to carry ID (for foreigners too but it's often overlooked) so if they say they don't have it they are probably not telling the truth.
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#48

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Quote: (10-07-2012 09:48 PM)scotian Wrote:  

I joined the site Dating in Asia a couple of hours ago and have been checking out some profiles and low and behold the majority of the ones I clicked on have been ladyboys! I don't know what I'm going to do when I get over there, make every girl I meet show me her beaver before I escalate?

I'll probably start out slow and give myself a few days to get used to being in Thailand and of course, develop a sense for spotting a tranny. Man, the thought of even touching a chick with a dick makes me sick.

Hey man join thaifriendly.com as they have intense monitoring on ladyboys and pros on this site unlike dateinasia.com. I say 75%+ on thaifriendly.com are normal university girls. A few I met had multiple houses in Bkk and other cities. Some even traveled/studied abroad.

Ladyboys are very aggressive, EXPECT to get grabbed if you are in certain tourist areas. I found Patpong on Bangla Rd in Phuket the worst. LB's also sound like a 13 year old boy hitting his puberty voice crack. Very easy to spot, even when you're pissed.
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#49

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Quote: (10-07-2012 10:33 PM)IainMuirs Wrote:  

One annoying thing is some Thai girls seem to find it funny to joke when you're about to bang that they are a ladyboy. I had one of my bed, stripped naked and dripping wet (so obviously not a ladyboy) and then she starts joking about being a katoey. Even though I knew she wasn't it was a massive boner killer. Don't know why they do it.
LOL they do this in Philippines all the time too. So fucking annoying, cause I am always worried about it.
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#50

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ThaiFriendly definitely seems to be the best best. I've met and had sex with girls from Thai Friendly, Thai Love Links, Tagged, Couchsurf and POF but TF has been the most consistent for decent girls and bangs. Most of the girls I met from there were relatively normal girls, worked or studied, had OK jobs, spoke good English and didn't seem to be just after a free night out.

I'm sure there must be tons of bar girls, pros and sketchy girls on these dating sites but I've never met one. I don't know whether I can just spot them easily but I expected it to be a huge problem in Thailand and it really wasn't.
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