Quote: (12-03-2015 12:27 AM)Jesus Christ Wrote:
Quote: (12-02-2015 02:17 PM)262 Wrote:
Social circle game is probably the future of Game (if it isn't already the present or past). Too bad it requires at least a magnitude more investment than any other form of Game.
It's probably why black rappers make a big deal about their lifestyle - blacks got hit with feminism first. Heck, if I remember correctly, Game, in that sense of the word, came from the black community.
And I'm not black, so I'm not boasting about my own race here. Just giving props where credit is due.
Online is the future. With the right pictures the results can be absolutely outstanding. We're talking something like 3+ lays per week in Western countries.
Depends if you are strictly talking about getting notches or getting a relationship.
I have banged a lot of girls from online game, but there is an old adage on the forum here: "If you found her online you'll lose her online."
Social circle has an element of comfort, vetting, security, and preselection that insurmountably trumps anything you can work over on a complete stranger,
especially one you met over the internet.
Women are driven by emotion as we all know, and the cold and contrived nature of the online dating and social media environment is so
anti-serendipitous and
anti-comfort building. Its more like a meat grinder than the organic and natural experience that dating is often expected to be. Because of this, the girls that will date someone online either have high shields and shitty expecations or are willing and open to meeting strange men out of either desperation or being too free-spirited for their own good and will continue to do so as long as it keeps being entertaining.
When you meet a person through friends there is a huge comfort and anti-flake factor because your social circle is counting on both of you to work out and not disappoint them, and just as well you both feel comfortable that the people you know, like, and trust have both openly told each of you that you'd be great for eachother so both of you go into it openly and optimistically. You feel like you already know eachother a little because you know the same people and they likely have already gushed about each of you to eachother. It's disarming and a lot of the frustrating bullshit that you normally have to put up with when gaming a fresh girl is blown away.
Think about it. When you meet a strange girl on the street, in the club, at the book store, you are just a rando swinging dick and need to break yourself into her world. Online dating is even worse because you are less than a rando swinging dick - you're just a number. A picture with a a series of text attached to it. If you want to build a relationship you need to gradually work yourself into her life. Social circle cuts all of that out. At that point, as long as you are attracted to eachother and have tolerable personalities then their is little reason why you can't date. Back in our grandparent's day that was almost
exclusively how people dated eachother. They met through friends, family, or church.
Social circle always has and always will be the easiest and most reliable way to date.