[Giovonny]

Sexy light-skinned black girl walking towards me.. Looked 19..

me: hi how are you
her: im good
me: i like that necklace
her: oh thank you'
me: you must be an art student
her: I am haha
me: what type art
her: well i study theater and psychology
me: wow you must be an intense person lol
her: lol

We talked about her university and some places to eat around town.

me: wanna exchange numbers?
her: yeah sure

Got her number.

Texted a few times but no date.

--

Pretty white girl in yoga pants, washing her car..

me: you missed a spot
her: haha
me: I like this jeep
her: thank you
me: are you from colorado?
her: no why'd u think that
me: i was watching some fitness show from colorado, they looked like u
her: what?

She didn't seem interested.

Next!

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Sexy, young asian girl walking.. I turned my bike around and rode over to her..

me: hi how are you?
her: im good
me: nice day today
her: it is
me: I wanted to say hi, u look great
her: hehe
me: I know its crazy.. my names gio
her: hi

She was friendly. We walked and talked for a minute.

me: sooo do u wanna get coffee or a drink sometime?
her: no thanks

Next!

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Beautiful, tall, slim, sexy blond walking down busy street.. I walk alongside..

me: ur a track athlete
her: yes actually I am or was
me: what school did u run at?
her: washington
me: i could tell by your posture and stride
her: hehe really?
me: yup

She was really sweet. We chatted for a minute

me: wanna exchange information or something, maybe I can give u a tour of the city
her: ya sure

Got her number. Forgot to call!

--

Victoria's Secret super model looking tall, fit, blond walking near me in fancy neighborhood.. I walk ahead of her to let her observe me first, then, I turn and pretend to just notice her..

me: u look amazing

She liked it!

her: thank you, that's so sweet of you
me: your welcome

She stepped closer to me and started asking me questions! She was from a small town in Southern California and she had just arrived in the Big City to start a new job. She needed someone to talk to. We had a great conversation.

me: u should marry rich
her: hehe are u rich?
me: um not really

She looked disappointed.

I swear to God I think she kind of was interested in me! Maybe I should have lied and pretended to be rich -- just in that moment--to see how she reacted!

Both of us sort of just walked away disappointed. It was weird.

The more I talk to beautiful women, the more fascinating shit like this I experience.

Next!

--

Beautiful, sexy, slim, european looking girl..waiting at red light..I walk up and make eye contact..

me: hi, u look nice today
her: thank you

She had an accent.

me: Are u european?
her: im from france
me: no way, im half french
her: really
me: yes
her: u are american and french?

She was very friendly. We talked effortlessly for 3 or 4 minutes.

me: why don't u join me for dinner later?
her: hehe thank you for asking but I dont think my hus

Next!

Beautiful, classy woman!

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pretty girl laying on a blanket -- university campus

me: its so nice today
her: I know
me: gotta enjoy it while it lasts
her: for sure

She was sweet but not interested.

Next!

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Hot, russian girl dressed in all black.. I was also dressed in all black..

me: I like your color scheme, did u copy me?
her: hahaha
me: great minds think alike
her: haha
me: we look good
her: ha

Blah, blah, blah

me: we should drink wine together
her: oh sorry I can't

Next!

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Beautiful tourist taking pictures..

me: are you getting some good pictures?
her: oh well I'm trying
me: lots of good architecture around here, nice victorian houses that way
her: oh wow thank you
me: u kind of have to look up to see the detail in the buildings
her: right okay

Nice but not interested.

Next!


I recently banged a 20 year old college student.

[duedue]

Is there any telltale for when you've generated enough interest so that you can go for number close, other than she asking you questions or touching her hair etc? I know you can always go for the number but I feel I sell myself short if I go for it prematurely, based on past experience.

This morning I went to a cafe and sat at a table with a girl because it was crowded. She was a 5. She left and then a better looking one took her place. I wanted to open a couple of time but couldn't (she had headphones on). Then when I was leaving I opened by commenting on her laptop. She was smiling and receptive. I mentioned the big stylus of my old laptop and she told me she studied on her bed (a little bit of NLP haha). But she didn't ask me any questions. I should've continued but..was a little anxious.

[duedue]

(11-13-2018 05:20 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  


her: thank you, that's so sweet of you
me: your welcome

She stepped closer to me and started asking me questions! She was from a small town in Southern California and she had just arrived in the Big City to start a new job. She needed someone to talk to. We had a great conversation.

me: u should marry rich
her: hehe are u rich?
me: um not really

She looked disappointed.

I swear to God I think she kind of was interested in me! Maybe I should have lied and pretended to be rich -- just in that moment--to see how she reacted!

Both of us sort of just walked away disappointed. It was weird.

The more I talk to beautiful women, the more fascinating shit like this I experience.

Next!

You didn't have to lie but could've "vibed" based on she said:

She: Are you rich?
You: I'm the richest man in Babylon! / a slam dunk millionaire! /... [with a face that shows you're exaggerating

It's more about vibe than the truth. I feel silly telling this to you Gio! Actually I came here to read your approach reports. Do you do qualification, negs, teases etc in your approaches?

[TheMaleBrain]

(11-18-2018 07:05 PM)duedue Wrote:  

Is there any telltale for when you've generated enough interest so that you can go for number close, other than she asking you questions or touching her hair etc? I know you can always go for the number but I feel I sell myself short if I go for it prematurely, based on past experience.

Dude
It seems you are looking for insurance/guarantee.
It takes experience to calibrate, and even then you might miss sometime.

Go for it. What's the worse that could happen? She'll say NO.
You "wasted" a few minutes. So what?

It seem like there might be a "feelz" problem. Probably an "inner game" issue

[duedue]

(11-19-2018 02:13 AM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  

(11-18-2018 07:05 PM)duedue Wrote:  

Is there any telltale for when you've generated enough interest so that you can go for number close, other than she asking you questions or touching her hair etc? I know you can always go for the number but I feel I sell myself short if I go for it prematurely, based on past experience.

Dude
It seems you are looking for insurance/guarantee.
It takes experience to calibrate, and even then you might miss sometime.

Go for it. What's the worse that could happen? She'll say NO.
You "wasted" a few minutes. So what?

It seem like there might be a "feelz" problem. Probably an "inner game" issue

You're right. Rejections from mediocre girls have gone under my skin. So I like the girl to exhibit some interest first; I want the close to be an offer rather than a request.
There is also the "bimbo problem" i.e. knowing that I wouldn't even talk to 95% of these girls if it wasn't for biology.

[TIOT12]

(11-18-2018 07:05 PM)duedue Wrote:  

Is there any telltale for when you've generated enough interest so that you can go for number close, other than she asking you questions or touching her hair etc? I know you can always go for the number but I feel I sell myself short if I go for it prematurely, based on past experience.

You generally want to have a conversation that lasts over 7 minutes and the longer the better. Questions you should be asking yourself:

1. Am I building a narrative with this girl? Are we developing a romantic moment that she can happily tell her friends?
2. Am I giving information that shows I am grounded (a real person) and not just a PUA clown? This is telling some stuff about yourself so you are perceived as a normal person, someone who she can have a relationship with.
3. Am I flirting and spiking her emotions periodically where it is not a platonic conversation? Some chit chat is ok but it needs to be clear this is a man and woman interaction.

You do all these things to increase the odds she won't flake on you. Many women will give you their number but your goal is to avoid flaking and you can best do this by developing a stronger connection and memorable experience.

You can also experiment with asking for the number and continuing to talk to her. This has the benefit of not making it about the number and more about the conversation. At the end of the goal, the goal is getting the connection not the number.

[Gorgiass]

(11-13-2018 05:20 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

I recently banged a 20 year old college student.

The man, the myth, the legend. You rock, dude. Thanks for the kick in the ass!

[duedue]

Went to the same cafe and the same girl was sitting at the same table. Of course I went and sat there. Made the mistake of asking "Do you mind if I sit here?!". We bantered a tiny bit and then down to our own businesses. Some of her classmates were sitting nearby studying for an exam. I was planning on going for the close when either one of us was leaving.
Since we had not talked to her much and was basically (in the words of other girls I had opened) a "stranger", I decided to bait her by telling her I was leaving town next year and chat a little on that (making her asking me questions) and then go for a direct close like this:

You know, you look mischievous
Why
blah blah
Can you drink
Yes
So give me your number and we'll go grab a drink some time

But she left while talking to her friend! I joked that the friend was filling in for her. If I see her again I'd go directly for the close without sitting next to her...that would be clingy, creepy, what not.

For now, NEXT!

[lunchmoney]

Taking advantage of a rare day home, I tackled painting my home office this morning. A neighbor, who gets to work remote for her job was home. I see her in passing but never had a chance to game her. Today I see her walking to the mailbox, and make small talk, then ask her if she had a few minutes, as I wanted "a second opinion" on my paint color choice. It was really an excuse to get her into the house and some time on my homecourt.

She walks in, and gives a few compliments on the flooring (new pergo floor throughout the place) and approves of the color. Convo transitions to work, then holiday plans, which she says she is spending with family. We set up time for drinks this Sunday. I am not sure if having neighborhood booty is a good idea, but she has LTR potential more than just being a plate.

[duedue]

Another cafe, another girl. An 8-9 sitting two tables away. I could see a guy with a smoldering face sitting at another table working on his laptop. I could see my past (but not so long past) self.
When I was going to leave I put my stuff in my bag and went to bathroom. When I got out she got out of women's room behind me. Hmm I saw her going there not very long ago.
Anyways, grabbed my bag and went toward the exit. When I passed her table I paused and opened. She made a face like she was bothered.

Hi I couldn't help but notice you looked cute
Hmm
I guess you're a student
Yeah but not of [the main college in town]. I'm from this town actually
Let me guess you study literature
Yeah
So you read 18th century texts!
Yeah (looking at her laptop)

I felt she was bullshitting me and so I ejected. What would you have done?
Two things I noticed in this approach were the importance of being well dressed and being in a good mood. Without these, like in the past, she would've shown me an angry face. But I'm still missing an important component which is sexuality. I'm not sexually turned on when approaching girls, which defies the whole purpose of approaching. Must be anxiety. My approach routine needs a lot of work too.

[TheMaleBrain]

(11-20-2018 07:39 PM)duedue Wrote:  

Hi I couldn't help but notice you looked cute
Hmm
I guess you're a student
Yeah but not of [the main college in town]. I'm from this town actually
Let me guess you study literature
Yeah
So you read 18th century texts!
Yeah (looking at her laptop)

I felt she was bullshitting me and so I ejected. What would you have done?
Two things I noticed in this approach were the importance of being well dressed and being in a good mood. Without these, like in the past, she would've shown me an angry face. But I'm still missing an important component which is sexuality. I'm not sexually turned on when approaching girls, which defies the whole purpose of approaching. Must be anxiety. My approach routine needs a lot of work too.

First thing first - that was a Shit-Test. Suggest that you would have continue along and being playful:
You: Do you know what are all the 18th century writers have in common?
Her: What?
You: They all died (with a smirk)

As long as she is not asking you to leave, or leaving herself - it's still on.

This brings me to the second thing:
You should approach girls that turn you on (boner test). I recall an advise - visualize yourself banging her. This may help to feel the attraction.

Do you feel anxious? Only you know.
Keep approaching with the intent to get the number. Most of the time we don't get it. Once you do (and you will) it will be a feeling of accomplishment.

[TheMaleBrain]

I went to a "lecture-workshop" about relating to people (semi-marketing) with one of my LTRs.
Behind us sat 2 girls - one HB7.5 and one HB7. They were of Russian origin.

Toward the end we were given an assignment to talk to someone which we don't know.
I got up and sat in the back row. The HB7.5 got up and sat next to my girl.

I chatted the HB7 up. She was born in Ukraine and migrated to Israel a few years ago. 26 years old, 5"6-5"7, with glasses, blond-brown flowing hair and a very nice vibe.
I LinkedIN closed her and we agreed to meet next week, "for business purposes". She complimented my wisdom, and was clearly interested in the interaction. The downside is that she saw me with another girl, and that the girl was into me.

Will have to see

[duedue]

Good points MaleBrain. I'm slow when it comes to improv talking. Working on it.

Anyways, living in a small town, there is not much daygame opportunity for me on the street. I went to different department stores and found Target to be the most target rich one. Lots of beautiful girls. Today was the second time I went there. It felt weird to linger in a department stores isles to try to get pussy. I'm supposed to be a high value man after all! On the other hand I tell myself why I didn't start something like this 10 years ago.

Today there were not many solo girls, probably they were back home for Thaknsgiving. I did 4 approaches, all direct.

First one was a 7. After the complement:
I guess you're a student
Yeah
Medicine?
Yeah
So you'd be doing open heart surgeries. Brave girl!
We'll see haha
me: Are you new here
she: Have been here for a while
me: I've been here for a while too but am going to move
she: You don't like it here?
It's alright but very small

I paused a little bit, wanted to go for the number but she said goodbye.

I kept thinking naughty thoughts while prowling the isles as suggested by game experts...fun exercise.

Second one wasn't cute but had a sexy body.
Hey you look cute [Yeah I lied]
Thanks
You seem to be a singe mom
Really I look like a mom?
Yeah, do you find this a complement or offensive?
It's good to be a mom but no I've never had a child
me: OK
she: But I've been rained on all this morning
Working outside?
No I was shopping

She had lots of stuff in her cart. She thanked me for the complement and left. I could've teased her that she was on a shopping spree.



Next one was the opposite, cute face but flat body. I went for the usual guess that she is a student and what she studies. She was smiling.

You seem to be from Europe
No I'm from PA
Oh, I'v been told PA girls are cute but can be mischievous. Are you that kind of girl?!
Well I don't know about that.

I was thinking what to say when she said goodbye. Then I beat myself for not having gone for her number. (I expected the convo to take longer.) Seems I've become too outcome independent.


The last one was a 19 yo and didn't go anywhere.

[Trent W.]

Did some dance floor game last night.

Was dancing next to a table and a girl came with her friend to leave their stuff on it. "I feel you're invading my space" I told her, she laughed, said sorry then told me something about them coming for a techno party. "Well I hope you have some good dancing moves at least" to which she responded by dancing and grinding her ass on me.

Then we separated. She started dancing with a dude with a winter hat while I was chilling with my friend and looking for other prospects. It seemed like she was into him. But they would separate every now and then and we would have eye contact. Towards the end of the night, with me always keeping an eye out, she gives me "f*ck me" eyes. I go dance closer to her. She keeps looking me dead in the eye but...there's a guy trying to get her to dance with him. He's between us, he sees that she's looking at me but he stays there trying to get her attention. She was literally laughing. I found it comical while at the same time wondering if he has a complete lack of ego - very zen - or self-respect.

Anyway we end up dancing together even though the guy was literally leaning in between us. When he disappeared we came close, I grabbed her waist, and grabbed a flock of her hair just above the neck, also pulling it lightly. She grinds on me, literally rubbing my property with her ass. Some moments later she says "kiss me" and we make out softly.

The end is unfortunately not a success for yours truly. She wanted to go to the toilet but got stopped on the way by a group of friends and other dudes (maybe from the party she was at). You know how it is, the typical 3 AM "important" negotiations on what to do after. I'm guessing they were also trying to convince her not to leave with a stranger. I was hanging out near the exit of the bar, did not bother to go and befriend them as I didn't really want to. Plus it was kind of late for that and they were many. At some point when she saw me she told me "1 minute" but then disappeared with the winter hat dude from their group (who she was dancing with earlier).

[erjk]

Part of the Roosh program entails approaching 1 girl a day. Today i asked a coffee shop barista out (first time I had been to this coffee shop and had never seen her before). Does this kind of thing count as an approach?

[TheMaleBrain]

(12-03-2018 06:56 PM)erjk Wrote:  

Part of the Roosh program entails approaching 1 girl a day. Today i asked a coffee shop barista out (first time I had been to this coffee shop and had never seen her before). Does this kind of thing count as an approach?

It counts.
Even interacting with her without going to the number close, counts.

[El_Cartiero]

I'm not massive on approaches in out in public, but I couldn't help stop and make an approach on two chick this evening while around Piccadilly/bottom of regents street .

Opening ones or twos have never been an issue for me. What usually lets me down, when approaching more twos or more, is that my wings lack the enthusiasm or necessary chat. They'll lose their battle then the plus 1 will try and distract my one.

Any, saw two blondes huddles over a mobile phone, looked like thy were trying to figure out directions. I interjected with, "let me guess, you're to lost Swedes in London". They laughed and said "how did you guess?". I said "well the gorgeous faces gave it away...where are you trying to find". At the precise moment, some cuck thought he'd stare all three of us out, outside one of the high street shops, making the situation awkward, cos momentarily it looked like he may have been with me, and at that precise moment, the dynamics somewhat changed where the two chick became a tad skeptical.

I turned my back to him cos frankly, he was even in awe of my confidence or just a nosy fuck. While trying to help them, I took it as an opportunity to get some info on them: how long are they here; what do they plan on doing; roughly where they're staying etc etc.

Anyway, I think the stranger cramp my style and the chick kind of bottled up a bit. I let them go and kept it moving.

[duedue]

Went to a cafe and sat at the bar, right next to where they deliver the drinks. One of the baristas caught my eye, an 8 and seemed to be the low self esteem submissive type. After her shift was over she came sat near me. I talked to her a bit, she was studying for an exam. I plugged in my laptop and joked I was trapping her with the cord to make sure she studied well enough. A leggy girl (possibly a 10) camestood close to me waiting for her drink. I was nervous, all the baristas, male and female were around. I went for it and told her she seemed to be off to the gym. She said she wished so. I couldn't continue...

When leaving I told the barista I remove the cord but am confident she'd study hard enough. She said I think I see you soon. I thought I say "Will you miss me if I don't come" but though that'd be too much (mistake). Anyways I regard what she said as a green light. Getting her number would be difficult with all the colleagues around. I thought I write a back handed compliment on the back of a business card and hand it to her next time. What'd you think?

All in all was a "liberating" experience.

[TheMaleBrain]

I noticed that I haven't approached in A MONTH!
I was busy with work, and most of the time did not notice girls.

Was at the store today. The cashier was a tall HB6. The line was slow.
When I came up, she summed up and when I presented my credit card she asked for an ID.
Me: "Now you have an advantage"
HB6: <Unsure Face>
Me: "You know my name and see how tall I'm, and I don't know yours"
HB6: "My name is <HB6> and I'm 6""
Me: "Good for you. I like tall girls, I even dated one who is taller than me" (It's true)
HB6: "No way"
Me: "Yes. It was at the time I played pro"
HB6: "Well, my husband is my height"
Me: "Nice. You'll probably have tall kids, like my daughters"

Don't do married chicks, so ejected.

[TheMaleBrain]

Just open my mouth about not approaching and additional 2 approaches came up.
The first:
I was in a meeting at a corporation. Noticed the cute access control clerk. Slim, HB7 (maybe HB8). Long flowing brown-dark hair, early 20s and not looking intelligent.
Opened her with "I hope you are not bored", and she replied well.
Switched topic to nutrition as she looked tired. Caught her name during as someone called her by a wrong name. Went GALNUC and it developed well until I went for "Your boyfriend should be more relaxed and calm" and she said that he is. I politely inquired, but it seems she was telling the truth.
Wished her well and ejected.

The second:
Went to a social circle event. Virtually no options apart from a slim, medium brown hair HB6 about my age. Chatted her up and she lives near by. Teased her about her height and she responded well. She said she works from home on Monday and Thursday, so we should meet. Took the number.
Will see

[Alpone]

I was in LA earlier this year and did 7 approaches - this is after not having approached in awhile. Got blown out with 4 but 3 went over well. One of them asked to take a selfie together which was cool.

I also had a cute cashier initiate small talk this week beyond a perfunctory "how's your day". I was half asleep so I didn't take it very far - I'll probably see her again next time I go to that store.

[TheMaleBrain]

Went to a conference. Small (~200 people) and very little targets.
A cute petite chic was writing something on the board. HB7, 5"4 with heals, long flowing hair and glasses.
Opened her with: "What is the lecture about?"
HB7: "You should come and see"
Me: "I'm lecturing before, so you should come and see"
The interaction continued for a minute, but there was a crowd and she went on to engage other people.
Next

I was introduced to a female sitting down. Was unsure if she was HB5. We sat and talked and I did my usual routine and it worked. Then she stood up. She was FAT. Turns out she is HB4! Talked a little bit, included other people in the conversation and then left.
Next

Talked with a nerdy HB6. the engagement was enjoyable, but then she invited her father to the conversation. He was one of the organizers. That obviously did not went well.
Oh well

[Hazaer]

How would you guys approach/open a girl who bumped into you and says sorry (so chances of it being an IOI) at

(a) daytime in a mall/street etc?
(b) night venues eg. a pub?

'That's fine' or something along those lines is probably a conversation ending response. Thoughts?

[TheMaleBrain]

(01-02-2019 07:32 PM)Hazaer Wrote:  

How would you guys approach/open a girl who bumped into you and says sorry (so chances of it being an IOI) at

(a) daytime in a mall/street etc?
(b) night venues eg. a pub?

'That's fine' or something along those lines is probably a conversation ending response. Thoughts?

Would use probably a Cocky/Funny approach such as:
"Do you do this often?"
"How lucky I am"
"I like it when a girl get physical"

For day time would probably tone it down a little bit

[HD668B]

Recent approaches who got me laid:

- The burger approach
At a bar serving burgers, i sit not far from cutie, and just start eating my burger intensely while looking at her. Mayo and ketchup dripping everywhere, and im unapologetic. Shocked at first, she is quickly laughing and try to talk to me. I refuse to talk until I finish my burger and then finally take her FB.

-The casio glow approach
I have a casio special japan edition who is all black and illuminates blue. Its just cool ok. So im in a nightclub and all the dudes are trying hard to dance with girls. But instead I just show up next to this girl and slowly lift up my wrist to show my watch, which is completly dark until I light it up. She acts like wtf, but I dont back down and instead act like that was my 100k$ gold platinum rolex. Yada yada convo to ons.

-The awkward approach
This one is not for beginners (I know because a friend of mine tried it and failed hard). So the ultimate confidence is when you actually do stuff awkwardly because it amuse you and you choose to, not because you have no idea what you doing or are completely uncalibrated socially. Deep inside the other person can feel that too. So I have a beer in a bar, and I walk up to these 2 cuties with my beer holding up to my chest level like a total chode, I blurt out a shy "hi girls" and then storm away, but not far, just a few meters. The girls laugh and then get approached by some jocks but they keep looking at my direction until they finally come to me by themselves to open convo.

-The girlfriend approach
I should charge fckin bitcoin for that one. RVF exclusive. Best used in a spot in the bar / club where there is high traffic. Anytime a girl remotely bumps you, turn quickly around and say with a serious face " Sorry I have a girlfriend". Watch their reaction. Golden. For extra seasoned players, you can actually approach with that by tapping shoulders, and when she turns around "oh sorry I have girlfriend".

Gotta be creative guys. I call it the Trolling Approach. Is there technically a better way to show you are so high value you dont care at all? Its a soon to be copyrighted system.