[AneroidOcean]

(05-09-2013 09:27 AM)MattC Wrote:  

Don't lend money to anyone.

I fixed that for you. I'm not saying you shouldn't lend money to anyone ever, but there are a ton of banks and places that will loan you money out there. When did you become a bank or a loan institution?

Oh you're not? Then why are you lending money?

I only loan money to very close friends when they don't have cash on hand and I know I will see it next week or within a month max. I can count these people on one hand and have fingers left over.

I've lost thousands of dollars loaning money to friends that I assumed would pay me back and then never did. If they are asking you for money and can't get a loan out of a bank or loan institution, why do you think you should loan them money? Lesson learned. Learn from my mistakes.

[Virtus]

re:$50 slag.. so what. you got service, she got what she needed. youre not trying to wife that, hell, not even trying to feed it at a restaurant. that is a price of some sushi n sake in a cheap place for a normal date.. honestly, all pussy comes with costs. hidden, sunk or up front. youre getting it with watertight logistics.. I dont see a problem really.. imagine two guys. you and some other guy with your type. who takes the slag for some sushi. she'll make more time for him all things being equal. its easy for her to get dick, so why not ask for more??

[WestIndianArchie]

(05-09-2013 05:37 AM)michelin Wrote:  

new update: this girl is not what I thought she was. Not your regular neighbor:

over the past five months, she's been banging an increasingly number of dudes, at her place. Yesterday it was the dude next door. Turns out she started hustling around "to pay her mortgage". Her program is to ask you to "borrow" some money a few weeks before the bang. I borrowed her a very small amount (less than 50$, although she asked three times as much, telling her I had to may my rent etc.), two months before we banged. Never saw the money back. Only months later I realized she's actually banging for some reason.

I feel tricked, now, and avoid this MILF as hell.

Anybody had a similar experience? How do you screen girls out to avoid situations like this?

Just get some regular bjs, 7 bucks a pop, discount for volume nahmean?

Hell, why not arrange some clients for her, and just take a cut....be sure to collect the money and then remit her a few dollars. Best that you keep control of the funds, lest she waste them.

WIA

[michelin]

(05-09-2013 08:17 PM)calihunter Wrote:  

re:$50 slag.. so what. you got service, she got what she needed. youre not trying to wife that, hell, not even trying to feed it at a restaurant. that is a price of some sushi n sake in a cheap place for a normal date.. honestly, all pussy comes with costs. hidden, sunk or up front. youre getting it with watertight logistics.. I dont see a problem really.. imagine two guys. you and some other guy with your type. who takes the slag for some sushi. she'll make more time for him all things being equal. its easy for her to get dick, so why not ask for more??

I agree, that bang was not bad at all for its value, petite, very thin MILF with huuge ones (Ds is my guess)...but it's not about the money. I was proud of gotten gamed her in some way, and now it feels like a cheap bang, nothing to be much proud of. I couldn't know how this would turn out, so I don't blame myself.

[CarCrashKid]

There is one thing to be proud of.
The fact you set yourself a goal and accomplished it.

Be proud of the fact that you completed your goal.

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

She's practically a prostitue. I wonder how much money she's made from all those dudes she's fucked?

[Hotwheels]

Tell her about this cool website called seekingarrangement.com

If she's hot she might find a chode to pay her bills without even having to give up the vaj.

[Hazaer]

Ok, new hot neighbour.. Assuming a college situation on campus and the other neighbours are not an issue, how should one work the situation?

Should I show interest fast (Also, how to do this without being needy?) or is it better to be indifferent first ie. just do casual talk when we meet kind of thing?

Is it necessary to bring her out on a date first? I was thinking about asking her to come to my room for a drink maybe on a weekend night but how much time should pass before that move?

Thanks for the opinions.

[Hazaer]

(09-13-2016 05:38 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  

Ok, new hot neighbour.. Assuming a college situation on campus and the other neighbours are not an issue, how should one work the situation?

Should I show interest fast (Also, how to do this without being needy?) or is it better to be indifferent first ie. just do casual talk when we meet kind of thing?

Is it necessary to bring her out on a date first? I was thinking about asking her to come to my room for a drink maybe on a weekend night but how much time should pass before that move?

Thanks for the opinions.

Update: Not off to a good start. Started off saying 'Hey' and she replied with a 'Hi' with barely any eye contact and continued walking to her room. Advice on better openers in this situation (first meeting with a new neighbours) might help here.

Would it be a good idea to now ignore her till she opens?

Thanks.

[kirdiesel]

I hooked up with a neighbor... she lived two doors down from me...

We ended up not getting along at the end but we were cordial when we saw each other and it didn't cause many problems except for some slight awkwardness when we ran into each other in the hall or elevator which wasn't really all that often.

[WestIndianArchie]

@Haz

Show more value if possible. (You with other girls ideally)

It's bad practice to assume common courtesy from women.

WIA

[Stoolio]

(09-13-2016 05:38 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  

Ok, new hot neighbour.. Assuming a college situation on campus and the other neighbours are not an issue, how should one work the situation?

Should I show interest fast (Also, how to do this without being needy?) or is it better to be indifferent first ie. just do casual talk when we meet kind of thing?

Is it necessary to bring her out on a date first? I was thinking about asking her to come to my room for a drink maybe on a weekend night but how much time should pass before that move?

Thanks for the opinions.

How I would of done it in college: Invite some friends over on a low key drinking night (wednesday/Thursday), get things going and then personally go invite her over, pretty casually... If she comes - play some drinking games, liven the place up, DHV - make some subtle moves if she sticks around into the night.

If she doesn't come you've shown your intent. Step back, DHV and be a respectful neighbor till she gets curious..

[Hazaer]

(09-13-2016 11:28 AM)Stoolio Wrote:  

(09-13-2016 05:38 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  

Ok, new hot neighbour.. Assuming a college situation on campus and the other neighbours are not an issue, how should one work the situation?

Should I show interest fast (Also, how to do this without being needy?) or is it better to be indifferent first ie. just do casual talk when we meet kind of thing?

Is it necessary to bring her out on a date first? I was thinking about asking her to come to my room for a drink maybe on a weekend night but how much time should pass before that move?

Thanks for the opinions.

How I would of done it in college: Invite some friends over on a low key drinking night (wednesday/Thursday), get things going and then personally go invite her over, pretty casually... If she comes - play some drinking games, liven the place up, DHV - make some subtle moves if she sticks around into the night.

If she doesn't come you've shown your intent. Step back, DHV and be a respectful neighbor till she gets curious..

Good idea. But my friends don't drink and they are anti game for the most part. Its kind of screwed up, one of the reasons why I decided going solo is going to be the DHV compared to having them around. One thing I realized is that having a good circle of friends is necessary to add value apart from it being crucial for night game and social circle game.

[Hazaer]

(09-13-2016 10:50 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

@Haz

Show more value if possible. (You with other girls ideally)

It's bad practice to assume common courtesy from women.

WIA

Yeah, that might work as an experiment. I should have opened with a joke or some situational opener but after getting that kind of response, I also now know what kind of person she is.

Interestingly enough, those neighbours who I dont talk much to or never attempt to game seem the most attracted and they make the effort to open.

[FernandoPF]

Just met a hot neighbor in the washing machines' room. She was friendly during the chat, bit on two of my baits and told me her appartment number ("if you need anything") when saying goodbye. My intuition indicates that she was fairly attracted to me and that she is currently available (seems to be single and aprox 28 years old).

Before proceeding, I will summarize what I have read so far in this thread for having some clear ideas:

1) Strategy: I have to decide first if I want to bang her, or rather enter her social circle (of girlfriends).

2) So far I want to bang her, thus:
- I must assess the risk of an akward situation for at least a year, if things go wrong
- I shall position myself as the very discret, high confident guy, who she can have fun with no repercussions afterwards (f-buddy)
- One-to-one meeting excuse: knocking her door for a help, like asking her some type of food since the "grocery store is closed", or advice on Vienna (I am latino and she lived in Brazil by the way).
- One-to-many meeting excuse: organize a party with some friends (for example a "cocktail course") and invite her spontaneously
- Keep game as usual with other girls. That could potentially add social proof if she notices that.
- Assess her reactions throughout weeks (or months!) and wait patiently till the moment presents. I guess the moment still has to be generated by myself.

Let me know pls if there is anything missing!