[debeguiled]

(08-08-2016 06:24 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

My girl from last semester is back in town and around 9pm we started texting and I ended up in her dorm room for about 2 hours!

She's 20, I'm 40.

This seems amazing to me, the climate on campuses being what it is. Are there not all sorts of white knights and SJW cockblocks laying in wait for an guy in his forties showing up in a dorm?

I can't imagine getting ten steps before security or a condescending head resident showed up to either shame or tase you out of the building.

Last time I was in a dorm with a girl was my early thirties and I felt like a geezer in a park in a trenchcoat just for being there.

I know guys who are your age who got banned from campuses just for hanging out in dorm rooms with girls.

How do you do it?

[Giovonny]

(08-09-2016 12:24 PM)debeguiled Wrote:  

This seems amazing to me

It is amazing! It's very special!

It used to feel sort of surreal to me, but now, its becoming normal!

But, I feel the same way as you! This is nothing short of SPECTACULAR!!!

20 year old bodies are AMAZING!

I can't settle for anything less!

(08-09-2016 12:24 PM)debeguiled Wrote:  

Are there not all sorts of white knights and SJW cockblocks laying in wait for an guy in his forties showing up in a dorm?

During the regular school year, YES! This would be near impossible. *

But..

SUMMER SCHOOL, the dorms are empty! Only a handful of people are living in the dorms! I only saw a few people and MOST IMPORTANTLY, MY PHYSICAL APPEARANCE IS EXTREMELY NON-THREATENING AND NON-SUSPICIOUS! (I'll explain more later)

(08-09-2016 12:24 PM)debeguiled Wrote:  

How do you do it?

I blend in.

Here I am walking with a girl:



- Notice the books and folders I am holding...

- Notice how my clothes are slim and tasteful.. My sleeves are rolled up..

My body is youthful:

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I look respectable.

My appearance is not out of place:

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I don't look creepy.

My girl LIVES in the dorms and even she was not worried about it!

She knows my appearance and body language will blend in.

She can just say that she is dating a 29 year old guy. No one will care because I look respectable and even cool.

It's really not a big deal, OVER THE SUMMER.

--

* And, when I do go into the dorms, I almost always have CASES OF TOILET PAPER, PAPER TOWELS AND LAUNDRY SOAP!! This puts peoples mind at ease.

They think I'm just dropping off supplies! *

--

Ironically, during the first two weeks of school, THERE REALLY ARE DADS, BROTHERS, UNCLES, COUSINS, AND OLDER BOYFRIENDS DROPPING OFF SUPPLIES!

During the first 2 weeks of school, its not uncommon to see a grown man walking in the dorms with a pretty, young girl.. It's usually his daughter.. He's always holding something for her apartment..

I will obviously use this to my advantage.

[booshala]

^^ this motherfucker thinks of everything. +1, guy!

[Giovonny]

A few years back, I banged this girl in her dorm room during the first week of school..

Quote:

I am in front of the dorms, I see a beautiful young Latina, great skin, great body, perfect round athletic breasts...

She walks past me without noticing me, I turn and walk quickly in her direction, I pretend to be on my phone so she can hear my voice and get a feel for my personality and vibe, just as I pass her, I end my fake phone call and open her..

me: hey you look great
her: thanks
me: are you new around here?
her: yes
me: where are you from?
her: LA
me: oh cool, how do you like sf so far?
her: i love it
me: voce e brasiliera?
her: huh?
me: are you brasilian?
her: haha no do i look brazilian?
me: ya kind of, what are you?
her: mexican
me: oh im half mexican, the mex food around here sucks
her: really?
me: ya but i will show you good local places
her: haha
me: i gotta run to class but why don't you give me your number and ill text you soon
her: um.. well..i dont know..
me: listen i know its random but i will never see you again, i think you look really nice and i want to have a drink with you sometime..
her: well..ok

I texted her 10 minutes -- "mucho gusto nayeli, you look really nice today -giovonny"

She texted me right back

How did I get into her dorm room on a busy Saturday night?

The student-worker at the front desk said that UNLESS I AM A RELATIVE, I will would have to sign in..

I said I was a relative, it was that easy.

--

The young girl and I got in the elevator and were on our way to her room..

There was so much partying and fucking going on in that dorm that honestly, I don't think anybody noticed or even cared that I was 37. (I looked younger)

Again, the way I dress and carry myself is crucial.

(I think I was wearing a slim cardigan sweater from ZARA with red, white, and blue stripes over a slim v-neck tshirt and slim gray chinos with dessert chukkas)(Sort of flashy but also very tasteful. I also had a sexy, young girl by my side so it all looked very congruent and NOT CREEPY at all!)

--

Just for fun, here is the rest of that story:

Quote:

I met her at her dorm. We got wine and coca cola and walked around the campus. Since she is new she hasn't seen most of it. School just started on Monday.

Around 11pm, we started walking back to her dorm room. When we got close, I said -- "Can I use your bathroom?"

Thanks Roosh.

Got into her room, played a few songs on youtube and it was on.

She asked me how old I was and I said 29. She is a big Taylor Swift fan. She mentioned Taylor Swift being 18 and John Mayer being 29. These are the fantasies that I talk about. This girl recently turned 18 and she wanted to bang a grown man. Taylor Swift did it so she wants to do it. Tonight, her fantasy came true.

When I met her, I used my Fake Phone Call Move. We talked about the moment we met and she said -- "I heard you talking on the phone but I didn't think you noticed me"

Of course, that's because I spoke in a loud, macho voice, pretended not to notice her, and ended my fake phone call just as I was passing her.

I also want to add that wearing a white shirt was better then wearing a pink shirt because the pink shirt gave off a player vibe.

Also, the big key was texting her same day.

Also, the reason I can pull young girls is because of my attitude and lifestyle. I have a youthful spirit, I'm not a bitter old man. I rest as much as possible so I look as youthful as possible. Clean food and lots of water helps also.

Young Latinas love older guys.

Man, it's fun chasing beautiful,young girls!

[debeguiled]

Good stuff. I already know that the chicks don't care. They don't care if you are in their dorm rooms, or downstairs at their parents's house, or hanging out in the girl's bathroom with them. I just couldn't get my head around how you managed your own feelings and the feelings of the self appointed gate keepers.

And you answered my questions. You went all stealth! That is some impressive cunning.

[King of Monkeys]

(08-09-2016 10:57 AM)polar Wrote:  

The best advice I would have to avoid that is to either 1) don't worry about it, and/or 2) Approach not just for getting it in, but also for social reasons.

If you only hit on everything with tits and don't have a tight crew, your rep will be different than if you have a lot of friends and are just sociable and forward.

So talk to guys and chicks you aren't interested in when the social situations allow.

Treat "game" and "gaming women" as a subset of "social skills" and "interacting with strangers" and you will do well in the long run.

Thank you. I'll keep that in mind when I start my classes. I'm hoping to make plenty of stories to tell by the time I'm through with college.

[Gorgiass]

Just got another number for an incoming freshman. Toned, darker skinned island girl, big tits, very pretty. Stopped oncoming on the street, indirect opener asking about coffee shops followed by a mild statement of interest "You're the cutest pedestrian I've seen on xxx street today". Chatted for a minute and then invited her for coffee, she accepted. Got a number and plans to hang out tomorrow.

I have video footage of this one I'll upload after editing faces, places and names.

[Giovonny]

My neighborhood is swarming with sexy, little, 18, 19, 20, and 21 year olds!

I'm gonna get me another one!!!

It's time.

--

(08-09-2016 02:10 AM)King of Monkeys Wrote:  

One of my biggest fears is getting a bad reputation by word of social media if I happen to bomb horrendously.

DON'T approach girls.

Just talk to them!

There is a big difference in the mindset of these 2 words.

Don't be an aggressive spam approacher.

Just be a friendly conversation starter.

thread-57722...pid1378142

If you dont approach, you can not "bomb"..

[Chunnel]

I started up Grad School at a Big 10 University, and I've just been giddy with excitement.

Love Gio's advice of just talking, having conversation, and let it play out. Playing the part of the confused student trying to find certain buildings has been my bread and butter in my minimal approaches so far, endless opportunities once the convo. starts.

Looking forward to hearing everyone's stories and progress!

[Giovonny]

"The Window" is NOW open!!!

College girls, especially, the freshman, ARE IN VACATION MODE!

They are on their own for the first time, in a highly charged, social environment; Living together, with access to alcohol and drugs -- AND, WITH A HIGH DEGREE OF ANONYMITY AND PLAUSIBLE DENIABILITY!!

During this 2 to 6 week period, the are statistically more likely to have random sex. During this short time period, they are more likely to hook up with an older guy.

In fact, as a slightly older guy, I will say -- There is no better time to meet a pretty college girl then RIGHT NOW!

The first month of school, they are open to sexual exploration and experimentation. They are open to flirty conversation and seductive vibes.. It's almost like a rite of passage for young girls.. They want to explore their bodies and play with their sensual side.

This first month, it almost "doesn't count". Tribes and social crews have not been formed yet. All 5 senses are being loaded with stimulation, socializing and partying is intense -- A month from now, no one will even remember what happened in these first few weeks.. No one will even question her...

This is a time of sexual freedom.

IT ONLY HAPPENS ONCE A YEAR!

ENJOY!

I've already been texting with a beautiful, sexy, young latina with a hot, slim, body and flawless caramel skin.

[DonnyGately]

I've suddenly gotten a whole bunch of texts from college freshman. I've never seen it this good on and around campus. The whole 'I can do what I want now' + 'No one knows me here' + tinder mindset = So much availability.

Had a cute college girl tonight, but several frosh in the hopper. We'll see I guess.

[Comte De St. Germain]

Last year's crop of freshman was exceptional. This year not so much.

I'll just wait for the inevitable spring semester where they have a better grasp of the local hangouts so I can swoop up the top picks.

Gio any ideas for finding the better picks of the crop?

[realologist]

(08-30-2016 12:31 PM)Comte De St. Germain Wrote:  

Last year's crop of freshman was exceptional. This year not so much.

I'll just wait for the inevitable spring semester where they have a better grasp of the local hangouts so I can swoop up the top picks.

Gio any ideas for finding the better picks of the crop?

For night game find the 18 and older spots. A lot of the 18-20 year olds are looking for a big men with wrist bands instead of X's on each hand.

For day game hit the busiest computer lab, main campus building, coffee shops right off campus. Find dorm events or events on campus and attend them. A lot of freshman hit those because they haven't quite set that social circle yet and are looking to meet people.

Hit tailgates at a football games too. Always young things drinking and having fun.

[Giovonny]

A few of my warm up approaches...

It always takes me about 100 or so warm up approaches before I really feel comfortable and in a good conversational rhythm/flow.

--

I park my car and immediately I spot a sexy, slim, white girl with a pretty face. yoga pants, plump ass..

I start a "Fake Phone Call" and walk closely behind her.. I want her to hear my voice...

After a few steps, I stride passed her and get slightly in front of her as we walk in the same direction...

I speak into my muted phone with my strong, deep, masculine voice.. I try to talk in a way that will catch the attention of this beautiful girl right behind me...

"no, no, don't give any rules at all, I don't want to handicap her creative juices, just let her do it however she wants, shes a big girl and I totally trust her."

I hang up.

As I'm hanging up, I veer slightly over my shoulder and pretend to notice her for the first time.. We make eye contact:

me: Hi how are you?
her: good.. you?
me: oh pretty good, thanks, just enjoying this beautiful day
her: i know its so nice today
me: ya enjoy it because it probably wont last
her: thats what everyone says
me: are you new to the bay area
her: um ya I'm from LA
me: oh welcome to silicon valley, the weather can be a little strange
her: really?
me: ya it changes a lot and it can be unpredictable, you sort of have to learn how to dress for it
her: interesting
me: ya it will really effect your wardrobe
her: yesterday was warm all day but then it got so windy at night
me: yes, u need lightweight, windbreaker type jackets, light scarves, light sweaters and things like that, stuff u can just pull out of your purse lol

This started a conversation about San Francisco fashion. The weather plays a big part.

We chatted for a few minutes as we walked..

We got to the main intersection, I went for the number:

me: well have a great day and a great semester
her: haha thanks you too
me: hey umm maybe we should go get coffee or something sometime
her: hehe
me: wanna exchange numbers?
her: ummm
me: if you're not interested its totally cool, I just wanted to try because it seemed like you were flirting with me a little ha
her: hehehehe
me: I'll show u around the city
her: ummm sorry but I'm talking to someone right now
me: no worries sweetie

Next!

--

I see a sexy, little light skinned mixed blackish girl with an amazing, young body, yoga pants, ass...

She is talking to a group of students... I wait... I listen..

She starts to walk away from the group.

I walk right along side her, timing it perfectly so that it appears serendipitous...

me: what were they recruiting you for?
her; oh it was like a bible study I think
me: oh it was a religious thing? So funny how they try to entice you with pizza
her: i know right lol
me: haha

me: are u a freshman?
her: yes i am
me: welcome to
her: thank you
me: how are you liking it so far?

This started a conversation about Northern California culture, weather, politics, etc.

We chatted for a few minutes as we walked towards her dorm. We got to her dorm...

me: u live here?
her: ya
me: wow I used to live here like 10 years ago
her: lol
me: well good luck with everything
her: thanks for the advice
me: ya you're welcome, hey if u need any help or have any questions u can take my number..
her: oh ummm
me: ya I mean, I'm in grad school and I'm 30 but whatever, I mean, if u want to, how old are you?
her: 18
me: okay so its like when taylor swift was dating john mayer
her: hahaha
me: do u have your phone on you, just call me
her: I can take ur number
me: I don't want u to have the responsibility of calling me lol the man should do that
her: haha
me: just call me and I'll text u later, if ur boyfriend gets jealous, u can always delete me
her: omg

She took my number.

--

Hot blond, tight body, pink Victoria's Secret sweatsuit..

She walks up a flight of stairs.. I follow from behind and pass her on the staircase...

As I'm passing her, I casually say...

me: nice pink sweatsuit
her: hehe thank you
me: I like how you have a pink bag and a pink socks also
her: hehe
me: are you a gemini?
her: no I'm a capricorn
me: oh okay that explains it than
her: hehe explains what?
me: why you are so futuristic
her: hehe
me: capricorns are funny
her: what are you?
me: half capricorn
her: half?
me: ya I'm on the cusp
her: whats that?

This began a short conversation about pop-astrology, fashion, and college majors.

Sweet, young girl, easy to talk to.. After a few minutes...

me; well, I better get going
her: ok
me: wanna chat again sometime about astrology and clothes
her: um well ya sure

Got her number.

--

Sexy, young Latina, flawless cinnamon skin, tight little body in slim, ripped denim...

She is walking up a staircase, I follow quickly behind... The is a group of people clogging up the stairs...

We patiently slow down and wait for them to clear the way.. After a few more steps...

me: tell'um to hurry up
her: huh?
me; tell those slow people to hurry up shit (jokingly)
her: hehe
me: thy were just taking their sweet time like no one is behind them
her: i know right
me: u were so nice to just slow down and wait
her: hehe
me: i kinda feel bad for that fat girl, she can barely move
her: omg seriously
me: how is class going?

This began a conversation about school.

After a minute, she had to get to class..

me: hey, I know this is totally random but I will never see you again and I wanna ask u if u wanna like talk again sometime
her: omg hehe
me: don't worry, I'll text u and if ur not feeling it then just don't return my text

Got her number.

--

Pretty white girl, sexy jeans and sweater, walking right towards me...

I adjust my angle and time it so that we are walking along side of each other...

me: hey cool sweater is that like from anthropoligie or zara
her: haha thanks I actually got this from urban outfitters
me: oh ya that's a great store
her: I love it
me: how is school going so far?
her: pretty good, just finding my way around and stuff

Blah, blah, blah.. We talked about school.

me: whats your major?
her: political science

This began a great conversation about politics. We talked Trump/Hillary.

me: hey wanna talk politics again over coffee or something?
her: um ya sure

Got her number.

--

Beautiful, vibrant, sexy, young latina, banging little body...

She is in line in the bookstore but I can tell that she is in the wrong line.. I walk over and get right behind her..

me: excuse me girls, is this the line?
her: ya
me: are u sure? what is that line over there?
her: oh umm I don't know
me: lets ask them

I ask the cashier. The cashier confirms that we are in the wrong line.

her: omg I'm sorry
me: no worries, I like ur style, just make up ur own line hahaha
her: hehe
me: are u new on campus?
her: ya
me: from where?
her: LA
me: oh boy you're going to be freezing up here
her: I already am

We talked about San Francisco weather and fashion.

The line progressed. She paid for her items

I got out of line and waited for her near the exit.

me: you found everything that you needed?
her: ya
me: hey nice talking to you, lets get coffee or something sometime
her: wanna take my number?
me: ya

Got her number.

--

Sexy, fit, hard bodied, young white girl...

I see her enter the library.. I enter the library and find her looking at books about health..

I pretend to look at books in the same area than quickly open her...

me: you must be a health major?
her: ya kinesieology
me: awesome I study the same type of stuff
her: oh cool

We talk school, sports, ad fitness.

me: what sports did u play in high school
her: well, volleyball was my main sport
me: you look like a lubero
her: yes exactly I was a lubero.. how could you tell?
me: um I guess your body type and your mental type just seems like a lubero
her: thats so funny
me: I know haha
her: I also did gymnastics
me: you must have enjoyed the olympics

We talked olympic gymnastics.

me: great talking to you, can I talk your number and try to talk with you again sometime soon
her: ok

Got her number.

*****

I also had a few rejections but I didn't care to remember them.

My number closing success rate QUADRUPLED!!!

Why?

It's the Fall Semester!

They are Freshman!

They are very likely to be in a sexual mood + more likely to experiment/explore sexually + more likely to hook up with an older guy + are living on their own = A FAVORABLE TIME TO APPROACH THEM!

HOWEVER, THIS WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY WILL BE CLOSING SOON!

I'm going to another major university now!

I'm taking at least 1 or 2 days a week off from work each of the next 3 weeks.

This is the best time of year to get a 19 year old fuck buddy!

"Fortune Favors the Bold"

[debeguiled]

Yeah Gio, don't tell me, I saw you. (Watch 1:15 till 1:34)

[RatInTheWoods]

Gio, you are a legend mate, and thanks for sharing all your info!

[Comte De St. Germain]

(08-30-2016 02:14 PM)realologist Wrote:  

(08-30-2016 12:31 PM)Comte De St. Germain Wrote:  

Last year's crop of freshman was exceptional. This year not so much.

I'll just wait for the inevitable spring semester where they have a better grasp of the local hangouts so I can swoop up the top picks.

Gio any ideas for finding the better picks of the crop?

For night game find the 18 and older spots. A lot of the 18-20 year olds are looking for a big men with wrist bands instead of X's on each hand.

For day game hit the busiest computer lab, main campus building, coffee shops right off campus. Find dorm events or events on campus and attend them. A lot of freshman hit those because they haven't quite set that social circle yet and are looking to meet people.

Hit tailgates at a football games too. Always young things drinking and having fun.

Well I am in college still so the night game and tailgates are musts. I was thinking more on the day game side which you got in the middle.

I avoid the computer labs as most people are extremely busy. And the main campus building and the local coffee place on campus are both not filled with freshman as they usually are hence my asking in this thread.

I see a lot of them walking around(where I'll street game occasionally if we're headed the same way), but I'm always more comfortable in areas with stationary targets even groups. It just feels like it's lacking this year.

[realologist]

(08-30-2016 04:22 PM)Comte De St. Germain Wrote:  

(08-30-2016 02:14 PM)realologist Wrote:  

(08-30-2016 12:31 PM)Comte De St. Germain Wrote:  

Well I am in college still so the night game and tailgates are musts. I was thinking more on the day game side which you got in the middle.

I avoid the computer labs as most people are extremely busy. And the main campus building and the local coffee place on campus are both not filled with freshman as they usually are hence my asking in this thread.

I see a lot of them walking around(where I'll street game occasionally if we're headed the same way), but I'm always more comfortable in areas with stationary targets even groups. It just feels like it's lacking this year.

Is there a specified freshman set of dorms?

You can always go to the cafeteria there. Plenty of sitting targets, plenty of ways to open. Plausible deniability saying you like that specific cafeteria's food.

[Chowder Head]

Gio, do you ever instadate these girls? Have you ever got a ONS off of a college approach? That Taylor Swift line is a good one. I can't wait to read your book -- if you write one.

[DJ-Matt]

Damn I've been reading Gio's logs for a while, and that seems to be the highest percentage of numbers yet! Only one NEXT.

[sportbilly]

I have a great opportunity tonight.

Before I decide on Batumi for the Summer vacation I was considering Almaty. Did some Tindering there a month or so back and got chatting to a girl who told me "wow you will not believe this but in a month I start Uni in the Uk city you live in".

Exchanged numbers and been messaging a bit. Anyway she messages me a few days ago and says she has nowhere to stay her first night and can she stay at my place.....lol she is brave we have never even met yet.

So come 10pm ish hopefully gonna have a Kazakh 21 year old at my door.

She will probable be too tired to want anything but "oh dear I only have one bed...and we can be adults and share it platonically". Wish me luck ha.

[Gorgiass]

I got one! Didn't even realize she was a freshman, "non-smoker" cigarette girl from yesterday - thread-14130...pid1384093

When I approached she was coming from her job and talked about being at school, and said that she couldn't go out to the bars yet but "almost" and "soon", so I figured she was 20. We made tentative plans to hang on Saturday, I got her number and called her as we wrapped up talking so she'd have mine, today she texted me before I even sent her a followup and said she had tonight/tomorrow off if I was free... Goddamm right I am.

Brief aside - I have very good bait for the next three days, found a last minute AirBnB from a brand new host with no reviews so he has to come in under market to build trust. There are a fair amount of scams here. To make matters worse for him, most of the pics on the listing he downloaded from the managing company's site, scammer tactic. Two were originals though, and after looking at Google street view of the building you could see through the window in one I determined he was legit and scored an incredible furnished pad in an amazing location for less than he pays to rent it bare.

Of course I slipped this in the texts before I suggested we "go out", even though I knew she wasn't of age, and gave her my address here. Her phone was dying/dead but got an ETA, and around then went downstairs, walked to my car, and as I was coming back to the building I see her coming the other way - tight black dress, black heels, long brown hair - gorgeous.

I lead, she follows to the apartment, pour some wine, and take her up to the roof, light sprinkling outside but that's OK. Soon security comes up to shut it down and we "have" to go inside. Sit on the couch, she seems a bit awkward, I put my arm around her and take it off several times to gesture, etc, before replacing while we talk. Taking it on and off gets her more comfortable with touch than constant touch - tension and release, not to mention taking it away is something a needy guy who isn't used to touching women would do. I'm sure most of you know all this though. Sweet, shy girl with a fairly conservative upbringing in the midwest, self-described introvert, fooled around with a few guys in high school but only slept with one. I'm thinking yeah, and then two years of college so god knows the notch count now... Hour plus into it she says "So I have to ask, what's the age gap here?"
"Hmm?"
"How old are you?"
"How old do you think I am?"
"Oh geez...mid 20s?"
"I'm 28" (I'm 34)
"Oh ok, that's not too bad"
"Right? Kinda like Taylor Swift and John Mayer" (Thank you Gio!)
"haha, exactly. Soooo...do you know how old I am?"
"Well, you're not 21, I'm going with 20"
Looks away and covers her face, shakes head
"19?"
"No. I'm legal though! Barely..." Wasn't expecting that line, but unphased...
"18?"
Looks at me and then away "Is that too young?"
"No, it's fine. But you're in college. So you're...a freshman?" (And sleeping with one guy in HS means you're looking to be taking the second dick of your life within the hour?)
"Maaaaaybe?"


Soon after, we start making out on the couch, she is an aggressive kisser so I reciprocate. Slide her skirt up and pull her onto my lap, make out for probably 15 minutes until I can feel her getting soaked then carry her into the bedroom. Perfect, firm 34 large C/small D tits (I asked after to be sure), flat teenage stomach, freshly shaved clean pussy. I go down on her, front and back, wrap it up and fuck her, have her ride me, doggy, finally after an hour or so I pull off the rubber and have her finish with her mouth.

She insisted on driving home, finding her car was another adventure in itself but got her there. I came back to this area to try to close another 18yo who I've been slow burn texting with for a month. We met up with the other day but she's outside the city and nervous to come in, and logistically it's tough. That one was an absolute stunner, this girl was not quite stunning but was very hot, even by non freshie standards. Might get the other one later this trip or another, but either way, worth it already. My first teenager in roughly seven years, and my first American teenager since I was one. Before I signed up and started reading Gio's reports and others, I really wouldn't have thought this was possible at my age. Couldn't have done it without RVF!

[pancakemouse]

Gorgiass, how do you properly seed inviting a girl right over that you meet with Daygame? I'm comfortable doing that from Tinder, but not with day game for some reason.

Should I just try anyway?

[Mr. D]

This thread is fucking awesome.

[Gorgiass]

(09-02-2016 05:43 PM)corsega Wrote:  

Gorgiass, how do you properly seed inviting a girl right over that you meet with Daygame? I'm comfortable doing that from Tinder, but not with day game for some reason.

Should I just try anyway?

That's the biggest advantage of a central location like the rented one I'm getting ready to head out of. For me, it's not so much a matter of seeding inviting her over directly as building enough comfort where she feels she can come right over. A great location acts as plausible deniability, "Come by and we can go out from here." When she gets there, lead. In this case I just opened the door for her and immediately walked to the elevator, then to the apartment as we talked, no "So what do you want to do?" kinda talk. Once we got to the apartment I did ask,"Do you prefer wine, beer margaritas...?"

I typically do go out with them and bait back "let's go drink some margaritas and check out the view from the rooftop" or whatever other standard bait.

On seeding - if I'm more familiar with an area than she is, as in this case I find out her interests and talk about what the area has to offer for appeal. She likes history, I'll about museums and "maybe I'll give you a tour sometime". She likes music "there's this great venue at suchaplace where they get good bands/DJs (of the genre she's into)". She likes alcohol (who doesn't) "suchabar does amazing cocktails. I'll take you out there this weekend."

If I'm not more familiar "I heard suchaplace is pretty cool, been wanting to check it out. We should go exploring".

After you've given her a reason to meet you, follow up and get her to commit to it and then throw out the "Come by and we'll walk/Uber/drive over" or just "I'm at (address), give me an ETA when you leave". The more remote the location the more difficult her coming right over will be.

I did get one girl recently to Uber out to another pretty remote location to "drink margaritas and watch the stars" but this was only possible because I spent at least an hour with her after we met and we went to a bar for a drink. She had to work early so couldn't come back that night.

Whereas it doesn't matter so much if a Tinder girl you've been hitting up in your spare time goes silent after you invite her right over (and generally they're more promiscuous so open to it anyway) it sucks a lot more if you go to 5 coffee shops, and walk 10 miles, and get shot down 20 times only to have a promising lead go dead. So I personally don't "plan" on a zero date bang for most of these situations, but if I see an opening I'll take it.